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I’m a 17yr Tantra practitioner/teacher, 15yr life coach; and artists all my life. I love learning new modalities and doing research! Especially researching sexuality and relating in my personal life and with friends/lovers! I’m also queer and eager to explore intimate/sexual connections with men and women!
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- rafa_el_M
- Bisexual Male
- My experiences are for Female, Couple, Male, Trans
- 48 years old
- Undergrad
- 5'11 ft
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- A few Tattoos
- A few Piercings
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