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Age & gender

30s · Female

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English

Hi, I’m Emma! I’m a somatic sexologist, relationship coach, writer, and educator. I’m endlessly curious about sex, love, power, pleasure, and what becomes possible when we stop trying to do any of them “right.”

I work with individuals and couples who want to have incredible sex, understand what actually turns them on, feel more at home in their bodies, become better lovers and partners, and build relationships where they can be deeply known. My work spans sex and intimacy coaching, dating and seduction, relationship coaching, kink and power exploration, tantra, and custom immersive experiences.

I’m not here to tell you what’s normal or give you another set of rules to follow. I have tools to help you find your own answers, and a very high tolerance for whatever weird, tender, horny, complicated parts of being human we find along the way.

My qualifications


3 years of experience

I’m a somatic sexologist, relationship coach, writer, and educator. I help people understand what they actually want, feel more at home in their bodies, have incredible sex and relationships, and unlearn the conditioning that gets in the way of all of it.

Education and training

Trained in Somatic Sex & Relationship Coaching at the Somatica Institute. I studied Government and Theatre at Smith College, which makes a lot of sense in retrospect for someone obsessed with people, performance, and power.

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