Browse Sex Therapists in NYC

Discover a variety of sex therapists in NYC. Sex therapy usually takes place in private sessions and can be for individuals or couples. It helps people gently work through challenges around intimacy, desire, pleasure, and connection, so they can feel more at ease in their sexual lives.

Shelby Terrell, LMSW Artist New York
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Shelby Terrell, LMSW

Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Pleasure informed Therapist, Coach, & Intimacy Coordinator

1 service

Artist BDSM Coach Educator Erotic creator Kinkster Therapist Speaker

Unbound Collective Artist New York
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3 experiences

Unbound Collective

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Contemporary Twists on Ancient healing arts

3 events

Artist BDSM Coach Designer Educator Erotic creator Kinkster Massage Therapist Model Muse Performer Shibari artist Tantric Practicioner Therapist

nikitafernandes Educator New York
1 experience

nikitafernandes

Online/Virtual

New York NY US

I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I graduated with my Master’s in Counseling in Mental Health and Wellness and a dual degree in LGBT Health, Education, and Social Services from New York University. I also hold a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with a background in Women and Gender Studies from George Mason University. I identify as a queer South Asian immigrant woman. I’m also neurodivergent and non-monogamous. Aside from being a therapist, I have volunteered as a crisis counselor for the Trevor Project, worked as a graduate assistant for the New York University LGBTQ+ Center, and helped in the planning of social justice conferences. I approach therapy with the intention to understand and connect with my clients as fellow humans. My own journey as a queer South Asian neurodivergent woman, along with the experiences of those close to me, deeply shape my approach. Building a genuine relationship with my clients is my top priority, as I believe it is the biggest predictor of therapeutic success. As a person of color, I actively challenge oppressive structures that have long been dominated by Western white culture. Jiddu Krishnamurti said that it is no measure of health to be adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and I do not see therapy as a way to numb the pain that is caused by systemic oppression but rather a way to empower clients to have compassion for themselves.

1 service

Educator Kinkster Therapist

MxValentina BDSM New York
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2 experiences

MxValentina

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Precision, Power, and the Softest Cruelty You’ll Ever Crave

2 services

BDSM Dom Shibari artist Fetishist Kinkster Erotic creator Author Therapist

Venus Submissive New York
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Venus

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Sensual erotic therapy through presence, touch and deep permission

Submissive Kinkster Educator Tantric Practicioner Erotic creator Muse Therapist Coach

nesscooper

In person

New York NY US

Within my sex coaching and therapy practice I offer support to individuals, couples and polyamorous groups. I have over 15 years experience supporting people with intimacy and sex related matters, and have previously run support groups for polyamorous people in Norwich UK. I am trained in psychotherapy, and have higher diplomas and post-grad qualifications in human sexuality, couples work, contemporary relationships, and LGBTQIA+. I have attended several years of kink-specific training and how to support clients navigate kink through psychotherapy methods. I am open to support those with what some therapist may consider extreme or matter that don't show-up on your general google search. I offer online talk therapy sessions. What I can support you with: - navigating kink in your relationships - mismatched libido - sexual pain related matters - trouble communicating intimacy - Pelvic floor issues - disability and mental health - autism - working through feelings of stuckness - trauma - depression - more. My booking system is done via email.

Therapist

ReflectorForHire

In person & Online/Virtual

New York NY US

Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.

Muse Photographer Artist BDSM Kinkster Coach Educator Massage Therapist Therapist Erotic creator

Finding the Right Sex Therapist in NYC

Finding the Right Sex Therapist in NYC

What is a sex therapist?

A sex therapist is a licensed mental health professional who specialises in supporting people with concerns related to sex, intimacy, relationships, and identity.

A sex therapist helps individuals and couples navigate emotional and relational challenges connected to their sexual lives. This may include desire differences, communication issues, shame, past experiences, identity exploration, or difficulty feeling pleasure.

Sex therapy usually takes place in private sessions and can be for individuals or couples. It helps people work through challenges around intimacy, desire, pleasure, and connection in a safe and structured setting.

Many therapy sessions are solely conversation-based, though other therapists may integrate somatic or body-awareness techniques depending on their training.

A sex therapist in NYC works with you to untangle patterns, beliefs, or emotional blocks that may be affecting your sexual wellbeing.

 

The sex therapy you won’t find anywhere else


At Sensuali, we believe sex therapy can look like more than a conversation in a room.

While talk-based therapy is powerful and widely available on our platform, we also embrace forward-thinking, body-based approaches that recognise healing does not only happen through words.

When it comes to sex, many challenges live in the nervous system and the body. Trauma can be stored physically. Confidence often grows through practice, safety, and regulation, not just discussion.

