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From €240 · Service · In person Private Rope Experience (DCR) A private rope session in my own style, DCR – Dan's Creative Roping.We start with a conversation: what you are curious about, what you want to feel, your limits and your body's needs. Then I tie you –… Private Rope Experience (DCR)
From €239 · Event · In person · 20 Aug 2027 | 17:00 Sapphic ropeXchange – Shibari Weekend for Women Loving Women (2027) For a whole weekend we open a space on a houseboat in Berlin-Spandau for people who want to experience shibari in a sapphic context: cis and trans women (and enbies who feel they belong here) who love… Sapphic ropeXchange – Shibari Weekend for Women Loving Women (2027)
From €219 · Event · In person · 06 Aug 2027 | 18:00 ropeXchange on the Boat – Shibari Weekend (Summer 2027) The ropeXchange is a shibari weekend for kinky rope enthusiasts and everyone who wants to become one, organised by Dan Apus Monoceros.Learn, laugh, rope: the weekend is about tying, and just as much a… ropeXchange on the Boat – Shibari Weekend (Summer 2027)
From €219 · Event · In person · 26 Feb 2027 | 18:00 ropeXchange – Shibari Weekend (Winter/Spring 2027) The ropeXchange is a shibari weekend for kinky rope enthusiasts and everyone who wants to become one, organised by Dan Apus Monoceros.Learn, laugh, rope: the weekend is about tying, and just as much a… ropeXchange – Shibari Weekend (Winter/Spring 2027)
From €89 · Event · In person · 07 Nov | 19:00 Safer (Hu-)Manhandling – Passion Fair Hamburg FULLY BOOKED – waitlist via danapusmonoceros.comA workshop on consensual rough physical handling of the sub during a session, taught by Dan Apus Monoceros at the Passion fair in Hamburg.Manhandling co… Safer (Hu-)Manhandling – Passion Fair Hamburg
From €39 · Event · In person · 06 Nov | 20:00 Kinkstarter Bondage – Passion Fair Hamburg A compact rope bondage workshop for beginners at the Passion fair in Hamburg, taught by Dan Apus Monoceros.We focus on what really matters when you start: simple, effective ties that are easy to learn… Kinkstarter Bondage – Passion Fair Hamburg
From €270 · Service · Online Couples Coaching – Online Coaching by video call for couples and polycules who want to explore kink together or are working through questions in their relationship.Typical topics: different desires or kinks, coming out to a va… Couples Coaching – Online
From €170 · Service · Online Kink Reflection Coaching 1:1 – Online A one-to-one coaching session by video call for kinky people who want to understand their role, their desires and their patterns more clearly.Typical questions: What do I actually need from D/s? Why d… Kink Reflection Coaching 1:1 – Online
From €210 · Service · In person Couples Coaching – Kink & Relationships Coaching for couples and polycules who want to explore kink together or are working through questions in their relationship.Typical topics: different desires or kinks, coming out to a vanilla partner,… Couples Coaching – Kink & Relationships
From €135 · Service · In person Kink Reflection Coaching 1:1 A one-to-one coaching session for kinky people who want to understand their role, their desires and their patterns more clearly.Typical questions: What do I actually need from D/s? Why do I feel stuck… Kink Reflection Coaching 1:1

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My services are for

Women, Men, Couple, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid, Intersex

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

40s · Male · Non Binary · Gender fluid

I speak

English, German

I'm Dan Apus Monoceros – rope artist, kink coach and educator based in Berlin-Mitte. I have practised and taught BDSM for around 25 years and developed my own rope style: DCR – Dan's Creative Roping. I teach regularly at events and institutions across Germany and Europe.

My work brings physical intensity and clear negotiation together. I teach manhandling and rope in private workshops, I tie in private rope sessions, and I coach individuals and couples who want to understand their kink, their roles and their relationships better – including open and polyamorous ones.

Whatever we do, we talk first: about your wishes, your limits and what you need afterwards. Sessions take place in my studio in Berlin-Mitte or online, in German or English.

My qualifications

20+ years of experience

Rope (DCR), manhandling workshops and kink & relationship coaching for individuals and couples, in Berlin-Mitte and online.

Career highlight

Teaches regularly in Germany & Europe: Passion (Hamburg), Obscene (Karlsruhe), Darklands (Antwerp), School of Sex Therapy (USA). Creator of DCR, organiser of ropeXchange Berlin. JOYclub Sex Educator.

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