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Experiences I offer

About me

My services are for

Men, Couple, Women, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid

I offer experiences

Online/Virtual

Age & gender

40s · Female

I speak

English

Relationship & Dating Advice from a Sex Therapist:
Not therapy. Relationship questions nobody else answers.

Practical, expert guidance for people trying to figure out their relationships, dating lives, sexuality and desires.

I'm a sex therapist who believes that relationships are rarely as simple as “red flags” and “green flags.”

Sometimes you need a therapist. Sometimes you just need an experienced, sex-positive person who can look at the situation with you and ask the questions you haven't thought to ask.

I offer practical, judgment-free relationship and dating guidance for people navigating desire, dating, monogamy, non-monogamy, jealousy, attraction, communication and the complicated places where sex and relationships intersect.

This isn't therapy. It's a confidential space to bring the relationship question you're stuck on and get an informed outside perspective.

“Relationship and dating guidance is educational/coaching support and is not psychotherapy, mental-health treatment, diagnosis, or crisis care.”

My qualifications


3 years of experience

I'm an AASECT certified Sex Therapist. On Sensuali, I'm offerring my expertise in a different format: education, conversation, and practical relationship and sexuality advice- not psychotherapy.

Career highlight

Run a successful private practice and have been interviewed for multiple media outlets.

Education and training

AASECT Certified Sex Therapist who graduated from Sexual Health Alliance.

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FAQ

Can I see you for sex therapy?
If you reside in California, yes! Please reach out via my website for more information and to contact me to schedule.
What can I talk to you about?
Almost anything involving sex, dating, desire or relationships. You might be wondering whether you're settling, questioning your attraction to your partner, navigating a crush, struggling with jealousy, considering opening your relationship, dating after a long-term relationship, or simply trying to understand what you want. If you're stuck on a relationship question, I'm happy to explore it with you.
Is this therapy?
No. These sessions are educational and advisory rather than psychotherapy. I'm drawing on my professional experience as a sex therapist to offer an informed, outside perspective on your situation. This isn't diagnosis or treatment, and I won't try to turn your relationship question into a therapy session.

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