Miss May is a professional dominatrix and fetishist known for her hard and heavy approach to BDSM. Working professionally in London and Berlin, she specialises in consensual power exchange, psychological domination, and intense fetish play.
By Isobel Clark & Miss May4 min read30 September 24Updated 21 July 264 min readUpdated 21 July 26
TL;DRIn 60 words
Miss May runs her domination hard and heavy, from a private E1 dungeon and a regular Berlin base, with rubber, watersports and psychological domination among her specialities. Six years into the scene, she talks pushing limits while respecting boundaries, the honour of holding fantasies clients hide from their partners, and why banks remain a bigger obstacle than any taboo.
Miss May is a professional Dominatrix and fetishist based in London, with a private studio in E1, and also works regularly in Berlin. She offers dominatrix services both in person and online, welcoming clients from across the UK and Europe who are curious, experienced, or deeply committed to BDSM and fetish exploration.
Her work focuses on consensual power exchange, psychological domination, and heavy play. Some of her key interests include hardsports, pegging, facesitting, bondage, feminisation, CBT, rubber, watersports, and anal play.
Below, Miss May shares her journey, approach, and insights into life as a professional Dominatrix.
Isobel Clark
Introduce yourself and what you do as a dominatrix?
mistressmay
Hello! My name is MissMay. I am a professional Dominatrix and dungeon owner based in London and Berlin.
Meet Dominatrix and Fetishist: Miss May.
Isobel Clark
What are the specific services you provide on Sensuali?
mistressmay
I am a professional Dominatrix as well as fetishist and offer services in those areas. I also am a content creator and offer webcam/online sessions.
What was your journey into this world?
My journey into the BDSM world started 6 years ago when I started attending kink and fetish events. I was into kink personally, before making my passion into a profession. I have now offered in-person domination sessions and online services for four years.
Isobel Clark
How would you describe your approach to being a dominatrix in a nutshell?
mistressmay
My approach is hard and heavy. It might sounds intimidating , however I also welcome beginners and newcomers to my sessions.
I am interested in all heavy play, bondage, rubber as well as other practices like CBT, watersports and anal play.
I am an advanced and professional Dominatrix and I like to get deep into peoples minds to explore what they’re looking for and more. I like to push people’s limits whilst always respecting boundaries!
Who is your typical client?
People seek me out as they are interested in the things that I do. Usually rubber fetishists and advanced players. I don’t have a typical client per se. My subs ages range from 21 to older and come from all walks of life. I also see people of all genders.
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What is your favourite thing about being a dominatrix and what are the challenges?
mistressmay
I love the freedom of time that my job gives me. I love to travel, so I like that this work allows me to travel around the world. Apart from that it’s the intimacy of being in session.
Dominatrix Miss May
Some of the people I session with won’t tell their significant other about their deepest fantasies so it’s always an honour being able to explore their deepest fantasies with them.
The biggest challenges are probably the laws around sex work and banks not wanting us. The societal stigma as well.
Isobel Clark
What should more people know about BDSM & professional dominatrix work?
mistressmay
People should know that BDSM is so much more that they think. The connections you need to build and trust you have is like no other. BDSM is so deep that it needs to be studied to be understood and domination is not something that should be practiced lightly.
Isobel Clark
How do you prepare for a dominatrix session?
mistressmay
To prepare for a session as a Dominatrix, I usually go through my subs request and make a list of their kinks, limits and any other things I need to keep in mind for the session.
I prepare the studio and lay out all of the toys. I usually have a tea or coffee before a session for energy, then get dressed and get my sub!
Isobel Clark
How has your relationship with being a dominatrix evolved over time?
mistressmay
It’s changed a lot.
Dominatrix Miss May
I remember how nervous and stressed I was the first time I went in for a professional domination session. I was always nervous and overthinking each scene. Now, all scenes come to me naturally with the flow of the session, more spontaneous and yet very creative!
My approach has changed completely to the play that I do. I don’t do Dominatrix sessions that I’m not feeling, and I am not scared of saying no to applications that don’t excite me.
Isobel Clark
What are your hopes for the future in the sensual world?
mistressmay
I really hope I can continue to explore fun and exciting experiences within Dominatrix sessions.
Isobel is a writer and creative based in Paris. She has been working with Sensuali since 2022 and is deeply passionate about eroticism, kink, the feminine experience of pleasure and its place in art and culture. Originally from a Northern UK seaside town, she is naturally…
Miss May is a professional dominatrix. Based in London, in her fully equipped dungeon in E1, she will take you where you want to be, pushing your limits but respecting your boundaries. She is open to experienced subs and fetishists.
