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Roja
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Nurturing yet strict dominatrix, I create a safe space for you to explore your unique subspace and deepest desires
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Professional dancer and pole dancer, amateur masseuse and experienced bdsm and fetish enjoyer, I offer an open mind and a shame free environment for you to explore and relish in your sensuality. One of my absolute favourite things is witnessing people take pleasure, no matter what the source of that pleasure is; so let us figure out together what deeply turns you on.
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saararei
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Berlin DE
Saara Rei is a workshop facilitator and performance artist with a background in music, dance, education, and public speaking. Saara's work generally centers around the exploration of suffering, both physical and emotional. Through their kink practice, Saara has come to understand that suffering comes from the comparison of what has been or could be to the present moment. And with that, Saara enjoys teaching about how to use suffering as a path to presence and enjoyment in life. Having a Ph.D. in mathematics, Saara’s academic experience adds an intellectual flair to complement their performative approach to bodywork. Playfulness and humor make up a big chunk of Saara's personality and approach to life, giving their workshops a very exploitative and light atmosphere, even while approaching some of the heaviest of topics.
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What is wax play?
Candlelit dinner now, candlelit party later.
Wax play is a form of sensual or BDSM activity involving the use of melted wax from candles or other heat sources on a person's skin. Typically practiced in a controlled environment, it involves dripping warm wax onto the body, creating varying sensations ranging from gentle warmth to intense heat. This activity is often associated with eroticism, power exchange dynamics, and exploration of sensory experiences.
What makes it hot?
What makes wax play appealing is its versatility in sensory stimulation. The sensation of warm wax dripping onto the skin can evoke a range of feelings, from a soothing warmth to an intense thrill, depending on the temperature and type of wax used. Additionally, the visual aspect of watching the wax slowly solidify on the skin can add an element of aesthetic pleasure. Many find wax play an artistic activity. The element of trust and vulnerability, coupled with the potential for sensory overload, heightens the excitement and connection between partners.
Yes, wax play can be safe when practiced with caution and appropriate preparation. It's essential to use low-temperature candles specifically designed for wax play and to test the temperature on a small area of skin before proceeding.
Paraffin wax or soy wax candles are commonly used for wax play as they melt at lower temperatures, reducing the risk of burns. Avoid using beeswax or other high-temperature candles.
To remove wax safely, allow it to cool and solidify before gently peeling it off the skin. Avoid using sharp objects or pulling forcefully, as this can cause skin irritation. Any remaining residue can be cleaned off with warm water and mild soap.
DO
Do communicate clearly with your partner about boundaries, preferences, and any concerns before engaging in wax play.
Temperature test: Test the temperature of the wax on a small area of skin before proceeding to ensure it's comfortable for your partner.
Protect: Use a drop cloth or towel to protect surfaces from wax drips and spills during the session.
Safe word: Have a word or signal in place to immediately stop the activity if either partner becomes uncomfortable or experiences distress.
Aftercare: Prioritise aftercare, which may include gentle massage, hydration, and emotional support, to ensure the well-being of both partners post-session.
DON'T
High temperatures: Don't use high-temperature candles or wax sources, as they can cause serious burns and injury.
Avoid sensitive areas: Don't pour wax directly onto sensitive areas of the body, such as the face, genitals, or open wounds.
No inebriation: Don't engage in wax play if either partner is under the influence of drugs or alcohol, as it can impair judgment and increase the risk of accidents..
Rush: Don't rush the process. Take time to build trust, establish boundaries, and ensure both partners are comfortable and consenting throughout the experience.
