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Melo •
Born in France, living in Berlin, I live for music and the pleasures of intimacy....
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Hypnotic Dominance · Sensual Guidance · Conscious Power Exchange I work with presence, voice and attention, not to overwhelm, but to guide. My sessions are about depth rather than spectacle. About entering altered states where control feels natural, surrender feels chosen, and desire unfolds slowly and consciously. I lead primarily through words, rhythm and framing. Hypnosis, subtle dominance and sensory awareness are at the center of my work. Physical elements may be included when they serve the experience, never as an end in themselves. This is not about extremes or constant intensity. It is about attunement: noticing breath, posture, hesitation, response and shaping the dynamic from there. My dominance is calm, intentional and responsive. I guide, I hold space, I invite you deeper. Those who follow are supported. Those who hesitate are oriented, never rushed. Hypnosis plays a central role in my sessions. We work with imagination, inner imagery and suggestion to create experiences that feel richer and more immersive than everyday reality. Touch may be used to anchor and deepen trance, always consciously and with purpose. I particularly enjoy working with people who want to let go with awareness, who are curious about surrender, altered states and erotic depth in a protected, respectful setting. Trust, communication and mutual mindfulness are essential to me. Desire grows from safety and clarity, not pressure. • You don’t need a detailed script, but you do need a direction. • If you know what draws you here, I can guide you. • If you expect something to “just happen” without engagement, we are not a good match. Important notes: • I do not accept phone calls. • Please write to me first with your name, what interests you, and your level of experience (including if you are new). • I respond personally and honestly. If it feels aligned for both of us, the result will be more than just a session....
MelissaD
Ritual Play, Guide, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Tantric Touch: Old stories and pressures can dissolve.... In their place, new languages of touch, desire, and expression are discovered. If you’re stuck in your head, tired of routine, or yearning for deeper connection, my work supports you in awakening to your erotic aliveness. Let’s explore new ways to touch, talk, and play. Who My Work Is For: For Men: Tired of the pressure to perform? Learn to trust your body, slow down, and expand pleasure without chasing a goal. Move from anxiety into embodied erotic confidence and full-body presence. Wholistic approach to rapid ejaculation, ED, grief, shame around desires. For Women: Longing to feel safe, free, and fully alive in your sensual body? Whether you’re navigating numbness, disconnection, or deep desire, come home to yourself. Reclaim your voice, your power, and your pleasure at any age. For Couples: Feeling distant, out of sync, or stuck in a routine? Together, we’ll shift from mundane to meaningful—from disconnection into erotic play. You’ll learn new ways to communicate, co-regulate through sensual practices, and rediscover each other. Even mismatched desire can become a doorway to deeper connection. Or maybe things already feel fantastic, and you’re simply wondering, “What’s next for us?” This work can open new horizons of play, intimacy, and pleasure for couples at any stage. About Melissa D: Magical. Clinical Hypnotherapist. Certified Somatic Sex Educator. Sexological Bodyworker. Director of BodyJoy Intimacy School. With over 15 years of experience supporting men, women, and couples, I weave lived experience, science, sensuality, and spirit to guide people back to the wisdom of their bodies and the truth of their desires. Training & Lineage Highlights: Current Facilitator – HimErosProject.com (since 2017) Guest Practitioner – Back to the Body with Pamela Madsen (ongoing) Duel Certificates in Clinical Hypnotherapy (CHt) – SWIHA & Rainya Dann (2009) Certified Sex Educator – SFSI (2014) Taoist Sexual Mastery - Mantak Chia - Tao Garden Thailand 2015 Certified Somatic Sex Educator – ISSSE (2016) Sexological Bodyworker – ACSB (2016) Wheel of Consent – Like a Pro for Professionals. Dr. Betty Martin (2017) Urban Tantra Practitioner – Barbara Carrellas (2018) Intimacy Training – Caffyn Jesse (2016) Kink Mentorships / training with Pro Dom Max, and JD (of Two Knotty Boys), and Mistress Chloe (SF) Shadow EFT — The Sanctum with MosJeff Genital De-armoring Training - Rahi Chun Continued mentorship with Dr Charla Hathaway PhD and Dr Susan Kaye: Masters and Johnson's intern who coined the term Surrogate Partner Therapy. My training and explorations have been enriched by years of mentorship and supervision with some of the most brilliant minds in the field- a treasure I carry with me into every aspect of my work. My work is for those who value depth, skill and grounded guidance. Your time is precious—and you deserve a premium experience. Let’s begin with a conversation......
