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JOYEN (Pronouns: Perceived) is a Sadistic Rope Bondage Dominatrix and Burlesque Stripper, with expertise in the art of macabre and seduction. Her favorite style is aesthetically-pleasing and acrobatic tormenting rope, and Her interest lies in the realm of elegant fetish and erotica. Nothing delights Her Infernal Majesty more than those willing to completely surrender their darkest and most vulnerable selves (and wallets) in the dangerous embrace of Her rope.
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Dallas TX US
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In person & Online
Paris FR
I am a conscious kink facilitator and Dominatrix, passionate about creating transformative, empowering spaces for you to explore power dynamics, consent, and authentic self-expression. In our work together, you'll uncover your deepest desires, define clear boundaries, and tap into the liberating power of kink. With a focus on clear communication and mutual respect, I guide you through a journey of self-discovery, where vulnerability becomes strength and personal empowerment is key. Whether you're looking to release old limitations or step into your fullest self, my sessions offer the perfect blend of playfulness, intensity, pleasure, adventure and self-growth, helping you connect more deeply with your desires, your power, and the freedom within surrender. I offer personalized 1-2-1 sessions, group workshops, and interactive/educative talks, centered around exploring power dynamics, consent, and self-expression through conscious kink, sensuality, and energy work.
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What is CBT?
Cock and ball torture: the best kind of therapy.
CBT (cock and ball torture) is a form of BDSM or kink activity where there is consensual play involving the genitalia, specifically the penis and testicles. This may include squeezing, impact play, ball-busting or the use of specialised tools.
What makes it hot?
Some find arousal in CBT through the power dynamics, where activities like pain or stimulation can enhance the intensity of the experience. For some, the psychological aspects of control and submission can be arousing. CBT can be seen as a direct attack on a person's masculinity, making them feel very submissive. Additionally, the release of endorphins during pain play may contribute to pleasurable sensations for some individuals.
No, CBT can involve various sensations beyond pain, including gentle stimulation and psychological elements.
Yes, CBT can be consensually integrated into BDSM dynamics within a loving and trusting relationship.
Yes, CBT can extend beyond genitalia, incorporating surrounding areas for diverse sensations and experiences.
DO
Use appropriate tools: If incorporating tools or devices, choose those specifically designed for CBT, ensuring they are clean, in good condition, and suitable for the intended level of play.
Warm-up gradually: Start with light sensations and gradually escalate to more intense activities. This allows the body to acclimate and helps avoid sudden discomfort.
Establish safe words: Have clear and unmistakable safe words to communicate when a participant needs the activity to stop immediately. This is crucial for safety and consent.
Check circulation: Regularly check for signs of numbness, tingling, or discolouration during the session. Lack of blood circulation can lead to serious issues.
Prioritise hygiene: Ensure both the dominant and submissive participants maintain good hygiene to minimise the risk of infection, especially if there are breaks in the skin.
DON'T
Ignore pain signals: If the submissive participant expresses pain beyond the agreed-upon level or experiences unusual discomfort, stop the activity immediately and assess the situation.
Rush: Avoid rushing into intense activities without proper warm-up. Gradual escalation is crucial for safety and the overall experience.
Disregard aftercare: After the session, provide aftercare to address both physical and emotional needs. Ignoring aftercare can lead to post-play issues and emotional distress.
