BDSM Retreats & BDSM Vacation
In-person and Online Professional Dominant
From $500 In person & Online/virtual
MaleProDominant
Barcelona
1 experience
Sensual Shibari Experience in Geneva
From $95 In person
Aether
Berlin
4 experiences
Sensual Shibari Experience in Berlin
From $95 In person
Aether
Berlin
4 experiences
Bound to Nature: A Shibari Experience
From $1920 In person
27 Apr 2026 | 16:00
GoddessPersephone
Uvita
2 experiences
A kinky getaway - BDSM Retreats & Immersions
A BDSM retreat is a multi-day experience where kink and power dynamics are explored in a structured, supported setting. Rather than a single session or workshop, a retreat allows time for learning, discussion and practice to unfold gradually. Day to day, a BDSM retreat might include a mix of guided workshops, demonstrations, conversations and optional experiential sessions. Mornings may focus on learning and orientation, such as understanding power exchange, communication or specific practices like rope work. Afternoons often allow space to practise skills, observe others, or explore dynamics with guidance nearby. Evenings may be quieter and reflective, or include facilitated group experiences, depending on the retreat. Most retreats also build in downtime, so participants can rest, integrate what they’ve explored, or connect socially without pressure to participate. The extended format means nothing is rushed. There is time to ask questions, check in with yourself or a partner, and move at a pace that feels right.
Yes. Many BDSM retreats are designed with couples in mind. Couples may attend to explore power dynamics together, learn new skills such as rope work, or deepen trust and communication within an existing dynamic. Retreats often allow couples to move at their own pace, with guidance available when needed, making them a supportive environment for shared exploration.
Not always. Some BDSM retreats are open to beginners, while others are designed for people with prior experience. Retreat descriptions usually explain who the experience is best suited for. Beginner-friendly retreats tend to focus more on learning, communication and foundational skills rather than intensity.
Most popular Retreat Providers
Martijn
My name is Martijn (he/him). I'm a certified trauma aware kink friendly Somatic Sex Educator, certified Intimacy Coach and certified Sexological bodyworker. I also teach Japanese inspired rope bondage and facilitate groups and events around intimacy, touch and sexuality. Arriving into this work from a mindfulness background with the Plum Village tradition. Followed by tantra and explorations in the world of Shibari. Currently offering one-on-one coaching sessions and rope coaching and education. I'm bringing loads of patience, sharp observations, directness, humour and a loving welcoming heart. Overall, my goal is to help people realise their agency and freedom in sex. Helping them face their shame and shadows. Free of judgement. To deepen their sense of intimacy in themselves and other aspects of life.
GoddessPersephone
I am a Shibari artist devoted to the art of connection through rope. My approach weaves together sensuality, somatic awareness, and spirituality — creating spaces where rope is not just technique, but a language of trust, presence, and self-discovery. When I tie, I am interested in the alchemy of energy between bodies: the subtle shifts in breath, the emotional landscapes that surface, the nervous system attunement that brings safety and surrender. My style is rooted in: Connection before technique — rope as a way of communication Presence & embodiment — attuning to the body’s wisdom and expression Sensuality as medicine — awakening pleasure, play, and creativity Healing through surrender — holding space for vulnerability, release, and transformation Sacred rituals — creating ceremony with nature and with our spiritual path For me, Shibari is an oracle — a way of asking questions through the body and receiving answers through sensation, energy, and trust. I guide women, men and couples into this art with gentleness and depth, balancing the beauty of form with the freedom of expression, always honoring the sacredness of the rope journey.
Claire Fox (Magic)
I’m Claire Fox, an Intimacy Facilitator and Coach. I offer Erotic Bodywork, Conscious Kink experiences and Transformational Intimacy Work through in-person sessions and private retreats. I work with visionaries, adventure-seekers, and soulful humans who are ready to live more fully expressed lives. My approach blends the energies of a soft Domme and a loving space holder. I create containers of deep presence, clarity, and safety where you can explore your edges and expand into your full-power expression. My work weaves together somatic practice, play, bodywork, ritual and Conscious Kink to help you come home to your body and create deeper intimacy: with yourself, with others, and with life itself.
