Sometimes the best view is from the sidelines.
SirKane
BDSM, Kinkster & Massage
Services are In person
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
• Trans Male • Sensual Sadist • Strap Enthusiast • Mean Impact Top • Great Massages • Amazing Company Feel free to ask any questions!
Tara-postopTS
Erotic audio, Muse, Content creator, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Trans - Straight, Bicurious
Cologne DE
"Girlfriend Charm / Temptress Twist "
Anay
Content creator, Kinkster, Massage, Artist, Dancer, Erotic audio, Muse, Photographer, Writer, Therapist, Workshop, Coach, Educator, BDSM & Retreat
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Paris FR
My Pinay lotus flower blooms most beautifully from the deepest and thickest of stems..
mistresslola
BDSM & Artist
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Paris FR
Having a cute appearance doesn’t bother me from being mean, freaky and sadistic.
missangelafromhell
BDSM, Kinkster, Therapist & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Mexico City MX
Nothing youve ever imagine
urownerlili
Content creator, Erotic audio, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are Online
Female - Pansexual
Denver CO US
✨Your favorite bratty Succubus and nurturing Nymph ✨ Hi, My name is Lili! 🎀 I am a Findom looking for Finsubs. I do accept other kinks, but Findom must be the primary one. I have been in the kink/BDSM community for over 14 years as both a sub and a domme. I really enjoy creating long-term relationships with subs (if the sub wants more than just a session). I think its super important to build trust so that I can really psychologically dominant my subs. Additionally, I do offer Aftercare post-session, even if it's just something like a Drain. Some of my favorite dynamics/kinks are: Findomme/Finsub 🐷💵 MommyDomme/SoftDomme 💕 Goddess Worship 🙇♂️ Feet Worship 👣 Owner/Pet (Pet Play) 🐾 Brat/Loser 🖤 Beta/Alpha 🐺 GFE (Girlfriend Experience) 🥰 Cucking
aBrandi_kink
Content creator, Erotic audio, Photographer, Writer, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
El Paso TX US
Neurotic, perverted, and confident Slut dismantling your internalized shame.
HighnessTide
BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Lesbian, Queer
New York NY US
Hopeless flirt, will talk your ear off about my dungeon. Might even show it to you if you ask nicely <3
salemthesadist
Artist, Content creator, BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Mistrix Salem X is a professional Dominatrix and Shibari practitioner based in NYC. Working in the industry since 2018, they started learning to tie in 2021. Mistrix Salem quickly fell in love with rope due to its connective, grounding, and adaptive nature. They believe rope is for every body regardless of size, dis/ability, gender, race, etc. As a Dominatrix they hold true to the same principles—a session with them is an opportunity to explore both lofty fantasy and deep presence in the body, in a safe, consensual, and non-judgmental space. As a sensual sadist, Mistrix Salem's style of play juxtaposes softness and challenge. They craft an environment wherein one can explore their edges, with the promise of a soft landing. As a seasoned lifestyle and professional player, they know how to create a memorable and unique experience while holding space for the complexities of each individual's desires and limits. Their skillset spans a wide range of kinks/fetishes, from semenawa-style rope, to singletail whip throwing, to CBT, wax play, and more. Mistrix Salem has garnered attention nationally and internationally for their Shibari performances. In NYC, they’ve performed and house-topped at events like House of Love, City of Gods, Feral, Bruise, and SuciaQueer. In September 2024 they performed at Folsom Street Fair and Twisted Windows in San Francisco. In February 2025, they reprised their Twisted Windows performance for Karada House’s virtual Queerope. In addition to offering private rope suspension sessions, Mistrix Salem teaches rope in both class and private settings. Their approach to rope education emphasizes risk awareness, consent, and tying in a way that feels organic and connective rather than prescribed and pattern-based. They are available to provide rope and rigging for a variety of projects, from music videos, to content collaboration with other SWers. Inquiries into Mistrix Salem's services can be sent via DM, email ([email protected]), or their website.
jrsamani
Erotic audio, Photographer, Muse, Content creator, Artist & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Male
Donostia-San Sebastian ES
Robinkeane
Massage, Content creator, BDSM & Kinkster
Services are In person & Online
Non Binary - Bisexual, Queer, Pansexual
New York NY US
Hairy alternative sweetheart here for laughter and fun
oakjourneys
BDSM, Erotic audio & Coach
Services are In person
Non Binary - Pansexual
New York NY US
Your Multitalented Pansexy Prince
What is cuckold?
Sometimes the best view is from the sidelines.
Cuckold is a term often used in the context of a specific fetish or kink related to alternative sexual lifestyles. In a cuckold scenario, a man (referred to as the cuckold) derives pleasure from the idea of his partner (usually a woman) engaging in sexual activities with another person. The cuckold may or may not be present during these activities, and the dynamic often involves elements of humiliation, submission, and voyeurism.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of cuckolding lies in its complex blend of erotic humiliation, power dynamics, and voyeuristic thrill. For those drawn to this fetish, the experience involves a consensual exploration of heightened emotions, with the submissive partner finding arousal in feelings of submission and degradation, while the dominant partner takes control. The voyeuristic element, featuring the submissive partner watching their significant other with someone else, adds an intense and taboo excitement. Whilst most of the time, the cuckold (the man) is submissive, this isn't always the case. Sometimes a cuckold can be dominant or simply just derives pleasure from the situation without feeling humiliated.
Cuckolding involves consensual exploration with the knowledge and agreement of all parties, while cheating involves betrayal and secrecy without consent.
No, cuckolding can involve couples of any gender or sexual orientation. It's about consensual exploration and power dynamics, not restricted by gender.
Yes. Many sex workers or professional dominatrixes offer cuckolding services. Exploring with an experienced professional can be a great way to begin exploring cuckolding, for a smoother and more gentle navigation of the situation.
DO
Explore diverse scenarios: Experiment with different cuckolding scenarios to keep the experience dynamic and interesting. This might include variations in power dynamics, settings, or the involvement of different participants, depending on mutual interests and comfort levels.
Prioritise communication: Encourage open communication during the cuckolding scenario. Ensure that participants feel comfortable expressing their feelings, desires, or any unexpected emotions that may arise, fostering a more connected and consensual experience.
Incorporate psychological dynamics: Explore the psychological aspects of cuckolding, such as the dynamics of submission, humiliation, and power exchange. Work with the dominatrix to incorporate these elements into the scenario for a more intense experience.
DON'T
Assume consent: Do not assume consent for all aspects of the cuckolding scenario. Clearly discuss and agree upon each element beforehand to avoid misunderstandings and ensure that everyone is comfortable.
Neglect boundaries: Respect the established boundaries. If there are activities or scenarios that were agreed upon as off-limits, do not push beyond those boundaries without explicit consent.
Forget to debrief: After the session, take time to debrief with the dominatrix. Discuss your feelings, thoughts, and any aspects of the scenario that stood out.
