Pleasure education () professionals
What they didn't teach us at school.
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jamiejoy
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Queer & Trans sex and kink educator spreading joy and pleasure through community orgynizing
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DanicaDaye
In person & Online/Virtual
Boulder CO US
Upside down & off the trail 🌿✨ Handstands, hikes & living unfiltered
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spc
In person
Creative grassroots collective on a mission to empower women and AFAB to boldly explore their PLEASURE
Coach
ReflectorForHire
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
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mistressivylenox
In person & Online/Virtual
New York NY US
Fiercely ambitious hedonist with a passion for loyal dogs, bratty beasts, and all kinky creatives/professionals.
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Dirty Lola
Online/Virtual
New York NY US
What do you get when you mix softcore porn with an encyclopedia of sex? Why, Dirty Lola, of course!
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Selana
In person & Online/Virtual
Athens GR
Womb Healing meets Shibari. I'm not as cute as I seem. PM for more ;)
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What is pleasure education?
Pleasure education, also known as sex-positive education, is a holistic approach to sexual education that emphasises the importance of understanding, experiencing, and expressing sexual pleasure in a healthy, informed, and consensual manner. It goes beyond the traditional focus on reproduction, contraception, and disease prevention to include discussions about intimacy, consent, body positivity, sexual rights, and the emotional and psychological aspects of sexual experiences. Pleasure education aims to empower individuals to make informed decisions about their sexual health and to enjoy fulfilling and respectful sexual relationships.
What makes it hot?
The importance of pleasure education lies in its ability to foster a more comprehensive and positive understanding of sexuality. By addressing the often-neglected aspects of pleasure and consent, it promotes healthier attitudes towards sex and relationships. This education helps individuals develop a better sense of self-awareness and body positivity, reduces feelings of shame and guilt associated with sexual desires, and encourages open communication between partners. Additionally, it contributes to reducing the incidence of sexual violence and coercion by emphasizing the importance of mutual consent and respect. Overall, pleasure education supports the development of healthier, more respectful, and satisfying sexual experiences.
Resources for pleasure education can be found in various places, including online platforms like Sensuali, books, workshops, and organisations dedicated to sexual health and education.
Pleasure education can be tailored to suit different age groups, ensuring that the content is age-appropriate and developmentally suitable. While young children might focus on body awareness and respect, older teens and adults can explore more in-depth topics like intimacy, consent, and sexual techniques.
Pleasure education aims to be inclusive and respectful of diverse cultural and religious backgrounds. It encourages open dialogue and understanding, allowing individuals to explore their sexuality within the context of their personal beliefs and values.
DO
Promote open communication: Encourage honest and respectful discussions about sexuality, consent, and pleasure among partners, educators, and learners.
Provide accurate information: Ensure that the information shared is fact-based, up-to-date, and sourced from reputable organisations and experts in the field.
Respect boundaries: Acknowledge and respect personal boundaries and comfort levels when discussing topics related to sexual pleasure and health.
Emphasise consent: Highlight the importance of mutual consent in all sexual activities, making it a foundational principle of pleasure education.
Celebrate diversity: Recognise and affirm the wide range of sexual orientations, identities, and experiences, promoting an inclusive and accepting environment.
DON'T
Shame or stigmatise: Avoid language or attitudes that could make individuals feel ashamed or guilty about their sexual desires or experiences.
Rely on myths: Steer clear of perpetuating common sexual myths or misconceptions; focus on providing clear, accurate, and evidence-based information.
Ignore emotional aspects: Don't overlook the emotional and psychological components of sexual pleasure, such as intimacy, connection, and mental well-being.
Exclude non-heteronormative perspectives: Ensure that pleasure education is inclusive of LGBTQ+ experiences and perspectives, rather than centring solely on heteronormative narratives.
Pressure or coerce: Avoid any form of coercion or pressure to participate in discussions or activities related to sexual pleasure; participation should always be voluntary and consensual.