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demuredomina
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Energy_Hands
Massage: When touch becomes meditation. My name is Paul. I create a massage experience where you can fully arrive in your body and simply receive. I delight in offering slow, sensual touch, letting every movement invite softness, pleasure, and deep release. With me, you don’t have to perform or give anything back. You can soften, open, and allow yourself to be guided by warm, steady, intentional hands that listen closely to your body until tension melts and your breathing deepens. My massage is slow, flowing, and deeply body-aware. Strong when your muscles need support. Gentle, sensual, and attentive when your nervous system needs safety. Grounding masculine presence combined with respectful sensitivity. My hands explore with careful, devoted curiosity, following the natural lines of your body, easing tension, and allowing warm waves of sensation and relaxation to spread. Many women begin to drift during the session. Thoughts quiet down. The body softens. Warmth expands. Control fades. You are allowed to let go and feel cared for without pressure or expectation. I work with women of all body types and life phases. You are welcome exactly as you are. Stressed. Tired. Touch-hungry. Or simply ready to feel held in a safe, protected space created just for you. My work blends deep relaxation massage, flowing Swedish techniques, Thai-Yoga elements, and mindful energy-based touch, always following your body’s signals. My path continues to deepen into presence, pleasure awareness, and the connection between body, breath, and energy. In my care, women often rediscover softness, warmth, and the freedom to surrender into their own sensual aliveness, feeling seen, wanted, and completely safe to receive. For me, sensuality means presence, warmth, and feeling alive and safe in your body. On my table, you are allowed to fully receive....
Maxine Dreams
Hello, I'm Maxine! I'm a romantic hedonist and artist with a love for deep connection and all things erotic. I'm driven by a desire to dive into the deep sexual arts and create memorable experiences. Are you finally wanting a specific fantasy to come true? Do you want a customized erotic ritual that is all about pleasure and connection? Are you curious to experience submission? Do you want to learn new techniques to share with your lovers? I can support you with all of this! After working in the creative technology field, I decided to commit to the erotic arts, inspired by my own artistic practice which was becoming quite erotic and the sexual exploration I was lucky to experience in my early 20s. I am also trained as a sex coach, somatic practitioner, and energy worker. I have over six years of experience as an erotic bodyworker and three years of experience as pro-domme. However, these to me are more than just professions, but also a lifestyle. I live and breathe sensuality. My dominance is subtle at first. I am deeply inquisitive and confident, as I gather details on who exactly is within my presence. I deeply crave and desire your submission through intentional power play or the kind that arrives from your submitting to your desires that you have in trusted me with. I weave passion and power into every encounter. I seek to enchant and elevate someone who is ready to be molded into a perfect devotee and perfect version of themselves. You will become my favorite work of art. My scenes are meticulously tailored and I desire to truly connect with all those I meet, which is why I cherish the long-term relationships that can develop over time. My attention is the ultimate act of love, and with me, no part of you will be left untouched....
Indira
I am an experience designer creating intentional spaces where truth can reveal itself and what has been held back can gently come to the surface — to be met and integrated through presence. My work explores trust, intimacy, belonging, and power dynamics, and unfolds at the intersection of art, embodiment, and relational awareness. I create containers that invite people to slow down and meet what is actually present. I draw from practices such as shibari, breathwork, nervous system and trauma awareness, constellation work, movement, somatic experiencing, emotional release, and ritualized forms of touch including tantric bodywork, Thai yoga massage, deep tissue work, fascia release, and de-armouring. The spaces I hold are non-hierarchical and consent-based. While power dynamics may be explored intentionally, choice and agency always remain central. No session is ever the same. I respond to the moment with attentiveness, intuition, and respect for the unique dynamic that unfolds. I aim to create spaces that are inclusive across genders, bodies, and backgrounds, held with care and respect for difference....
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Greetings, Those who know me professionally simply call me Goddess (she/her). I have 7 years experience as a professional Dominatrix, and 10+ years as a professional cuddler. I always had one foot in the "BDSM" pool, but my work as a cuddler drove me to dive deeper, at the behest of some of the individuals I served. I believe in fostering a safe and nurturing environment for you to explore and uncover parts of yourself you never knew existed....
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Intimate events for curious lovers to deepen connection and explore desires together. Sensual lofts, indulgent products, expert curated content and exclusive events designed to unleash your deepest desires. SPNKD Berlin is the international expansion of our established Antwerp studio, which has served as a beacon for erotic exploration since 2018. It is a high-end sanctuary designed for couples and individuals to explore the intersection of intimacy, conscious kink, and personal growth in a sophisticated, curated environment. SPNKD.com...
soma_rose
i am a priestess of deep, present and sensual embodiment. i am a sensual movement artist // performer with a focus on pole dance and contemporary movement. i am a midwifery student devoted to expanding sovereignty and freedom with pregnant folx in our community. i am a professional massage therapist with a focus on trauma-informed support in expanding pleasure and sensation. i am a practicing somatic astrologer and tarot reader as well. i am also a doctoral student writing a dissertation on mysticism and sexual ethics. i have been practicing and teaching around trauma-transforming BDSM practice as a submissive // gentle switch for many years now....