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About me

My services are for

Women, Men, Couple

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

30s · Female

I speak

English, Dutch

Lexmy is a tantric priestess, facilitator and community creator devoted to exploring the depths of love, truth, and authentic connection.

Guided by Truth as her North Star, she walks the Tantric path as an embodied exploration of love, consciousness, and life-force energy. Through her work, she creates temple spaces and collective fields where the full spectrum of human experience is welcome - and whatever arises becomes an invitation into deeper intimacy with self, others, and life.

Rooted in devotional spiritual practice and a background in science and corporate business, Lexmy weaves together structure and surrender, eros and grounded presence, mysticism and clarity.

Her sessions and facilitation draws from many years of experience in embodiment, conscious intimacy, and relational practices. She is trauma-informed and has trained with organizations such as the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality (Layla Martin), the International School of Temple Arts (ISTA), HeartIQ, LiveTantra, and Awaken As Love - where she is also part of the faculty.

She loves working through the portal of love and sexuality as a path to liberation and self-realization, supporting awakening and transformation in all areas of life.

My qualifications

6–10 years of experience
8 qualifications

Trauma-informed tantra, conscious intimacy and embodiment for individuals, couples and groups. Private sessions, workshops, retreats, festivals and temples: love and sexuality as a path to liberation.

Education and training

  • Sexual Shadow Work Training HeartIQ, 2025
  • Facilitator Training (now part of faculty) Awaken As Love, 2024
  • Trauma Training for Tantra Professionals LiveTantra, 2023
  • VITA™ Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality, 2022
  • ISTA L1 Assistant ISTA (International School of Temple Arts), 2022
  • Yoga Teacher Training Samma Karuna (Thailand), 2017
  • MSc Health Sciences, cum laude VU Amsterdam, 2013
  • BSc Mathematics, cum laude VU Amsterdam, 2010

Career highlight

Guided 50+ temples, organized 4 tantra festivals (200+ each) and a 5-day conscious castle event for 100 - weaving tantra, temple arts and Burning Man culture. Facilitated in 12+ countries.

Services & Tags

Practitioner Lexmy Making Love With Life - Deepening Intimacy with Self, Others & Life
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