Couples' intro to shibari
A couples' intro to shibari — an intimate date night in the rope. For two people curious about how it feels to tie and be tied, and wanting to learn the basics together.
We talk through consent, boundaries and risks first. I then teach you foundational ties you can take home, and, if you'd like, I can also tie one or both of you, so you feel the other side of the rope: the tension, the closeness, the slow build of trust. We stay with what feels right for you both. Three hours gives the work room to unfold.
A beginners' rope kit from my shop, Sakunawa, can be bought on the day, so you can take your rope home with you.
I work in London. The venue varies with availability and is confirmed on booking.
A 50% non-refundable deposit holds the date. The balance is due on the day or before.
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Frequently asked questions
We start by talking through consent, boundaries and risks, together. Then I teach you some foundational ties, and, if you'd like, I can also tie one or both of you, so you feel the other side of the rope. We stay with what feels right for you both, and three hours gives the work room to unfold.
Something you can move in and feel good in. Soft, close-fitting layers work well with rope; you can bring a change of clothes if you'd like. We'll talk it through beforehand.
Yes. I can put a beginners' kit aside from my shop, Sakunawa, for you to buy on the day — four hanks, oil and shears. The Koumanawa kit is £46; the Clara kit is £50, and is for floor work only, not suspension.
Location · London
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Private 1:1 rope session
A private, 1:1 rope session led by me: the pacing, the tension, the way the rope lands, shaped around you. We talk through consent, boundaries and risks first, then settle into the work — connection, surrender, trust, and a little play, at a pace that suits you.I teach and perform kinbaku internationally, and this is the more intimate, one-to-one side of that work. Most people book two or three hours, so there's time to arrive, drop in, and not feel cut short. Aftercare is part of the session.I work in London. The venue varies with availability and is confirmed on booking. Travel is by arrangement; venue hire and travel are not included in the rates below.A 50% non-refundable deposit holds the date. The balance is due on the day or before.
Category & tags
- Couples' intro180 min · Foundational tuition, plus time for me to tie one or both of you if you'd like. · up to 2 £290
- Shibari Bundle: 4×8m Koumanawa1 min · 4 × 8m of 5.5mm Koumanawa jute, treated and ready to tie. Take your rope home; available to buy on the day. £60
- Shibari Bundle: 4×8m Clara seconds1 min · 4 × 8m of 6mm Clara jute seconds. Not suitable for suspension work or any harness that could be suspended from. Ideal for floor work, sensory play and bedroom bondage; available to buy on the day. £30
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