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Experiences I offer

About me

My services are for

Women, Men, Couple

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

40s · Male

I speak

English

I spent 18 years in corporate finance, and for much of that time I looked successful while quietly exhausted. I was a people-pleaser who struggled to say what I wanted, especially in relationships. Years of anxious dating, confused about consent & intimacy, and a panic-attack breaking point eventually led me to somatic work, and it changed me more than 7 years of talk therapy did.

That’s why I work through the body. We don’t only talk about your patterns. We notice where they live, like the tightening before you say yes when you mean no, and we practice something new while your nervous system feels safe enough to learn it.

My work is trauma-informed and consent-based, and you set the pace. I mostly work with women healing anxious attachment, people-pleasing, and self-abandonment, but also work with men committed to emotional growth and vulnerability. Most clients work with me in 3-month containers, because lasting change needs time and repetition.

If you’re ready to feel grounded and self-trusting in your relationships, book a free consultation and let’s see if we’re a fit.

My qualifications

6–10 years of experience
6 qualifications

Somatic relationship coaching, trauma-informed, body-based, & consent-based personal growth work to heal anxiety/people pleasing, offered in 3-month 1:1 containers.

In person or Virtually anywhere.

Education and training

  • ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC), 1,000+ hours of coaching
  • Trauma Training for Tantra Professionals Graduate (LiveTantra.com)
  • Somatic Emotional Release practitioner & Bodyworker
  • Next Level Embodiment Facilitation Trained
  • Consent Educator for small groups
  • Experienced Temple Night/Conscious Play party host

Career highlight

Co-creator of Consent Forward, S+ Community in Minneapolis

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FAQ

Why isn’t there a price per session?
The change I help with doesn’t happen in a single session. Patterns like people-pleasing and anxious attachment took years to form, often because they once kept you safe. Your nervous system learns something new through repetition and safety, not one big experience. So I work in 3-month containers with about six sessions and support in between, giving you time to build lasting self-trust and the ability to say what you really want. I’d rather you leave with real change than a good session that fades by next week. Investment is discussed on a free consultation call, once we both know what you need.
What if I’m not sure I can commit to three months?
Tell me on the call. We’ll talk honestly about what’s possible and what you’re ready for.
What happens on the consultation call?
A relaxed conversation about what’s going on for you and what you want. There’s no pressure and no pitch. If we’re a fit, I’ll explain how we’d work together. If we’re not, I’ll say so.
Is this therapy?
No. I’m a certified coach and somatic practitioner, not a licensed therapist. My work is trauma-informed and body-based, but it doesn’t diagnose or treat conditions. It can work alongside therapy.
Do you work with men, women, or couples?
Mostly individual women, and men who are committed to emotional growth. I also lead couples through learning lingam/yoni massage.
Is there touch in your sessions?
Only if you consent to it and actively desire it. It's NEVER required. In my work, I can help people have potent, transformational shifts with or without touch.
How do you approach consent and safety?
Consent comes first, ALWAYS! I check in with consent before every session. You choose the space and you are allowed to change your mind without any shame. A large part of my work is providing positive, corrective experiences for women with regards to consent by a man.
In-person or online?
Both. In-person in downtown Minneapolis, or virtual anywhere.

Services & Tags

Massage therapist Pleasure & intimacy coach Educator Tantra Play party host Healer Boundaries Conscious Sexuality Embodiment Healing bodywork Intimacy coaching Trauma healing Communication issues Couples coaching Couples Tantra Educational 1 on 1 Polyamory Coaching Group Retreats Private Workshops Pleasure education Anxious Attachment Breathwork Consent workshop Open relationship People Pleasing Pleasure Mapping Relationships Self exploration Somatic Bodywork Somatic coaching Temple Nights
Practitioner Lionheart
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