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mistressivylenox

New York NY US

Fiercely ambitious hedonist with a passion for loyal dogs, bratty beasts, and all kinky creatives/professionals.

Author BDSM Coach Educator Erotic creator Kinkster Muse

About me

My experiences are for Everyone
I offer experiences In person & Online/Virtual
20s , Female , Queer
Black/African
I speak English
Undergrad

Honors grad from Brown and far too obsessed with all things intimacy, sexuality, and kink. I'm a sex educator, ghostwriter, content creator, and Pleasure Domme with over five years of experience.
If you're looking for coaching, advice, support, or a session in:
- Power Play
- Femdom
- Pet Play
- Kink + D/s Lifestyle Dynamics
- Finding kinky community (romantic and platonic)
- Sexual Health maintenance (STIs, Vaccines, Protection)
- Group Play
...then I'm your gal! I'm equally excited about creative and business ventures as well. I'm an experienced Social Media Manager, Lead Magnet Strategist, and Events Coordinator/Host.

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to
message me .

My tags

Adventure Fetish Modeling Bondage Chastity Domination FemDom Findom Impact play Leather Role Play Spanking Tie and Tease Communication issues Conscious kink Couples coaching Embodiment Intimacy coaching Sex coaching Sexuality coaching Dating advice Polyamory Coaching Conscious Sexuality Educational 1 on 1 Online Courses Pleasure education Polyamory Relationships Sex education Sex toy advice Understanding Desire Domination Findom Kink events Orgasm control Pet play Role Play Sex Toys Pegging Erotic literature Erotic stories Scriptwriting Consent workshop Dinner dates Discretion Kink workshops Mentor Model Open relationship Private Workshops Travel Collaboration Content meets Intimacy workshop Pleasure Mapping Sexuality workshops

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