About me
My services are for
Women, Men, Couple, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid, Intersex
I offer experiences
Online/Virtual
Age & gender
40s · Female
I speak
English, French
I'm Velvet Lilith, Certified Somatic Sexologist, Intimacy and Relationship coach and Sex Educator.
Evidence-informed, body-based support for adults who want a more honest, confident and alive relationship with their intimacy, desire and pleasure.
I work with people who feel capable and accomplished in most areas of life and have quietly accepted that sex, intimacy and relationships are the exception. People who feel disconnected from their bodies, go through the motions with a partner, carry shame or inherited scripts about what they should want, or simply know there's more available to them and are curious about what that is.
I work with both mind-body connection. I provide education to my clients about bodies, intimacy and relationships, so they stop assuming something is wrong with them. I help them uncover the unconscious beliefs and inherited stories shaping how they experience their body, sex, intimacy and relationships, and together we rewrite the narratives that no longer serve them. And I share somatic practices that support pleasure and nervous-system regulation, because desire, arousal and intimacy live in the nervous system, and that's where sustainable change occurs.
My practice is queer, kink, non-monogamy and sex-worker informed and welcoming, and I use plain and accessible language regardless of your background or beliefs.
Sex was never meant to be performed. When you stop performing it or re-enacting scripts you were handed that were not written for you, you get to find out what feels true for you.
Please note that my work does not involve any genital touch and my sessions are conducted online.
My qualifications
11–15 years of experience
I've been working with people in private and group settings for over a decade. From bodywork and energy healing, my practice has evolved to Somatic work and Intimacy and Relationship coaching,
Education and training
Integrative Sex Coaching and Sex Education - The Sexual Integration Institute (currently completing)
Somatic Sex Coaching - Institute of Somatic Sexology
Sensual Embodied Dance Facilitator - Holly Wodetzki
Pranayama breathwork facilitator - Breath of the Heart
Kundalini Yoga YTT - Samadhi Yoga Ashram
Temple Style Lomi Lomi Massage therapist - Christina Martin
Womb & Fertility Massage Therapy™ - Carol Jones
Circle Facilitator - The Global Sisterhood
Sacred Space Facilitator (Shamanic practice framework) - Sharon Bolt
Reiki Level 1, 2, Master - Alicia Casillas, Poppy Om Chi Reiki, Jeremy OCarroll
The Shakta Path - Ritual and Ceremony - Breath of the Heart, Uma Neave
Closing of the Bones Ceremony - Sophie Messager
The Four Seasons Journey - School of Shamanic Womancraft (Jane Hardwick Collins)
Women’s Health and Wellness Coach - Wellness College (currently completing)
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