Topic : Sex
In the realm of erotic art: 5 films about female desire
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 5 March 2024
Happy International Women's Week! In the sea of films made by horny men, catering to horny men, and often focusing on horny men, here are 5 great films about horny women.
The Cost of Loving: Cashing in on our Desires
Posted by Iso
Sunday 28 May 2023
In an increasingly sex-positive society where hookup culture is the norm, is there a new safe space forming for us to profit from our own sexual desires?
Is Erotic Fashion Still…Erotic?
Posted by Iso
Friday 10 March 2023
High fashion has normalised kinkwear & BDSM fashion. And the 'barely-there' y2k trends like the micro-mini skirt are back for good. In an increasingly sexually liberated society, is erotic fashion still erotic, or is it just the norm?
Water Lilies: The Power of Shamelessness
Posted by Iso
Thursday 2 March 2023
A homage to one of my favourite controversial film characters of all time, Floriane (Adele Hanael) from Celine Sciamma’s queer debut feature, ‘Water Lilies’ (2007).
Do Gen Z Care Less About Sex?
Posted by Iso
Thursday 9 February 2023
After revisiting the city where I went to university last week, I learnt some things about cultural shifts and how it has impacted Gen Z and their approach to sex.
Q&A: The Evolution of a Cool Girl
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 31 January 2023
This week, I interviewed a bonafide cool girl about her dissatisfying dating life and the changes she is making to turn her luck around.
Kissing: The Forgotten Form of Intimacy
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 11 January 2023
In today's society, kissing is underrated. Especially the telepathic kind...
13 Signs She Had A Real Orgasm
Posted by Iso
Friday 16 December 2022
I’m talking about the top tier kind. And how loudly she moans isn’t one of them…
The female gaze: what really turns women on
Posted by Iso
Friday 18 November 2022
The simple truth: women just love to be loved!
My Experience at Les Chandelles, the Infamous Paris Swingers Club
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 25 October 2022
Looking back at my first ever sugar baby holiday- an escapade to Paris and a night at its most famous sex club, Les Chandelles.
Sex & Spook: The Ultimate Thotoween Playlist
Posted by Iso
Friday 21 October 2022
Grouped-by-genre songs for all the serious Halloween Hoes out there. No 'Bump In The Night' bull here- only songs with truly dark and sensual vibes.
Growing Up With Porn As A Girl
Posted by Iso
Friday 16 September 2022
I chatted to 27 year old Eileen to get a female take on being part of a generation that grew up with internet porn.
Losing and Reclaiming Your Sexuality
Posted by Iso
Friday 9 September 2022
I spoke to Eve*, who hasn’t had sex for over 12 years and is now ready to reclaim her sexuality
Why Coerced Sex Damaged Me More Than Violent Rape
Posted by Iso
Thursday 8 September 2022
TW: Rape. I found instances of coerced sex more damaging than my experiences with rape and attempted rape. Here’s why.
A Beginner’s Guide to Kundalini
Posted by Jules
Wednesday 31 August 2022
Kundalini is an ancient practice designed to unblock chakras and elevate consciousness. Read on to learn how practicing Kundalini can enhance your creativity, boost your sexual prowess, and heal ailments -- both physical and mental.
The Mindset of a Masochist
Posted by Iso
Saturday 20 August 2022
What's to like about pain and degradation? I interviewed my close friend and masochist to find out.
What They Don’t Tell You About Childbirth
Posted by Iso
Thursday 18 August 2022
I had an unfiltered conversation with my sister, who has recently become a mother, about the effect of childbirth on your emotional state, your physicality and your sex life.
Q&A with a queer lady whose all about natural breasts
Posted by Jules
Thursday 18 August 2022
This week I sat down with a queer lady to discuss her preference for natural tits over fake ones.
Sex and the (Working Class) City
Posted by Iso
Thursday 11 August 2022
After watching working class feminist solo show 'Dear Little Loz' at Edinburgh Fringe, I remembered how starkly different sexual attitudes in working class places are in comparison to more privileged areas of the UK.
Sex and Makeup: Do’s and Don’t
Posted by Jules
Saturday 6 August 2022
Three women weigh in on the do’s and don’ts of navigating sex with makeup.
The gender double standards in sex
Posted by Iso
Friday 5 August 2022
Some light-hearted gender role reversals of common scenarios that occur during sex.
Inside the Mind of an Exhibitionist
Posted by Jules
Thursday 4 August 2022
When I hear the word exhibitionist, the first thing that pops to mind is a creepy old dude masturbating on the subway. But it turns out, exhibitionists comes in all shapes and sizes. This week I sat down with one of my most sexually liberated of gal pals to learn more about her kink for public nudity, sex, and masturbation.
Keeping Sex Fun in a Long-Term Relationship
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 3 August 2022
I spoke to a close male friend about the journey of his sex life through his 9 year long relationship.
Q&A with a Vibrator Enthusiast
Posted by Jules
Thursday 28 July 2022
Vibrators: sex elevating magic wands or desensitizing machines that reduce intimacy? This week I sat down with people from both camps. This interview is with a man who believes vibrators level the orgasm playing field between genders.
Q&A with a vibrator abstainer
Posted by Jules
Saturday 23 July 2022
Vibrators: sex elevating magic wands or desensitizing machines that reduce intimacy? This week I sat down with people from both camps. This interview is with a woman who prefers sex without all the bells and whistles sex toys offer.
