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Sex and relationship coach, breathwork and meditation facilitator, and full-time nomad. I believe the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one with yourself—how you treat yourself sets the tone for everything else.
I’m all about slow living and romanticising the everyday—morning coffee in the sun, late-night walks in a new city, turning even the smallest moments into something worth savouring. Pleasure, connection, and play are at the centre of everything I do—whether that’s through my work or just how I move through the world. If you love a good mix of deep chats and not taking life too seriously, we’ll probably get along just fine.
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- Straight Female (Her/She)
- 30 years old
- White/Caucasian
- I speak English
- 163 cm
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