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My services are for

Women, Couple

I offer experiences

In person

Age & gender

50s · Male

I speak

English

Hi I'm Paul and I came to this work as part of my own spiritual path and by working with a woman who'd experienced sexual assault as a teenager. I came to realise the devastating effects men can have on women. And also to discover the flame in women cannot be extinguished and, with love and support, every woman can shine brightly in the world. I came to realise that walking alongside women on their journey of healing was the most meaningful work I could do.

I blend modern coaching and body-based approaches with spiritual knowledge from yoga and Tantra, which allows you to explore the paths that are best for you. I am a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, a member of the ACSB (Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers) and a member of the ASIS (Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists). I am trained in Somatic Trauma Therapy, and have been studying and practicing Tantra for over six years.

*** Testimonials ***
“I had severe trust issues with men due to previous trauma but the sessions I received from Paul were so loving and nurturing. He made me feel cherished, seen, attractive but, most importantly of all, safe… Paul is incredibly sensitive, patient and loving. I feel I have made huge progress and feel ready to embark on a new relationship after keeping myself closed down for so many years.” — Elizabeth

“I am so grateful for the experience. It felt like such a gift and I felt so honoured and revered as a goddess. Paul really held the masculine energy with clear intention and brought true purity of intention and energy to his work.” — Jacqueline

“I felt so honoured, seen and safe. I felt incredible. I still can’t get over the warm waves of sensation in my body. I can’t believe the change: this morning I woke so calm. I’m holding myself with compassion. I feel like a woman that is worthy of love.” — Jennifer

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Sex therapist Trauma healing Conscious Sexuality Couples coaching Cuddling Intimacy coaching Sacred Sexuality Sexological bodywork Tantric Bodywork Tantric Rituals Wheel Of Consent

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