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Ixchel
•Artist, Content creator, Dancer, Erotic audio, Writer, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Pāhoa HI US
Femme queer here to dominate! I love BDSM role play and am formerly trained as a Somatica practitioner.
lilabiene
•BDSM, Companion, Massage, Kinkster, Erotic audio, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
Berlin DE
Kinky Educator and Experience Creator
Kitsune
Artist, Content creator, Erotic audio, Photographer, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Male - Bicurious
Lyon FR
Tantra | BDSM The power of touch and care
Mae
Artist, BDSM & Muse
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
Amsterdam NL
Sensual BDSM or Medical Play?
HighnessTide
Companion, BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person & Online
Female - Lesbian, Queer
New York NY US
Hopeless flirt, will talk your ear off about my dungeon. Might even show it to you if you ask nicely <3
missangelafromhell
BDSM, Companion & Therapist
Services are In person & Online
Female - Sapiosexual
Mexico City MX
Nothing youve ever imagine
ginamaire
BDSM, Coach & Massage
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual
Hollywood FL US
Sexologist | tantra practitioner | Dominatrix | Holistic pleasure coach You might see me on the street—elegant, poised, a quiet mystery—and never suspect what I do behind closed doors. I’m a guide into the depths of erotic transformation. A mature woman. Deeply trained. Intensely embodied. And very, very good at what I do. I’m not for everyone. I’m for those who crave something more—something honest, raw, and holy. My path as a tantrika was born from my own healing—years of unlearning shame, unraveling trauma, and reclaiming my sensuality as sacred. I’ve trained in Classical and Taoist Tantra, trauma-informed coaching, meditation, Reiki, kundalini activation, and somatic healing. But most of all, I’ve lived it. Men come to me when they’re ready to become the kind of lover women crave. Women seek me to reawaken their sensuality and remember how to melt. Couples arrive wanting to deepen, to play, to feel more than they ever have before. My sessions are equal parts sanctuary and initiation. A place where you are guided back to your raw, radiant, untamed self. I blend tantra, BDSM, energy work, and somatic practice to dissolve blocks, activate the body’s intelligence, and open you to a whole new world of pleasure. Each session is crafted from intuition, experience, and a deep desire to meet you where you’re at… and take you somewhere entirely new. Whether we’re exploring sacred sensuality, deep bodywork, full-service intimacy, or personalized BDSM scenes—everything I offer is intentional, energetic, and exquisitely crafted. I don’t rush. I don’t play games. I want your truth, your hunger, your heart, and your devotion. So if you’re longing for more… More sensation. More connection. More you— Send me a message. But be warned: once we meet, you may never see yourself the same way again. Each Tantra session includes these options: full-body sensual massage, heart massage, yoni & lingam massage, pelvic floor massage, prostate massage, and nuru massage. BDSM Scenes Explore your desires, kinks, and fantasies in a space where you’re fully seen and safe to let go. Whether you want to experience deep surrender, explore dominance, or understand yourself more through BDSM, I create personalized experiences where you can push your edges, discover new pleasures, and step into a whole new level of erotic energy. I highly recommend having a Tantra session before a BDSM scene so that we can create deeper trust, safety, and openness in your body. Energy Work & Pleasure Alchemy Pleasure is energy. When you allow it to flow fully, it transforms everything. I’ve created my own personal methodology—a blend of somatic experiencing, reiki, kundalini activation, and tantric practices—to help you release blocks, activate your sexuality, and turn pain into pleasure. Full Service – A Deeply Intimate, Mutual Experience For those who desire a fully immersive, reciprocal experience, I offer full service, where we explore mutual pleasure and connection in a deeply intimate way. This offering requires a proper screening process, and you must have already worked with me in one of my other services before requesting this experience. Sessions & Rates Individual Tantra Sessions 4-Hour Tantra Immersion – $1,200 3-Hour Tantra Session – $900 2-Hour Tantra Session – $700 Couples Tantra Sessions 4-Hour Tantra Immersion – $1,600 3-Hour Tantra Session – $1,300 2-Hour Tantra Session – $1,100 Full Service (Requires a Tantra session first) Individual 2-Hour – $1,700 3-Hour – $1,900 4-Hour – $2,200 Couples 2-Hour – $2,100 3-Hour – $2,300 4-Hour – $2,600 Your pleasure is waiting. Please fill out this form to book your session with me or learn more about me by searching Gina Marie on Sacred Eros. Application: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfRHPdwtnYZyH3iCZdxm2WcfPNwISq1sDcnOzseYMg8hO1msQ/viewform
GoddessAnyaDivine
Content creator, Muse, Erotic audio, Companion, BDSM, Kinkster, Massage & Sugar baby
Services are In person & Online
Female - Bisexual, Pansexual
Chicago IL US
Dominant. Deviant. Divine.
AndreLazarus
Companion, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Male - Queer
Barcelona ES
I help people discover and unlock their highest potential.
mvpblack
Artist, BDSM & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Queer
Zagreb HR
Light, Life, Love, and Liberty
aBrandi_kink
Content creator, Erotic audio, Photographer, Writer, Companion, Sugar baby, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
El Paso TX US
papipistacchio
BDSM, Kinkster, Massage, Retreat & Muse
Services are In person
Male - Straight
Berlin DE
Swedish/German. Viking roots, Berlin boots. D/s Dominant, explorer, expert cuddler.
What is impact play?
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Impact play is an activity in the world of BDSM and kink. It involves one person (the 'top' or 'dominant') delivering various forms of physical impact to another person (the 'bottom' or 'submissive'). The purpose of impact play is typically to create sensations of pain for the sub, which in turn creates pleasure for both partners. Impact play can take many forms, such as spanking, whipping or caning.
What makes it hot?
The appeal of impact play is often rooted in punishment. It's about those fulfilling those fantasies surrounding people in positions of power like school teachers. Many people love impact play purely for the rush of endorphins they receive from the pain. Others like the idea of being branded because the connotations it carries of being owned by somebody.
Safety is paramount. Communicate openly with your partner about limits, use safe words, and establish clear signals to indicate comfort levels. Start slowly, especially if you're new to impact play, and avoid sensitive areas like the kidneys and spine. Regularly check in with your partner to ensure their well-being.
While there is specialised BDSM equipment available, you can start with everyday items like hands, belts, or wooden spoons for lighter impact play. If you progress to more intense activities, consider investing in purpose-built tools like floggers or paddles. Always prioritise the cleanliness and safety of any items used.
Absolutely. Many people find pleasure in both giving and receiving sensations from impact play. It can be a way to explore power dynamics, experience different sensations, and enhance intimacy. Open communication ensures that both partners derive enjoyment and satisfaction from the experience.
DO
Communication: Have an open discussion about why you are both into impact play and what you want to get out of it.
Research: Whether you're spanking or being spanked, it's important to know the right parts of the body which are safe to hit.
Aftercare: No matter how soft or heavy the play, spending close time together afterwards is imperative.
DON'T
Rush: Don't hurry into the hardcore stuff. A slow build of impact play is always sexier, anyway.
Danger zones: Don't go near the lower back. This can cause permanent damage and is a hard no-go area.
No Communication: Don't begin without discussing a safe word. This is crucial to all BDSM play.