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Systemic Sexual Therapy & Couples Coaching (Trauma-Sensitive)
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Couples Coaching – Kink & Relationships
Coaching for couples and polycules who want to explore kink together or are working through questions in their relationship.
Typical topics: different desires or kinks, coming out to a vanilla partner, opening a relationship, jealousy in polyamory, rebuilding trust after conflict, negotiating new practices.
I support both (or all) of you equally. We clarify what each person needs, find language for it and agree on concrete next steps you can try at home.
In my studio in Berlin-Mitte, 90 minutes. German or English.
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- 1Once you click I am interested, Dan Apus Monoceros will be notified by email
- 2They will then contact you to arrange a date and time
- 3Please email us at contact@sensuali.com if you have any questions or issues with your booking
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Location · Berlin
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Poly & Open Relationship Coaching – Intro Session (Online)
For couples, triads and polycules who want to open their relationship, already live polyamory or relationship anarchy – or are still figuring out which model fits them.Typical topics:– Opening up: how to start without hurting each other– Jealousy, insecurity and compersion– Agreements, rules and veto: what actually works for you– Time, attention and calendars with several partners– Hierarchical poly, non-hierarchical poly, relationship anarchy: finding your own model– Metamours, new partners, coming out to friends and family– Kink in open relationshipsIn 90 minutes we look at where you stand, what each of you needs and where you get stuck. You leave with concrete agreements or next steps you can try the same week.Introductory price: I offer this session at a reduced rate while I build my practice on Sensuali.I have been part of the poly and kink scene for around 25 years and host "Die polynormale Teegesellschaft", a regular meetup for polyamorous people in Berlin.Up to 4 people, via video call – you get the link after booking, so you can join from wherever you are, even from different places. German or English. Confidential. A conversation – no therapy, no sexual services.
Poly & Open Relationship Coaching – Intro Session
For couples, triads and polycules who want to open their relationship, already live polyamory or relationship anarchy – or are still figuring out which model fits them.Typical topics:– Opening up: how to start without hurting each other– Jealousy, insecurity and compersion– Agreements, rules and veto: what actually works for you– Time, attention and calendars with several partners– Hierarchical poly, non-hierarchical poly, relationship anarchy: finding your own model– Metamours, new partners, coming out to friends and family– Kink in open relationshipsIn 90 minutes we look at where you stand, what each of you needs and where you get stuck. You leave with concrete agreements or next steps you can try the same week.Introductory price: I offer this session at a reduced rate while I build my practice on Sensuali.I have been part of the poly and kink scene for around 25 years and host "Die polynormale Teegesellschaft", a regular meetup for polyamorous people in Berlin.Up to 4 people, in my studio in Berlin-Mitte. German or English. Confidential. A conversation without physical contact – no therapy, no sexual services.
Kink Reflection Coaching 1:1
A one-to-one coaching session for kinky people who want to understand their role, their desires and their patterns more clearly.Typical questions: What do I actually need from D/s? Why do I feel stuck? How do I talk about my kink with partners? Which role fits me – and does it have to be only one?We work with your concrete situation and look at the needs behind your practices. You leave with clearer language for what you want and next steps you can act on.In my studio in Berlin-Mitte, 60 minutes. German or English. A separate online option is available.
Kink Reflection Coaching 1:1 – Online
A one-to-one coaching session by video call for kinky people who want to understand their role, their desires and their patterns more clearly.Typical questions: What do I actually need from D/s? Why do I feel stuck? How do I talk about my kink with partners? Which role fits me – and does it have to be only one?We work with your concrete situation and look at the needs behind your practices. You leave with clearer language for what you want and next steps you can act on.Online via video call, 60 minutes. German or English. You receive the meeting link after booking.
Couples Coaching – Online
Coaching by video call for couples and polycules who want to explore kink together or are working through questions in their relationship.Typical topics: different desires or kinks, coming out to a vanilla partner, opening a relationship, jealousy in polyamory, rebuilding trust after conflict, negotiating new practices.I support both (or all) of you equally. We clarify what each person needs, find language for it and agree on concrete next steps you can try at home.Online via video call, 90 minutes. German or English. You receive the meeting link after booking.
Private Rope Experience (DCR)
A private rope session in my own style, DCR – Dan's Creative Roping.We start with a conversation: what you are curious about, what you want to feel, your limits and your body's needs. Then I tie you – on the floor, partially or fully suspended, depending on your experience, your body and what we have agreed. Rope can be slow and meditative, intense and challenging, or playful. We shape the session together.The session ends with time to land and talk about what you experienced.In my studio in Berlin-Mitte. Choose between 2 and 3 hours, including pre-talk and aftercare. Beginners and experienced rope bottoms welcome. German or English. No sexual services.
