Every control freak's dream kink.
ReflectorForHire
•Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
urownerlili
Content creator, Erotic audio, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are Online
Female - Pansexual
Denver CO US
✨Your favorite bratty Succubus and nurturing Nymph ✨ Hi, My name is Lili! 🎀 I am a Findom looking for Finsubs. I do accept other kinks, but Findom must be the primary one. I have been in the kink/BDSM community for over 14 years as both a sub and a domme. I really enjoy creating long-term relationships with subs (if the sub wants more than just a session). I think its super important to build trust so that I can really psychologically dominant my subs. Additionally, I do offer Aftercare post-session, even if it's just something like a Drain. Some of my favorite dynamics/kinks are: Findomme/Finsub 🐷💵 MommyDomme/SoftDomme 💕 Goddess Worship 🙇♂️ Feet Worship 👣 Owner/Pet (Pet Play) 🐾 Brat/Loser 🖤 Beta/Alpha 🐺 GFE (Girlfriend Experience) 🥰 Cucking
nausilove
BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Tokyo JP
Tallest and happiest escort in the world :D
Dr_dom_travels
Content creator, Erotic audio, BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Male - Pansexual, Demisexual
San Leandro CA US
Kinky Shibari Rigger willing to provide rope experiences in person or for events.
missangelafromhell
BDSM, Kinkster, Therapist & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Mexico City MX
Nothing youve ever imagine
jrsamani
Erotic audio, Photographer, Muse, Content creator, Artist & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Male
Donostia-San Sebastian ES
SirKane
BDSM, Kinkster & Massage
Services are In person
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
• Trans Male • Sensual Sadist • Strap Enthusiast • Mean Impact Top • Great Massages • Amazing Company Feel free to ask any questions!
Robinkeane
Massage, Content creator, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Bisexual, Queer, Pansexual
New York NY US
Hairy alternative sweetheart here for laughter and fun
punktantrika
Content creator & Massage
Services are In person
Female - Sapiosexual
Leiden NL
Pleasure is a spiritual power
potentialsubs
Writer, BDSM, Kinkster & Massage
Services are Online
Gender fluid - Straight, Bicurious
Singapore SG
aBrandi_kink
Content creator, Erotic audio, Photographer, Writer, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
El Paso TX US
Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.
00hmxm1
Artist, Dancer, Muse, Kinkster & BDSM
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
New York NY US
What is orgasm control?
Every control freak's dream kink.
Orgasm control refers to the intentional manipulation or restraint of an individual's sexual climax, often done by a partner. This can involve delaying the orgasm, denying it altogether, or intensifying the experience through various techniques and activities. The practice requires a high level of trust and communication between partners, as it involves a nuanced exploration of pleasure and arousal.
What makes it hot?
What makes orgasm control exciting is the heightened anticipation and intensity it adds to intimate moments. The deliberate delay or denial of orgasm builds a strong sense of desire and arousal, creating a more profound release when finally allowed. The power dynamics involved can also be exhilarating, with one partner surrendering control and the other taking on the role of orchestrating pleasure. The excitement lies in the emotional and physical intensity.
When practiced consensually and with open communication, orgasm control is generally safe. However, it's important to be aware of your partner's physical and emotional well-being throughout the experience.
Approach the conversation with sensitivity and communicate your desires openly. Emphasise the mutual exploration of pleasure and discuss any concerns or boundaries your partner may have.
Techniques vary and can include edging (delaying climax), denial, sensory play, or the use of certain devices. Experimenting with different methods can help discover what works best for both partners.
DO
Communication and consent: Openly discuss desires, boundaries, and comfort levels before exploring orgasm control. Obtain explicit consent and ensure ongoing communication throughout the experience.
Build trust: Establish a foundation of trust between partners. Trust is crucial in orgasm control, as it involves vulnerability and surrender. Always prioritise your partner's emotional well-being.
Variety and exploration: Experiment with different techniques and activities to find what works best for both partners. Explore a variety of sensations, and be receptive to feedback to enhance the overall experience.
DON'T
Assume readiness: Never assume that your partner is ready for orgasm control without explicit consent. Respect their boundaries and preferences, and be attentive to cues during intimate moments.
Ignore limits: Respect any established limits and boundaries set by your partner. Pushing too far or too fast can lead to discomfort or emotional distress, undermining the trust essential for orgasm control.
Neglect aftercare: After an orgasm control session, provide emotional support and aftercare. Discuss feelings, ensure your partner feels secure, and address any emotional or physical needs that may arise.
