Topic : Sex Work
In the realm of erotic art: 5 films about female desire
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 5 March 2024
Happy International Women's Week! In the sea of films made by horny men, catering to horny men, and often focusing on horny men, here are 5 great films about horny women.
Meet Zara Durose, the pornstar escort
Posted by Iso
Friday 25 August 2023
Sensuali chatted to the famed pornstar turned escort, Zara Durose, about the intimacy in porn vs escorting, key tips for success in the industry, and her current ventures in fetish events and latex care products.
Instagram suspends major sex-positive accounts
Posted by Iso
Friday 23 June 2023
Instagram censorship has gone too far. Sensuali stands with all those out there trying to spread the harmless message of sex-positivity.
The growth of paid sensualist experiences
Posted by Iso
Saturday 3 June 2023
Dating in modern times just ain't doing it for the majority of men. Is it time to wave goodbye to endless swiping and delve into the alluring world of paid pleasure? Let's find out.
The Cost of Loving: Cashing in on our Desires
Posted by Iso
Sunday 28 May 2023
In an increasingly sex-positive society where hookup culture is the norm, is there a new safe space forming for us to profit from our own sexual desires?
Dating In Modern Times: Why Men Have it Rough
Posted by Jules
Friday 21 April 2023
This blog delves into the harsh realities of dating as a man in modern times, while presenting a silver lining that offers them a way to reclaim their power.
Art in the context of sex work: In conversation with Circe
Posted by Iso
Thursday 20 April 2023
As an artist sex worker, making art about your sex work experiences is not unheard of, but what about the other way round? What about bringing your artistry into the realms of your sex work? I chatted to Circe about her journey as an artist and a sex worker, and how her artful erotic photoshoots allow her to express her creativity whilst also bringing in clientele.
In conversation with Black Venus of Sex and Rage
Posted by Iso
Sunday 9 April 2023
I spoke to Black Venus, the co-founder of Sex and Rage, the London-based organisation run by sex workers aiming to end the stigma surrounding sex and sex work, and provide sex education to all in innovative ways.
Dating with a Sex Work Past: 3 Green Flags to Look For
Posted by Jules
Thursday 2 March 2023
To most, having a sex work past is a red flag. But what if instead of focusing on the parts of ourselves that society tries to make us feel lesser for, we flip the script and actively seek out partners who check OUR boxes?
Meet MelissaM: Sensuali Brand Ambassador and Escort Extraordinaire
Posted by Jules
Thursday 23 February 2023
Meet Melissa. She looks like Brigitte Bardot, sounds like Sophia Lauren, and yet somehow manages to be one of the sweetest, most down-to-earth people you will ever meet.
Reframing the way we think about periods
Posted by Jules
Thursday 9 February 2023
It's time to rethink the archaic and deeply self-loathing sentiment we as a society hold towards menstruation. This three-step guide shows you how.
The ‘Greatest Film Of All Time’ Is About A Sex Worker
Posted by Iso
Friday 27 January 2023
'Jeanne Dielman, 23 quai du Commerce, 1080 Bruxelles' (1976) is a film following the everyday life of a mother and part-time sex worker. Last year, BFI's Sight & Sound Poll named it the greatest film of all time.
A Buddhist Approach to Sex Work: Transactionality Versus Non-Attatchment
Posted by Jules
Thursday 26 January 2023
How Buddhism shifted my relationship with sex from one of transactionality to that of non-attachment.
The Sex Worker Hierarchy
Posted by Iso
Monday 23 January 2023
The sex worker community is guilty for being judgemental towards forms of sex work different to their own. Especially as the industry becomes more and more class divided.
‘That Time I Did Male Sex Work’ : Q&A
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 18 January 2023
I interviewed K, a university friend who once dabbled in sex work. We spoke about why he did it, why he stopped it, and what truly constitutes to feeling empowered.
Navigating Consent when Money is on the Table
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 17 January 2023
Defining and navigating consent in modern times is become increasingly difficult. Throw money into the mix and the waters get even murkier.
The Sex Worker’s Guide to Shadow Work
Posted by Jules
Thursday 12 January 2023
An exploration of shadow work and how a sex worker who fully embraces the darkest parts of his or herself has infinite potential.
Sex Workers in Art: The Iconic Paintings
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 10 January 2023
Some of my favourite iconic pieces of art from the 19th and 20th century that depict sex workers and the worlds they know.
Sex Work as an Art Form
Posted by Jules
Friday 6 January 2023
In this op-ed, I delve into the argument that sex work is an art form and should be revered as such.
Why I Chose Sex Work Over One Night Stands
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 4 January 2023
A think-piece on why I find sex work very bearable but one night stands very unbearable.
The White Lotus Made My Mum Pro-Sex Work
Posted by Iso
Monday 2 January 2023
I have tried to convince my mum that sex work isn't *always* bad for months now. But in just a few hours of binge watching The White Lotus, Season 2, her mind was changed.
8 Types of Escort Clients
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 21 December 2022
A pessimist's take on some of the characterful clients you encounter as an escort.
An Escort’s Guide to the Festive Season
Posted by Iso
Thursday 15 December 2022
Tops tips on surviving the festive season (during a financial crisis) as an escort.
Party Girl: The Struggles of an Ageing Sex Worker
Posted by Iso
Thursday 8 December 2022
Party Girl (2014), directed by Samuel Theis, Marie Amachoukeli & Claire Burger, involves an older woman leaving behind her life as a cabaret bar hostess to marry one of her regular clients.
Inside the Mind of a Sex Addict
Posted by Jules
Thursday 8 December 2022
This week, I sat down with an ex-lover to hear about his struggles with compulsive sexual behavior and his journey to recovery.