Sapphic ropeXchange – Shibari Weekend for Women Loving Women (2027)
For a whole weekend we open a space on a houseboat in Berlin-Spandau for people who want to experience shibari in a sapphic context: cis and trans women (and enbies who feel they belong here) who love women, want to tie them and share intimacy with them. Lesbian, queer and with feminine energy.At the centre is shibari as a close, bodily practice of contact, communication and connection. Take time for closeness, for encounters, for yourself.A ropeXchange edition organised by Dan Apus Monoceros on the houseboat Monoceros. Weekend tickets only. 18+. Sex-positive and kink-positive.Tickets: kinkyevents.berlin/events/sapphic-ropexchange-27
menXchange – Shibari Weekend for Men* on the Boat (2027)
The men*-only ropeXchange on the boat, organised by Dan Apus Monoceros. Relaxed, kinky and educational.On the houseboat Monoceros in Berlin-Spandau you can tie indoors and outdoors and enjoy a very special atmosphere. Add the particular energy of a men*-only event: easy-going and in many places more sexual than the mixed edition. You still learn just as much, with workshops and exchange rounds that take you further into the world of shibari. Expect workshops, socialising, play and more.For boys* and men*. Weekend tickets only. 18+. Sex-positive, kink-positive and polynormal. German and English.More about the ropeXchange: ropexchange.comTickets: kinkyevents.berlin/events/menxchange-27
ropeXchange on the Boat – Shibari Weekend (Summer 2027)
The ropeXchange is a shibari weekend for kinky rope enthusiasts and everyone who wants to become one, organised by Dan Apus Monoceros.Learn, laugh, rope: the weekend is about tying, and just as much about a good community, exchange among like-minded people and a good time with (and without) rope. Expect a familiar atmosphere in a small group. Places are limited.The summer edition takes place on the houseboat Monoceros in Berlin-Spandau, where you can tie indoors and outdoors and enjoy the special atmosphere on the water. Workshops, exchange rounds, socialising and play.Weekend tickets only. 18+. Kink-, queer- and straight-friendly. German and English.Tickets: kinkyevents.berlin/events/ropexchange-auf-dem-boot-27
ropeXchange – Shibari Weekend (Winter/Spring 2027)
The ropeXchange is a shibari weekend for kinky rope enthusiasts and everyone who wants to become one, organised by Dan Apus Monoceros.Learn, laugh, rope: the weekend is about tying, and just as much about a good community, exchange among like-minded people and a good time with (and without) rope. Expect a familiar atmosphere in a small group. Places are limited.The winter/spring edition takes place at the Atrium in Berlin, with two workshop rooms and a lounge for socialising and play. Friday starts with a getting-to-know-you round and bondage games, followed by two days of workshops, exchange and play.Weekend tickets only. Overnight stay and catering possible, details after registration. 18+. Kink-, queer- and straight-friendly. German and English.Tickets: kinkyevents.berlin/events/ropexchange-winter-fruhling-27
Safer (Hu-)Manhandling – Passion Fair Hamburg
FULLY BOOKED – waitlist via danapusmonoceros.comA workshop on consensual rough physical handling of the sub during a session, taught by Dan Apus Monoceros at the Passion fair in Hamburg.Manhandling combines many smaller techniques: grips, body weight, leverage, holding and pinning. Together with the setting they can reach deep into the psyche and create a feeling of being overwhelmed. In this workshop you learn how to integrate rough handling into your kink play as safely as possible – with clear negotiation, safety signals and attention to your partner's body.Saturday, 7 November, 19:15–22:15. 18+. All genders, all orientations.Please note: you also need a Passion fair ticket. Info and waitlist: kinkyevents.berlin/events/passion-hh-hu-manhandling
Kinkstarter Bondage – Passion Fair Hamburg
A compact rope bondage workshop for beginners at the Passion fair in Hamburg, taught by Dan Apus Monoceros.We focus on what really matters when you start: simple, effective ties that are easy to learn, safety basics, and the interplay between the partners. You get technique and knowledge, and plenty of time to practise. With a bit of creativity you can combine and extend what you learn and bring tension into your play.For beginners and everyone who wants to discover the art of tying without much effort. 18+. All genders, all orientations. Taught in German, questions in English welcome.Please note: you also need a Passion fair ticket. Tickets for the workshop: kinkyevents.berlin/events/passion-hh-kinkstarter-bondage
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Couples Coaching – Kink & Relationships
- Couple session90 min · 90 minutes, in person, incl. VAT. Polycules of 3+ on request · up to 2 €210
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