Topic : Submissive
Submissive is someone who consents to give up control and obey a dominant partner. This role is consent-based, involves clear communication, boundaries, and limits to ensure safety and well-being, and can vary in intensity and activities. Participants can withdraw consent at any time, and some may switch between dominant and submissive roles. The principles of safe, sane, and consensual are crucial in maintaining a healthy BDSM dynamic.
Introducing Sakura, the submissive kinky content creator
Posted by Iso
Friday 22 December 2023
We spoke to Sakura, the submissive kinky content creator about her journey into the world of sex work, what she finds exciting as a submissive, and how being a content creator has expanded her definition of porn.
What is power play? 3 foundations of Dom/Sub dynamics within BDSM
Posted by Sarah (Sub in the City)
Thursday 26 October 2023
What is Power Play? Contrary to what we see in porn, there’s a lot that goes on behind-the-scenes in Dominance and submission. Sarah at Sub in the City linked with Sensuali to break down the 3 main foundations that create successful Dom/sub dynamics.
BDSM myth busting: 5 misconceptions about kink that you need to know
Posted by Sarah (Sub in the City)
Tuesday 24 October 2023
Professional BDSM coach Sarah at Sub in the City explains some of the most common myths about BDSM and kink.
A beginner’s guide to BDSM
Posted by Sarah (Sub in the City)
Monday 23 October 2023
What does BDSM really stand for? Read our latest blog from Sarah at Sub in the City for a quick and dirty breakdown of this kinky acronym.
BDSM coaching: meet Sub in the City
Posted by Iso
Friday 8 September 2023
We sat down with Sarah, aka Sub in the City, who offers bdsm coaching sessions online and in person. We spoke about bdsm as a healing practice, the importance of introspection and communication in bdsm and the need for more mainstream spaces that openly encourage bdsm education.
The psyches of a submissive
Posted by Iso
Thursday 18 May 2023
There's more complexity to just 'being submissive' in BDSM. There's many different psyches that make us feel submissive in very different ways. Here are the 4 main types. Most subs can relate to at least one.
Sensual Domination: The Healing Kink The World Needs Right Now
Posted by Jules
Thursday 13 April 2023
It’s time for the collective consciousness to switch gears from pain-focused BDSM to sensual dominance. Mankind is in crisis and needs healing. Sensual dominance offers a solution.
When a Daddy Dom Goes too Far
Posted by Jules
Thursday 20 October 2022
This week I sat down with a sugar baby friend to get the details on her latest infatuation -- a daddy dom who has fallen hard for her. While it's undoubtedly a relationship full of passion, she's started to lose herself a bit.
The Mindset of a Masochist
Posted by Iso
Saturday 20 August 2022
What's to like about pain and degradation? I interviewed my close friend and masochist to find out.
Psychology of a Cuck
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 9 August 2022
This week I sat down with a friend and ex-lover to discuss his unfilled cuckold fantasy. Digressions include virtual reality porn and how to not come across as a total douche on dating apps.
4 Things I Learned from Watching Sex, Love, & Goop
Posted by Jules
Thursday 7 April 2022
Looking for a lighthearted yet educational series to binge with your latest conquest? Check out Netflix's Sex, Love, & Goop and while you're at it, read about the 4 things I learned from watching it in the post below.
BDSM Bops: 15 Songs for Submissives
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 1 February 2022
From The Weeknd to Duran Duran, here's a playlist of atmospheric BDSM songs especially suited to subs.
Confessions of a London Spanky: Alina
Posted by Jules
Thursday 20 January 2022
Reflections from a retired spanky featuring a few epiphanies and loads of kinky sex experiences.