A deep dive into incel culture
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 6 December 2022
This week I took it upon myself to learn about incel culture. Read on to learn about the origin story of incels, why they do what they do, and what society can do to help stop the viscous cycle of incel-fueled hatred.
The Positivity Pressure: Sex Work Isn’t Always Fun
Posted by Iso
Thursday 1 December 2022
Sex worker's shouldn't have to love their jobs in order for the profession to be socially accepted.
Setting boundaries as a sensual masseuse
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 23 November 2022
I spoke to Tilly, a Manchester based sensual masseuse about the importance of setting boundaries in the massage profession.
Exploring the power dynamics behind sexwork
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 22 November 2022
An op-ed that explores the internal and external forces behind sex work and power, and provides insight into how to overcome biases and self-limiting beliefs.
The Sex Worker’s Guide to Halloween Fits
Posted by Iso
Friday 21 October 2022
A sex worker's guide to dressing for halloween: the fits that make you stand out, the fits that look boujee, and the fits that make horny men even hornier.
3 essential films about male sex workers
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 28 September 2022
Often misrepresented on screen is sex work. Often not represented at all on screen is male sex work! Whether you’re a sex worker, a client, or neither- these three films are all worth watching; not just for insight on the trade but because they are all round remarkable films regardless. 1. Sauvage Sauvage (2018), […]
The Highs & Lows of Stripper Life
Posted by Iso
Friday 23 September 2022
All forms of sex work can have its and downs, but I spoke with ex-pornstar LouLou Petite about her dancing days and why stripping especially can be a job that takes you on a rollercoaster ride of emotions.
Paradise: Love & Sex Tourism For Older Women
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 21 September 2022
I watched Ulrich Seidl’s masterful film 'Paradise: Love' (2012), to begin to understand the world of Africa's sex tourism, where older women get their fill of sex and romance.
Leo Grande: There’s Nothing Shameful About Pleasure
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 6 July 2022
Both sex work and repressed female desire are explored in Good Luck to You, Leo Grande, a comedic two hander featuring Emma Thompson and Daryl McCormack.
6 Sugar Babies You’ll Find In London
Posted by Iso
Friday 1 July 2022
Which London sugar baby are you? Cool Baby? Toe-Dipper Baby? Baby Girl Baby? The list is here.
The perspective of an enlightened sugar daddy
Posted by Iso
Friday 17 June 2022
I met up with a genuine sugar daddy who knows his way around the block, and asked him to share his informed outlook on the wild, wild world of sugar dating and some of its falsities.
The Sunny Side of Sugar Dating
Posted by Iso
Monday 13 June 2022
Sugar dating gets its fair share of hate in the sex work community, but it's got its good points- be it the hedonistic thrill of meeting rich strangers in fancy bars or the genuine, emotionally charged relationships that can blossom.
What Escorts Wish They Could Tell Clients
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 8 June 2022
When escorts are literally paid to be all sweet and sexy, it's difficult for them to voice any angers they feel about the behaviour of their clients. Here's a few (slightly angry) pointers that every escort wishes they could tell their clients.
The Thoughts of an Escort: Rita Therese’s ‘Come’
Posted by Iso
Saturday 14 May 2022
If you don’t have time in your crazy sex work schedule to read Rita Therese’s escort memoir ‘Come’, read this article instead.
How Thailand Got It’s Sexy Reputation
Posted by Jules
Thursday 12 May 2022
Ever wonder how Thailand became synonymous with sex tourism? This week, I took a deep dive into the historical, socio-economic and cultural factors that contribute to this narrative.
De Wallen: A history of the world’s most famous red light district
Posted by Jules
Thursday 5 May 2022
Ever wonder the origin story of the Amsterdam's Red Light District? Educate yourself with this quick, 5 minute read.
When Is Sugar Dating Exploitative?
Posted by Iso
Friday 29 April 2022
The blurred lines and the lack of transparency in sugar dating make it all too easy to get exploited. Here's what I wish I'd known starting out.
The sex worker’s body keeps the score
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 26 April 2022
There's no denying how physically and spiritually draining sex work can be. But as long as you have the tools to heal yourself, there's nothing to worry about. Melt your pain away and cleanse your soul with four holistic healing techniques that stand the test of time.
The Whoresona: Let’s Talk About Class Drag
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 26 April 2022
Doing sex work is way more acceptable when you're a rich girl who doesn't need the money. Hence why I became guilty of doing class drag.
Sex Worker Social Media: The Accounts to Follow
Posted by Iso
Friday 22 April 2022
At the forefront of internet community are the sex positive influencer accounts. Dig deeper and you'll find the more accounts that voice the unfiltered lives.
Pretty Woman: A love story for the ages
Posted by Jules
Thursday 14 April 2022
Unpacking the film that launched Julia Roberts' career and uncovering the real love story: sisterhood.
A Beginner’s Guide to Sex Work in the 21st Century
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 30 March 2022
An easy introduction to the most popular forms of sex work today.
Client Interview: A Coming of Age Tale
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 29 March 2022
I sat down with a friend to discuss the sexual shenanigans of his youth, which include losing his virginity to an escort, dating sex workers, and almost getting roped into sex work in a meet-up gone wrong.
Peep Shows: The Forgotten Sex Work?
Posted by Iso
Monday 28 March 2022
What happened to peep shows? I interviewed former peep show worker, Brie to find out.
The 4 types of guys you’ll encounter as a sex worker
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 22 March 2022
All men can be categorized into four types: the ones who make you cum but don't pay, the ones who make you cum and do pay, the ones who don't make you cum and pay, and the ones who don't make you cum and don't pay.
5 Things You’ll Learn From Doing Sex Work
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 8 March 2022
The surprisingly valuable skills you'll develop from doing sex work.