Wild Pleasure Sanctuary
Luna Rose 🌷 Wild Pleasure Sanctuary I am a plant lover, eco-sensualist & sensualist in general, an advocate for consent & intentional communication, an artist, a musician, a pleasure seeker, a medicine creatrix, a devotee to the Earth and the Goddess, a submissive and a Domme, a student of Shibari - and kinky to my core. Will you join me in the most delicious, enchanting space where sensuality, nature, kink & ceremony meet? For over a decade, I have witnessed and been part of many different types of rituals and ceremonies; ranging from plant spirit immersions and earth-based rituals, to traditional First Nations ceremonies such as sweat lodge and Sundance, to circle work, erotic ritual spaces, prayerformance, and countless personal rituals. When I came to the kink world, so much of what I saw and learned reminded me of ceremony - the entering into a different reality, the space creating & holding, the protocol (at times quite strict!), the devotion, the journeying into the deepest layers of our being, even the physical tools used. For me, those two worlds have merged naturally and harmoniously. I view kink & BDSM through the lens of ceremony and sacred workings - as a mythical & transformational tool for initiation, personal growth, healing, and connection to the Divine. Being neurodivergent, I have also come to cherish kink as an amazing gift that offers structure, intentionality and emotional regulation. Kink invites deeper connection with self and others, requires in-depth communication, fosters self-awareness, and can help build trust.
Aether
If you want to surrender to yourself, to heal through presence, and to explore pleasure as a doorway into deeper truth and connection, with Shibari, Tantra and a trace of shamanic medicine guiding the way. There are people who arrive to the rope as technicians, and others who arrive as poets. I walked in as someone who had spent a lifetime listening to stories, bodies, emotions, and the subtle movements of desire. Shibari came to me not as a performance art, but as a grammar of sensation. Rope became a way to write on the skin what words cannot carry. A way to feel truth when the mind becomes too loud. I am a shibari artist with a devotion to intimate presence. I am a tantra practitioner who learned early that sensuality, when held with reverence, naturally becomes spiritual. I am a healing practitioner trained through the teachings of ISTA, where I learned to meet the body with humility, to walk toward shadow with softness, and to let breath guide transformation more reliably than force ever could. It is my offering back to the world. A way to honor the beauty, the tenderness and the wildness that human beings carry inside them when they feel safe enough to show it. I do this as a hobby, but hobby is an inadequate word. It is a devotion. A craft of presence. A way to remember that touch can be a form of prayer, that pleasure can open more doors than fear, and that the body holds wisdom long before the mind understands it. When you enter a session with me, you are not asked to perform or to impress. You are invited to soften. To feel. To meet yourself through sensation rather than through expectations. Shibari becomes the frame that holds the moment still. Tantra becomes the breath that widens it. A trace of shamanic guidance brings the invisible closer, reminding the nervous system that it has permission to rest, to open, to tremble, to speak in its own language. Some come to surrender, because surrender is easier when someone trustworthy holds the structure. Some come to heal, not through explanation or analysis, but through presence, grounding, breath, and slow unwinding. Some come to explore pleasure, not as entertainment, but as a doorway into deeper truth and connection — the kind that reveals who you are when no mask is needed. In my sessions there is no domination for its own sake. No performance. No pressure to be anything other than what is alive in you. Rope is not a tool of control, but a mirror. Breath is not a technique, but a return home. Sensation is not a distraction, but a compass. What I offer is a space where you can remember yourself. A space where the body becomes honest. A space where pleasure is sacred, vulnerability is welcomed, and tenderness is allowed to be powerful. This is my art. This is my medicine. This is my way of giving back: creating moments where someone can feel seen, held, awakened, liberated, or simply more alive than before. If you come with openness, curiosity, and the desire to meet yourself more deeply, the rope will respond. The breath will guide you. And your own body will tell you everything you need to know.
