Introducing London Dominatrix: Veronica Viper
From chastity to counselling, London-based Dominatrix and BDSM wellness specialist, Veronica Viper is the psychological kinkster you've always dreamed of.
As a ‘multi-Hyphenate talented kinkster’, Veronica Viper is a London-based professional Dominatrix and content creator, also offering kink-aware wellness services such as counselling and education. We caught up with her to hear all about her background in BDSM.
- Could you introduce yourself and what you do?
- How would you describe your approach/style to being a domme in a nutshell?
- What specific services do you offer in session?
- What makes a session special to you?
- What is a small and unexpected pleasure about being a Domme?
- Tell us something that you wish more people knew about being a Domme.
- What have you learned about yourself and secondarily, about life from Domming?
- Any advice for newbie Dommes?
Could you introduce yourself and what you do?
I’m Veronica, a lifestyle and ProDomme, Kink aware Counsellor, Therapist and Kink educator, I do a whole host of things to make that happen, from in person counselling, Domination sessions, hosting workshops to running a safeguarding team at parties.
How would you describe your approach/style to being a domme in a nutshell?
It’s quite multifaceted and varies from person to person, but it usually starts with my psychological training, working out what makes someone tick, from their kinks to their biggest fears. From there it’s a fun combination of a dominant personality and a love of control.
What specific services do you offer in session?
I offer in person and online dominations sessions to worthy submissives, couples and occasional fetishists of any gender or sexuality. I’ll offer almost any (legal) kink, some just require being earned with long term dedication and servitude.
My personal favourite kinks to explore in session will always be chastity, sadism and humiliation/degradation.
What makes a session special to you?
Each and every one is so different and I love the range of things I get to do. It’s the individual moments for me, the moment someone surrenders, picks up a new kink, or gets to do something they’ve been afraid or nervous to do for so long.
What is a small and unexpected pleasure about being a Domme?
I love the way domming carries over into my vanilla life. There’s something wonderful about being a woman comfortable in her own power, and other people definitely notice.
Tell us something that you wish more people knew about being a Domme.
That we’re humans before we are Dommes, the same way that subs are human before they’re submissives. Whether personally or professionally it’s often assumed Dommes are fantasy dispensers 24/7 and often hold us to unrealistic standards.
What have you learned about yourself and secondarily, about life from Domming?
Domming has taught me more about boundaries than I ever thought possible.
This lifestyle has also taught me so many things about myself. I think the biggest is that I’m capable of great cruelty, if given the chance.
Any advice for newbie Dommes?
Boundaries are mandatory, train in everything with someone more experienced.
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