mistressivylenox
In person & Online
New York NY US
Fiercely ambitious hedonist with a passion for loyal dogs, bratty beasts, and all kinky creatives/professionals.
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violetmadden
In person
Melbourne AU
Playful, flirty seductress who is intelligent & sadistic and a lover of indulgence & pleasure. Will you be my muse?
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ArielleIvy
In person
New York NY US
As a born and raised NYer, I know all the best things to do around the city. I can plan a full day of activities (see my date ideas page) or lounge around in bed with some snacks and a movie. Depending on the day, you may find me playing D&D on a rainy day, sitting on the beach with a great book, museum hopping, or at a trivia game. Tucking my rate into your favorite nonfiction science book is a fast way to my heart! I want to try (almost) everything at least once, let's cross some things off our bucket lists together. I travel quite often and love to explore new cultures and landscapes. I've been to 5 continents and 38 states so far and still have so much left to see! Perhaps we could traverse some new terrain together? I'm passport-ready and happy to coordinate an entire trip for us, or come to your city on a FMTY and find gems you didn’t even know were there. Are you ready to go on an adventure?
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KhaleesiElectra
In person & Online
Berlin DE
Versatile bizarre lady with a preference for humiliation, role play & lust
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AndreLazarus
In person & Online
Barcelona ES
I help people discover and unlock their highest potential.
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What are kink events?
Whips out at the function.
A kink event refers to a gathering or organised occasion where individuals with alternative sexual interests, preferences, or fetishes come together to socialise, learn, and engage in activities related to BDSM or other forms of sexual expression. These events can range from small, private gatherings to large-scale conventions or workshops, often held in designated venues such as dungeons, clubs, or specialised event spaces.
What makes it hot?
What makes kink events exciting for participants is the opportunity to explore their desires in a safe, consensual environment, surrounded by like-minded individuals who share similar interests and experiences. These events provide a sense of community, acceptance, and education, allowing participants to connect, learn new skills, and push their boundaries in a supportive setting.
Dress codes can vary depending on the event, but it's typically advised to wear something comfortable and respectful of the venue's guidelines. Some events may have specific attire requirements or themes, so it's a good idea to check beforehand.
No, kink events welcome people of all experience levels, from curious beginners to seasoned veterans. Many events offer workshops, demonstrations, and educational sessions tailored to different skill levels, providing opportunities for learning and exploration regardless of prior experience.
Prioritise communication, consent, and respect. Always negotiate boundaries and intentions with potential partners before engaging in any activities. Look out for designated safety monitors or dungeon masters who can offer assistance if needed. Familiarise yourself with the event's rules and guidelines, and don't hesitate to seek help or guidance from organisers or staff if you encounter any issues.
DO
Communicate: Talk openly and honestly with potential partners about your interests, boundaries, and limits.
Respect: Listen to others' boundaries and preferences, and always obtain explicit consent before engaging in any activities.
Know the rules: Familiarise yourself with the event's rules, guidelines, and safety protocols, and adhere to them at all times.
Time out: Take breaks as needed, and prioritise self-care and well-being throughout the event.
Education: Participate in educational workshops, discussions, and demonstrations to enhance your knowledge and skills in BDSM and kink practices.
DON'T
Ignore consent: Don't engage in any activities without obtaining clear, enthusiastic consent from all parties involved.
Pressure: Don't pressure others into activities they're uncomfortable with or unwilling to participate in.
Assumptions: Don't assume someone's interests or boundaries based on their appearance or participation in the event.
Violate privacy: Don't violate the privacy or confidentiality of other attendees, and refrain from gossiping or spreading rumours.