That is why you can also find somatic healing, embodied therapy, group workshops, pleasure-first spaces, and therapists who integrate movement, breath, and guided experiences into their work.

Healing comes in many forms. On Sensuali, sex therapy is not one shape. It is expansive, evolving, and rooted in both awareness and embodiment.

Sex therapists exist as part of our wider category of Wellness & Educators on Sensuali, where you can find sexual wellness professionals across the world offering on online and in-person services.

 

 

What types of sex therapists can you find in NYC?

New York City has a diverse and progressive community of sex therapists.

On Sensuali, you can find sex therapists in NYC with expertise in:

  • LGBTQIA+ identity and relationships

  • Ethical non-monogamy and polyamory

  • Kink and BDSM dynamics

  • Restructuring beliefs shaped by religious or purity culture

  • Neurodivergence and sexuality

  • Non-monogamous relationship structures

  • Couples therapy focused on intimacy and communication

  • Trauma-informed sexual healing

Some sex therapists are also licensed mental health therapists who integrate broader psychological support into their practice.

You may also find collectives made up of therapists who host pleasure-first healing nights centred around kink, desire, and embodiment.

Some practitioners blend therapy with tantric or somatic approaches, offering healing somatic touch therapy alongside traditional talk-based sessions.

Each sex therapist in NYC brings their own philosophy, framework, and specialisation.

 

What happens during sex therapy in NYC?

Sex therapy in NYC does not look the same for everyone.

For many people, it begins with conversation. Your therapist may ask about your history, current concerns, relationship dynamics, and what you would like to understand or shift. The space is confidential, structured, and non-judgemental.

Sessions may focus on:

  • Communication patterns

  • Desire discrepancies

  • Shame or anxiety around sex

  • Emotional blocks

  • Relationship conflict

  • Identity exploration

On Sensuali, sex therapy can also extend beyond talk-based work. Some therapists are somatically trained and integrate body awareness, nervous system regulation, breathwork, or guided embodied practices.

In certain cases, therapy may include structured, consent-based touch as part of healing, particularly when working with stored trauma or disconnection from the body.

Sex therapy can be conversational, experiential, body-based, or a blend of approaches. The pace, format, and depth are guided by your comfort and the therapist’s training.

Why explore sex therapy in NYC?


You might explore sex therapy if you:

  • Feel disconnected from pleasure or desire

  • Struggle to communicate your needs

  • Experience shame or anxiety around sex

  • Are navigating non-monogamy or polyamory

  • Are exploring kink or identity and want professional support

  • Want to improve intimacy within your relationship

  • Are healing from religious or purity-based sexual beliefs

  • Want a healthier, more confident relationship with your body

Sex therapy offers structured support for exploring these themes in a grounded and professional way.

 

Sex therapist NYC for individuals and couples

Sex therapy can be deeply supportive for both individuals and couples.

Individual therapy may focus on confidence, desire, identity, shame, or past experiences.

Couples therapy often centres around communication, intimacy, trust, and navigating differences in sexual needs.

Working with a sex therapist in NYC allows couples to explore these topics with professional guidance rather than navigating them alone.

 

Finding a sex therapist in NYC on Sensuali

Sensuali allows you to explore sex therapists in NYC openly and intentionally.

You can browse therapist profiles, read about their training and specialisations, and understand how they approach sex therapy. 

You can also explore beyond therapy, and find alternative pleasure-first healing experiences. View all intimacy experiences happening in NYC.

Sensuali helps you find sex therapists in NYC who prioritise consent, inclusivity, emotional safety, and growth.

Create a free member account to inquire about any experience or reach out to a therapist on Sensuali.

 

Yes. Many sex therapists in NYC specialise in kink-aware and ethically non-monogamous relationship support. You can review therapist profiles on Sensuali to find someone aligned with your lifestyle.

A sex therapist is a licensed mental health professional who helps people work through psychological and relational challenges connected to sex and intimacy. A sex coach focuses more on education, confidence, and forward-looking personal growth.

No. Sex therapy can be for individuals or couples. Many people attend alone to better understand their own desires, identity, or emotional patterns. Even if you are in a relationship, you can attend sex therapy alone to work through things individually.

DO

  • Do be honest about your goals and concerns

  • Do choose a therapist whose expertise aligns with your needs

  • Do allow time for trust to build

  • Do stay open to reflection and self-awareness

  • Do communicate if something feels unclear or uncomfortable

DON'T

  • Don’t expect instant change

  • Don’t minimise your own experiences

  • Don’t continue with a therapist if you feel unsafe or judged

  • Don’t assume therapy is only for crisis

  • Don’t rush the process

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From $225 Online/virtual

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New York, (NY) US