jamiejoy
In person & Online
New York NY US
Queer & Trans sex and kink educator spreading joy and pleasure through community orgynizing
BDSM Educator
ReflectorForHire
In person & Online
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
Muse Photographer Artist BDSM Kinkster Coach Educator Massage Retreat Therapist Erotic media
GoddessAviva
In person & Online
New York NY US
Making femdom & findom fantasies come to life, NYC & Boston based
BDSM Kinkster Coach Erotic media
Photographer BDSM Pro-Domme Shibari Kinkster
BDSM Kinkster
daddypersephone
In person & Online
New York NY US
Obedience is earned. Tribute is expected. Submit and be shaped, or seek expert advice about kink, polyamory/ENM, etc.
Writer BDSM Coach
HighnessTide
In person & Online
New York NY US
Hopeless flirt, will talk your ear off about my dungeon. Might even show it to you if you ask nicely <3
BDSM Kinkster Educator
BDSM Erotic audio Coach
mistressivylenox
In person & Online
New York NY US
Fiercely ambitious hedonist with a passion for loyal dogs, bratty beasts, and all kinky creatives/professionals.
Writer Muse Kinkster BDSM Coach Educator Erotic media
salemthesadist
In person
New York NY US
Mistrix Salem X is a professional Dominatrix and Shibari practitioner based in NYC. Working in the industry since 2018, they started learning to tie in 2021. Mistrix Salem quickly fell in love with rope due to its connective, grounding, and adaptive nature. They believe rope is for every body regardless of size, dis/ability, gender, race, etc. As a Dominatrix they hold true to the same principles—a session with them is an opportunity to explore both lofty fantasy and deep presence in the body, in a safe, consensual, and non-judgmental space. As a sensual sadist, Mistrix Salem's style of play juxtaposes softness and challenge. They craft an environment wherein one can explore their edges, with the promise of a soft landing. As a seasoned lifestyle and professional player, they know how to create a memorable and unique experience while holding space for the complexities of each individual's desires and limits. Their skillset spans a wide range of kinks/fetishes, from semenawa-style rope, to singletail whip throwing, to CBT, wax play, and more. Mistrix Salem has garnered attention nationally and internationally for their Shibari performances. In NYC, they’ve performed and house-topped at events like House of Love, City of Gods, Feral, Bruise, and SuciaQueer. In September 2024 they performed at Folsom Street Fair and Twisted Windows in San Francisco. In February 2025, they reprised their Twisted Windows performance for Karada House’s virtual Queerope. In addition to offering private rope suspension sessions, Mistrix Salem teaches rope in both class and private settings. Their approach to rope education emphasizes risk awareness, consent, and tying in a way that feels organic and connective rather than prescribed and pattern-based. They are available to provide rope and rigging for a variety of projects, from music videos, to content collaboration with other SWers. Inquiries into Mistrix Salem's services can be sent via DM, email ([email protected]), or their website.
Artist BDSM Kinkster Educator Erotic media
ArielleIvy
In person
New York NY US
As a born and raised NYer, I know all the best things to do around the city. I can plan a full day of activities (see my date ideas page) or lounge around in bed with some snacks and a movie. Depending on the day, you may find me playing D&D on a rainy day, sitting on the beach with a great book, museum hopping, or at a trivia game. Tucking my rate into your favorite nonfiction science book is a fast way to my heart! I want to try (almost) everything at least once, let's cross some things off our bucket lists together. I travel quite often and love to explore new cultures and landscapes. I've been to 5 continents and 38 states so far and still have so much left to see! Perhaps we could traverse some new terrain together? I'm passport-ready and happy to coordinate an entire trip for us, or come to your city on a FMTY and find gems you didn’t even know were there. Are you ready to go on an adventure?
Photographer Kinkster
Erotic audio Writer Muse BDSM Kinkster Educator Retreat Massage Erotic media