Finding high-quality films that represent lesbian relationships or BDSM in a thoughtful and engaging manner can be a challenge. Many portrayals of these topics in cinema tend to fall into stereotypes or sensationalism, often missing the nuance and depth of real-life experiences. It’s rare to encounter films that handle these subject matters with both respect and complexity, presenting BDSM and lesbianism in a way that feels authentic rather than exploitative, and portraying both positive and negative experiences.
So how about films that portray BDSM and lesbianism all in one? Whilst few and far between, some standout movies do exist, managing to navigate this tricky terrain with grace. Here are our 3 lesbian BDSM films.
The Duke of Burgundy (2014)
Directed by British arthouse national treasure, Peter Strickland, The Duke of Burgundy is a visually striking film that explores a nuanced lesbian relationship with a focus on BDSM. Set in a beautifully crafted, fictional European world, it centres on Cynthia and Evelyn, who engage in a consensual power exchange. The film is known for its lush visuals and inventive storytelling, which highlight the beauty and complexity of their BDSM practices. Strickland’s artistic approach creates a dreamlike atmosphere that adds a layer of sophistication to their dynamic, making it a standout example of how BDSM can be portrayed with sensitivity and style.
The Handmaiden (2016)
The Handmaiden, directed by Park Chan-wook, is a South Korean thriller which has been described as ‘A service sub’s dream film’. The story follows a young woman who becomes a handmaiden to a wealthy heiress, only to get caught up in a tangled plot of deception and power struggles. With its sharp twists and compelling performances, The Handmaiden uses BDSM as a key part of the storyline, and as a tool to examine power dynamics and desire.
The Daughters of Fire (2018)
The Daughters of Fire, directed by Argentinian filmmaker, Albertina Carri, is a striking and intimate arthouse film that could be described as somewhat of an erotic oddesy. Set against the backdrop of a secluded rural environment, the film explores the lives of three women on the road, freeing themselves of patriarchal ideals and having sex at every opportunity. Carri’s approach combines raw realism with artistic, free-flow storytelling. Whilst the story isn’t completely focused on BDSM, the scenes that do explore the topic are delightful, poetic and a one-of-a-kind watch.
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Iso
Iso is a writer and filmmaker based in East London. She is passionate about all things erotic and leads a sexy, shame-free life in hope that she can inspire others to do the same. Originally from a Northern seaside town, she is naturally drawn to the best things in life: candyfloss, trashy karaoke bars and heart-shaped sunglasses.
