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Perimenopause & Menopause

Can i increase my sex drive during menopause?

Yes! But it's not as simple as going on hormone replacement therapy. How much libido ('sex drive') we experience during menopause is influenced by a whole web of factors beyond simply hormones. How much time we have for ourselves in our

Answered by RuthRamsay
Pleasure & Intimacy Coach, Ibiza
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Perimenopause & Menopause

Why does sex hurt during menopause?

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Perimenopause & Menopause

Does sex drive come back after menopause

Yes, it can! Menopause is a life stage, not the end. In fact in some studies couples in their 50s and 60s report higher sexual satisfaction than those in their 30s and 40s. How much libido ('sex drive') we experience during menopause and

Answered by RuthRamsay
Pleasure & Intimacy Coach, Ibiza
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Perimenopause & Menopause

What is perimenopause doing to my desire?

In perimenopause, the web of bio-psycho-social factors that determine our libido can face challenges from all sides. Our hormone levels are fluctuating like crazy, affecting our moods and sleep, which directly affects desire; we might be

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Perimenopause & Menopause

Does desire return after menopause?

Yes - for many women it does, sometimes in better shape than before. What rarely works is waiting for the old spontaneous desire to reappear on its own; post-menopause desire usually needs to be invited: more warm-up, deliberate sensuality

Answered by April Maria
Pleasure & Intimacy Coach, London
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