Why is Sex Often Mediocre?
Posted by Iso
Friday 22 July 2022
There's good sex, bad sex, then there's plain old mediocre sex. Here's how to combat it.
Q&A With a Woman Who Loves Hairy Men
Posted by Jules
Thursday 21 July 2022
I sat down with a friend who seems ambivalent when it comes to her own grooming routine and who has a thing for hairy men to get her two cents on body hair revolution.
Interview with a Monogamous Queen
Posted by Jules
Thursday 14 July 2022
For all the polyamorous interviews I've been doing, it seemed only fair to get the perspective of someone in a happy, monogamous marriage.
Interview with a Poly Goddess
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 12 July 2022
A few weeks ago, I interviewed some poly novices. This week, I sat down with a poly expert to learn more about navigating polyamorous relationships in the long-term.
Male Masturbation Vs. Female Masturbation
Posted by Iso
Friday 8 July 2022
I asked three men and three women to give me an account of what a typical solo masturbation session looks like for them.
Why women fake orgasms
Posted by Jules
Thursday 7 July 2022
A Q&A with a sex-loving lady on why she fakes orgasms and how it impacts her sex life.
Leo Grande: There’s Nothing Shameful About Pleasure
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 6 July 2022
Both sex work and repressed female desire are explored in Good Luck to You, Leo Grande, a comedic two hander featuring Emma Thompson and Daryl McCormack.
Contraception Q&A with a Public Health Professional
Posted by Jules
Thursday 30 June 2022
After writing about my own experience with birth control, I decided to sit down my mom -- a badass public health professional -- to get her thoughts on the matter.
3 Things That Happened When I Went Off Birth Control
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 28 June 2022
Am opinion piece on the dangers of birth control and the systems that push it, and why I'm happy to be off of it.
The Power of the Pursuer
Posted by Iso
Monday 27 June 2022
In sex and relationships, I always thought playing hard to get was the way to win. Then I tried being the pursuer and realised how wrong I was...
Interview with a Celibate Yogi
Posted by Jules
Thursday 23 June 2022
I sat down with a member of the conscious community to talk about his voluntary celibacy journey. We talk semen retention, swallowing cum, and the dangers of porn.
Interviewing my 6 Male Friends About Sex
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 21 June 2022
From foot fetishes, to mind games, to being suffocated with a PCV skirt, I interviewed 6 male friends about their thoughts on sex, and here's what I found.
Q&A with a Polyamorous Man
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 14 June 2022
Polyamory -- it's the latest trend taking over Brooklyn. People are shedding the societal norms of days past and embracing a world where it's acceptable to date and fall in love with multiple people at once. But what makes polyamory different from normal dating? And what's the reality of having to share a lover with multiple partners? I sat down with a friend who identifies as polyamorous to find out.
4 Reasons Men Cheat
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 7 June 2022
A look into the psychology of why men really cheat.
Me and My 6 Girlfriends Discuss Good and Bad Sex
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 1 June 2022
7 girls, in a villa, forced to get drunk and talk about sex whilst I record the whole thing. What could go wrong?
Hugh Hefner: Oppressor or Liberator?
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 31 May 2022
While Hugh Hefner's name has become synonymous with misogyny, he started the Playboy empire as a progressive thought leader and was a champion for the oppressed. Read on for a nuanced look into the life of this complicated visionary.
Romanticising Our Own Subjugation
Posted by Iso
Friday 27 May 2022
Ever felt bad for calling yourself a feminist but still finding yourself prancing around your bedroom to Lana Del Rey's 'Lolita' and begging to be choked in bed? Here's my think-piece on why we as women often romanticise our own subjugation.
The Invisible Woman: What Happens Once We Hit Middle Age?
Posted by Iso
Thursday 26 May 2022
I interviewed my 62 year old single mother about how she feels her desires as a woman have been unacknowledged since she hit middle age.
The Importance of Pussy Power Music
Posted by Iso
Thursday 19 May 2022
Music influences us more than we know. That's why it's so important that the pussy power era of female music artists is finally coming to fruition.
The Art of the Blowjob
Posted by Jules
Thursday 21 April 2022
Looking to take your blowjob skills to the next level? The Art of the Blowjob breaks down filacio into four unique criteria.
How Sex Work Made Me a Better Lover
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 19 April 2022
Sex work often gets a bad rap for what it does to a woman's psyche and her relationship to sex. But there are some ways in which sex work unequivocally make you a better lover, namely communication, health & safety, and practice.
4 Things I Learned from Watching Sex, Love, & Goop
Posted by Jules
Thursday 7 April 2022
Looking for a lighthearted yet educational series to binge with your latest conquest? Check out Netflix's Sex, Love, & Goop and while you're at it, read about the 4 things I learned from watching it in the post below.
A Night at the Modern Day Moulin Rouge
Posted by Iso
Saturday 5 March 2022
Me and my bestie ventured to Paris. Here’s our experience of the modern day Moulin Rouge.
The Novels of D.H. Lawrence: The Pioneer of Sex-Positive British Literature
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 1 March 2022
An introduction to novels of DH Lawrence, the first mainstream erotica which shocked Britain and the rest of the world.
Dating While Sugaring: Em
Posted by Jules
Thursday 13 January 2022
Meet Em: the New York sugar baby too busy living her best life to get bogged down by societal expectations.