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About me

My services are for

Women, Men, Couple, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid, Intersex

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

40s · Female

I speak

English

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1. Send an email to Embodywork@protonmail.com
2. Share with me who you are, where you are located and what type of service you are seeking.
3. All in person sessions require some form of verification for both of our safety.

Ritual Play, Guide, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Tantric Touch:

Old stories and pressures can dissolve....
In their place, new languages of touch, desire, and expression are discovered.

If you’re stuck in your head, tired of routine, or yearning for deeper connection, my work supports you in awakening to your erotic aliveness.
Let’s explore new ways to touch, talk, and play.

Who My Work Is For:

For Men:
Tired of the pressure to perform? Learn to trust your body, slow down, and expand pleasure without chasing a goal. Move from anxiety into embodied erotic confidence and full-body presence. Wholistic approach to rapid ejaculation, ED, grief, shame around desires.

For Women:
Longing to feel safe, free, and fully alive in your sensual body? Whether you’re navigating numbness, disconnection, or deep desire, come home to yourself. Reclaim your voice, your power, and your pleasure at any age.

For Couples:
Feeling distant, out of sync, or stuck in a routine? Together, we’ll shift from mundane to meaningful—from disconnection into erotic play. You’ll learn new ways to communicate, co-regulate through sensual practices, and rediscover each other. Even mismatched desire can become a doorway to deeper connection.

Or maybe things already feel fantastic, and you’re simply wondering, “What’s next for us?” This work can open new horizons of play, intimacy, and pleasure for couples at any stage.

About Melissa D:
Magical. Clinical Hypnotherapist. Certified Somatic Sex Educator. Sexological Bodyworker. Director of BodyJoy Intimacy School.

With over 15 years of experience supporting men, women, and couples, I weave lived experience, science, sensuality, and spirit to guide people back to the wisdom of their bodies and the truth of their desires.

My training and explorations have been enriched by years of play, mentorship and supervision with some of the most brilliant minds in the field- a treasure I carry with me into every aspect of my work. (Trainings listed below)

My work is for those who value depth, skill and grounded guidance. Your time is precious—and you deserve a premium experience.
Let’s begin with a conversation...

My qualifications

11–15 years of experience
15 qualifications

Training & Lineage Highlights:
Current Facilitator – HimErosProject.com (since 2017)
Guest Practitioner – Back to the Body with Pamela Madsen (ongoing)
Duel Certificates in Clinical Hypnotherapy (CHt) – SWIHA & Rainya Dann (2009)
Certified Sex Educator – SFSI (2014)
Taoist Sexual Mastery - Mantak Chia - Tao Garden Thailand 2015
Certified Somatic Sex Educator – ISSSE (2016)
Sexological Bodyworker – ACSB (2016)
Wheel of Consent – Like a Pro for Professionals. Dr. Betty Martin (2017)
Urban Tantra Practitioner – Barbara Carrellas (2018)
Intimacy Training – Caffyn Jesse (2016)
Kink Mentorships / training with Pro Dom Max, and JD (of Two Knotty Boys), and Mistress Chloe (SF)
Shadow EFT — The Sanctum with MosJeff
Genital De-armoring Training - Rahi Chun
Continued mentorship with Dr Charla Hathaway PhD and Dr Susan Kaye: Masters and Johnson's intern who coined the term Surrogate Partner Therapy.

Education and training

  • Current Facilitator HimErosProject.com (since, 2017
  • Guest Practitioner Back to the Body with Pamela Madsen (ongoing)
  • Duel Certificates in Clinical Hypnotherapy (CHt) SWIHA &amp
  • Rainya Dann 2009
  • Certified Sex Educator SFSI, 2014
  • Taoist Sexual Mastery - Mantak Chia - Tao Garden Thailand 2015
  • Certified Somatic Sex Educator ISSSE, 2016
  • Sexological Bodyworker ACSB, 2016
  • Wheel of Consent Like a Pro for Professionals. Dr. Betty Martin, 2017
  • Urban Tantra Practitioner Barbara Carrellas, 2018
  • Intimacy Training Caffyn Jesse, 2016
  • Kink Mentorships / training with Pro Dom Max, and JD (of Two Knotty Boys), and Mistress Chloe (SF)
  • Shadow EFT The Sanctum with MosJeff
  • Genital De-armoring Training - Rahi Chun
  • Continued mentorship with Dr Charla Hathaway PhD and Dr Susan Kaye: Masters and Johnson's intern who coined the term Surrogate Partner Therapy.

Career highlight

Owner of Bodyjoy.org
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Where you can find me

Exact address is shared privately once a session is confirmed.

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