Meet performance anxiety healer & coach for sex workers: Victoria Angel Heart
For anyone curious about erotic healing and embodied intimacy, this interview offers a glimpse into a truly transformative approach. Meet performance anxiety healer & coach for sex workers, Victoria Angel Heart.
Victoria Angel Heart is a sex worker’s coach, sacred musician and self-described Pleasure Permissionary whose work sits at the intersection of intimacy, spirituality and embodied liberation.
With more than a decade of teaching experience and sixteen certifications, she supports clients in reclaiming their authenticity, confidence and sensual expression through mindful erotic practices.
In January, Victoria is launching a 1-year mentorship programme for sexual healers, designed to deepen their skills, energetic grounding and professional confidence.
You can explore the programme here.
How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
Passionate Pleasure Permissionary
Tell us more about yourself and what you do…
I am the Sex Worker’s Coach | Mindful Masturbation Master | Performance Anxiety Healer
What services do you provide on Sensuali?
What turns you on?
Full expression – feeling completely free to be, express, and embody exactly how you feel and what brings you pleasure!
What was your journey into this world?
I grew up in a repressive Southern Baptist religion where I knew I was gay from age 4 when I discovered I liked girls… twenty years later, I finally chose my own authenticity, came out of the closet, and started to reclaim my sexuality and my full expression.
I learned how to mindfully masturbate in tandem with becoming a meditation teacher, and I have been on an interwoven journey connecting spirituality to sexuality through the vehicle of full, authentic expression.
I fucked up a lot in my younger years in sex work because I wasn’t grounded, didn’t have healthy boundaries, and wasn’t confident in standing up for myself with clients.
I’ve done a ton of work (have 16 certifications!) to be able to confidently, competently own my pleasure and to create workshops and mentorships to empower others to do the same.
What do the first 60 minutes of your day look like?
I wake up, sit at my altar and meditate, pray, set intentions, then I do qi gong and yoga before heading to the gym.
Why do you do what you do?
I believe that every one of us has the innate desire to be fully expressed, and we often just need permission.
I call myself the Pleasure Permissionary because I carry an embodied transmission of what it looks like to be free of performance anxiety and fully expressed in your pleasure and your full self – from the bedroom, to the boardroom, and everywhere in between.
I want every person I work with, especially sex workers, to feel empowered to have an embodied experience of cultivating and manifesting what you desire to have, be, feel, do or experience in the world.
I believe we all deserve to thrive, and to be able to feel confident and capable to speak our needs, express our boundaries, and claim our pleasure.
I believe that sex is sacred, and that it’s possible to fuse the worlds of intimacy and sexuality with the world of spirituality for a richer, more connected life.
What is an unexpected pleasure you discovered in your work?
Channeling and using my psychic powers! I had no idea when I started that I had the gifts of clairaudience and clairsentience, and as they showed up in sessions, it was surprising and delightful for both me and my clients!
What should more people know about your work?
It’s possible to live at the intersection of sex work and the sacred. That being spiritual and being sexual are not at odds; they are deeply intertwined.
The deepest evolution of our souls comes from our capacity to truly feel what is real and raw and to go into the depths of our beings in order to find our essence – and that spiritual experience can absolutely be had during sex!
Also, so much of sex work is energetic, and when we don’t have anchored, grounded energy, we can get lost in our clients, cross our own boundaries, or feel drained or depleted.
I teach the foundations of energy hygiene and clearing as well as the energetics of aligned business so you can attract and keep the clients that feel nourishing for you.
My current sex work is teaching Mindful Masturbation Mastery to men who are addicted to porn, have performance anxiety, or suffer from ED, PE or DE.
I love getting to show them a whole new world of pleasure that is healthy, empowering, and can translate into bed with a partner.
What’s your superpower?
Intuitively knowing exactly what each client needs when they come to me, and working with them to create a tangible, lasting transformation by the end of each session.
We love vices. What’s yours?
Chocolate!
Who are your sensual inspirations?
Annie Sprinkle and Betty Martin – OG healers who brought sex work and healing into the mainstream!
Closing thoughts? Anything else to add?
I am also a sacred musician and medicine guide and weave song into all of the journeys and many of the sessions that I lead. Check out my Spotify here.
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