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rafa_el_M

Male , Bisexual
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Sex, healing, and play!

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About me

I’m a 17yr Tantra practitioner/teacher, 15yr life coach; and artists all my life. I love learning new modalities and doing research! Especially researching sexuality and relating in my personal life and with friends/lovers! I’m also queer and eager to explore intimate/sexual connections with men and women!

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New York, NY, US

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More about Rafael Martinez

rafa_el_M
Bisexual Male
My experiences are for Female, Couple, Male, Trans
48 years old
Undergrad
5'11 ft
Sometimes
No
No Party
A few Tattoos
A few Piercings

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