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Unbound Collective
In person & Online
New York NY US
Contemporary Twists on Ancient healing arts
1 event
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MxValentina
In person & Online
New York NY US
Precision, Power, and the Softest Cruelty You’ll Ever Crave
2 services
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Venus
In person & Online
New York NY US
Sensual erotic therapy through presence, touch and deep permission
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Shelby Terrell
In person & Online
New York NY US
Pleasure informed Therapist, Coach, & Intimacy Coordinator
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nesscooper
In person
New York NY US
Within my sex coaching and therapy practice I offer support to individuals, couples and polyamorous groups. I have over 15 years experience supporting people with intimacy and sex related matters, and have previously run support groups for polyamorous people in Norwich UK. I am trained in psychotherapy, and have higher diplomas and post-grad qualifications in human sexuality, couples work, contemporary relationships, and LGBTQIA+. I have attended several years of kink-specific training and how to support clients navigate kink through psychotherapy methods. I am open to support those with what some therapist may consider extreme or matter that don't show-up on your general google search. I offer online talk therapy sessions. What I can support you with: - navigating kink in your relationships - mismatched libido - sexual pain related matters - trouble communicating intimacy - Pelvic floor issues - disability and mental health - autism - working through feelings of stuckness - trauma - depression - more. My booking system is done via email.
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ReflectorForHire
In person & Online
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
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nikitafernandes
Online
New York NY US
I am a Licensed Mental Health Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist based in New York City. I graduated with my Master’s in Counseling in Mental Health and Wellness and a dual degree in LGBT Health, Education, and Social Services from New York University. I also hold a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology with a background in Women and Gender Studies from George Mason University. I identify as a queer South Asian immigrant woman. I’m also neurodivergent and non-monogamous. Aside from being a therapist, I have volunteered as a crisis counselor for the Trevor Project, worked as a graduate assistant for the New York University LGBTQ+ Center, and helped in the planning of social justice conferences. I approach therapy with the intention to understand and connect with my clients as fellow humans. My own journey as a queer South Asian neurodivergent woman, along with the experiences of those close to me, deeply shape my approach. Building a genuine relationship with my clients is my top priority, as I believe it is the biggest predictor of therapeutic success. As a person of color, I actively challenge oppressive structures that have long been dominated by Western white culture. Jiddu Krishnamurti said that it is no measure of health to be adjusted to a society that is profoundly sick and I do not see therapy as a way to numb the pain that is caused by systemic oppression but rather a way to empower clients to have compassion for themselves.
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The city for those that never sleep.
Providing sexy solutions, one session at a time.
What city could be better to explore sensuality freely? New York is known for its open minded community where expression and individuality is encouraged. Whatever you're looking for, we can guarantee that somewhere in New York City, you'll find it.
Must-do experience: Burlesque.
Book it on Sensuali: Erotic photoshoots with Leo Brooklyn.
Did you know that? NYC is home to the world’s first burlesque festival. The New York Burlesque Festival, which started in 2002, attracts performers and audiences from all over the world to celebrate the art of striptease.
A bitesize spicy guide to NYC 🍎
Erotic photoshoots: Erotic art has to be one of our favourite things to do in NYC. There are many talented artists in the city's creative hub, but erotic photographer Leo Brooklyn is one of our favourites. You can choose between a 1 hour or a 2 hour shoot, featuring a few different looks and you're guaranteed 10-20 final photos from the shoot. This is the perfect way to step into your sensual power and celebrate your sexiness. Book a session here.
Thermal baths: NYC is famous for it's buzzing wellness scene, particularly the various bathhouses in the city. Aire Ancient Baths is our choice for the perfect sensual escape for singles and couples in the city. In a solely candlelight underground space, you can dip from salt bath to Jacuzzi, steam room to plunge pool. From the darkness of the space to the quiet-voices policy, Aire is a sensory experience like no other.
Kink workshops: Time for something educational?Workshops and talks are all over NYC. There are many sex educators and experts facilitating these events but Lola Jean is one of our favourites. From squirting to role-play, Lola holds regular events to talk and learn about various kinks.
Shibari: Wanna get ropey? Let's explore NYC's lively Shibari community. NYC Shibari host regular performances if you're interesting in watching, or the renowned organisation Temple will give you a class that you'll never forget.
Body painting: We can't go to New York without immersing ourselves in the most unique of sensual activities available. Booking a private body painting experience with Deeszone, NY-based figurative artist is a great way to get to know the sensual scene more intimately.
Sensual speakeasies: Did you really go to NYC if you didn't sip on a drink in at least one of NYC's seductive bars. Our favourite red velvet-clad spots include The Nines, Fresh Kills and Pearlbox.
Burlesque: Our must-do activity in New York is always going to watch some Burlesque. The scene here is arguably the best in the world and there's a lot to choose from. Venus Cuffs is famous for hosting Burlesque events in New York. Other shoutouts are Hot & Fresh and Brolesque.
Play party: No sensual city guide is complete without a party! Want to celebrate in true New York style? Head to the 420-friendly party, NSFW. If you're looking for something a little queerer, go to The Wink. Read our full NYC sex party guide for more info.
New York City is the perfect place for sensual exploration because it offers a mix of diversity, creativity, and boldness that inspires every sense.
Vibrant energy: NYC’s electric atmosphere encourages spontaneity and curiosity. The vibe alone pushes you to try new things and embrace the unknown.
Cultural diversity: The city’s melting pot of cultures brings a world of sensual experiences—exotic cuisines, global music, and performances inspired by traditions from around the globe.
Artistic boldness: NYC’s art scene thrives on pushing boundaries. From provocative exhibits at the Museum of Sex to underground erotic cabarets in Brooklyn, the city celebrates creativity that is raw and unapologetically daring.
Iconic nightlife: NYC’s legendary nightlife offers everything from intimate speakeasies with candlelit corners to boundary-pushing play parties and themed events, catering to moods that range from sultry sophistication to playful decadence.
Celebrated freedom of expression: NYC thrives on individuality and acceptance, making it a place where people feel free to explore their desires without judgment. Its LGBTQ+ scene, BDSM communities, and sensual wellness spaces are as inclusive as they are innovative.
The city that never sleeps: Sensual exploration in NYC can happen anytime. Late-night jazz shows, sunrise rooftop yoga, and 24-hour diners ensure that indulgence is always just around the corner.
Endless surprises: NYC is full of hidden gems waiting to be discovered, whether it’s a speakeasy disguised as a barbershop or a secret garden terrace in the middle of the bustling city. The ongoing thrill of the New York makes it a perfect place for pursuing your pleasure.
Art, BDSM and Workshop experiences are popular on Sensuali. Dominatrix sessions, erotic photoshoots, body painting and kink workshops are just a few of the experiences you can book in NYC on Sensuali.
There are many ways to explore sensuality as a beginner in NYC. Here are some of our favourites.
Art & Creativity:
- Life and figure drawing classes.
- Burlesque performances.
Kink & BDSM:
- Kink workshops.
- Shibari classes.
Companionship & Intimacy
- Sensual dinner date with a companion or sugar baby.
- Group discussions on emotional connection.
Wellness & Education
- Sensual touch massage.
- Spa day in an NYC bathhouse.
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- Kink workshops.
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- Kink workshops.