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Walk a day in someone else’s shoes through this unfiltered interview series.
‘That Time I Did Male Sex Work’ : Q&A
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 18 January 2023
I interviewed K, a university friend who once dabbled in sex work. We spoke about why he did it, why he stopped it, and what truly constitutes to feeling empowered.
Navigating an Interracial Relationship in 2023
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 10 January 2023
This week, I sat down with two good friends to discuss their experience of falling in love and navigating being in an interracial relationship.
Interview with a Red Pill Enthusiast
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 3 January 2023
This week I sat down with a self-proclaimed anti-feminist and it wasn't nearly as awful as I was expecting.
Interview with a Brooklyn kinkster
Posted by Jules
Thursday 22 December 2022
This week, my kinkster friend gave me a rundown of Brooklyn's underground BDSM scene and shared insights about how kink has helped him forge deep connections with both himself and others.
Dating Culture in the 1980s: A Mother-Daughter Interview
Posted by Jules
Thursday 15 December 2022
This week, I squeezed in some mother-daughter bonding by interviewing my mom about what it was like to date in the go-go 80s.
Q&A: Overcoming Vaginismus
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 13 December 2022
This week, I sat down with a friend to talk about her experience getting and overcoming vaginismus -- a condition that makes sex for women painful and in some cases, impossible.
Inside the Mind of a Sex Addict
Posted by Jules
Thursday 8 December 2022
This week, I sat down with an ex-lover to hear about his struggles with compulsive sexual behavior and his journey to recovery.
Interview with a Gender-Nonconforming Couple
Posted by Jules
Thursday 24 November 2022
This week I sat down with one of my favorite couples, Bee and Graham, to talk about gender identity and what it's like being in a gender non-conforming relationship.
Q&A With a Healer Goddess About her Coaching Business
Posted by Jules
Thursday 17 November 2022
This week I sat down with a tantrika friend to hear about her journey from school teacher to wellness Girlboss.
Q&A With a Man Who Chose to Let Go of His Judgements Around Sugaring
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 15 November 2022
This week, I sat down with a man who has dated multiple ex-sugar babies to get his two cents about dating women with a sex work past.
Adventures in Sugarland: Baby Takes Tulum
Posted by Jules
Thursday 10 November 2022
I sat down with a friend to get the latest on her sugaring adventures abroad in Mexico.
Interview with a Chick Considering Having a Rich Dude’s Baby
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 25 October 2022
This week I sat down with ex-baby friend who is debating having the child of a wealthy CEO.
When a Daddy Dom Goes too Far
Posted by Jules
Thursday 20 October 2022
This week I sat down with a sugar baby friend to get the details on her latest infatuation -- a daddy dom who has fallen hard for her. While it's undoubtedly a relationship full of passion, she's started to lose herself a bit.
Green Card Marriage: Sugar Edition
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 4 October 2022
I sat down with a sugar baby to get the details on her recent green card marriage to an ex-daddy. We talk about love, the institution of marriage, and what it's like to marry someone for money.
Girl on Girl 101: Insight For First Timers
Posted by Iso
Friday 30 September 2022
Never slept with another woman but definitely thinking about it? I interviewed my bisexual bestie to get the scoop on what lesbian sex is really like and how it compares to the straight stuff. It’s 11pm. My childhood bestie Hope* has arrived at my digs in London for a few days of work (and play). […]
Q&A With a Daddy Who is Getting Out of the Sugar Game
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 27 September 2022
This week, I sat down with an ex-daddy and friend to reminisce about the good sugar times and the bad, as he prepares himself to exit the sugar game once and for all.
The Highs & Lows of Stripper Life
Posted by Iso
Friday 23 September 2022
All forms of sex work can have its and downs, but I spoke with ex-pornstar LouLou Petite about her dancing days and why stripping especially can be a job that takes you on a rollercoaster ride of emotions.
Navigating Sugaring with an STD
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 20 September 2022
I sat down with a sugar baby friend of mine to talk about her recent herpes diagnosis. She gets real about how it's impacted her life, how she plans to navigate sugaring going forward, and what advice she would give to her younger self.
Growing Up With Porn As A Girl
Posted by Iso
Friday 16 September 2022
I chatted to 27 year old Eileen to get a female take on being part of a generation that grew up with internet porn.
An Interview With A Long-Term Bicurious
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 14 September 2022
I interview 30 year old Jasmine about her journey from identifying as straight, to bisexual and eventually as bicurious.
Losing and Reclaiming Your Sexuality
Posted by Iso
Friday 9 September 2022
I spoke to Eve*, who hasn’t had sex for over 12 years and is now ready to reclaim her sexuality
Interview with a Yoni Massage Hobbyist
Posted by Jules
Friday 2 September 2022
I sat down with a friend to talk all things yoni massage. We cover yoni massage protocols, the importance of consent, and how yoni massage can be used to foster intimacy and build trust in relationships.
Q&A With a Fake Boob Enthusiast
Posted by Jules
Wednesday 24 August 2022
This week, I sat down with a friend who I can always count on to broaden my horizons. He lives far outside my woke little hipster bubble and had some interesting insights into fake boobs.
Q&A with a Traditional Tantric Practitioner
Posted by Jules
Monday 22 August 2022
This week I interviewed a dear friend from my ashram days. In addition to being my all-time favorite yoga instructor, Vik is a dedicated tantra practitioner. In this interview, we cover the basics of tantra and discuss how a tantric practice can not only up your sex game; but every facet of your life.
The Mindset of a Masochist
Posted by Iso
Saturday 20 August 2022
What's to like about pain and degradation? I interviewed my close friend and masochist to find out.
What They Don’t Tell You About Childbirth
Posted by Iso
Thursday 18 August 2022
I had an unfiltered conversation with my sister, who has recently become a mother, about the effect of childbirth on your emotional state, your physicality and your sex life.
Q&A with a queer lady whose all about natural breasts
Posted by Jules
Thursday 18 August 2022
This week I sat down with a queer lady to discuss her preference for natural tits over fake ones.
Q&A with a Heteronormative Hipster Who Prefers Natural to Plastic
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 16 August 2022
The debate between natural and augmented boobs begins. This week, I sat down with a heteronormative hipster boy to get his take on why he prefers natural to plastic...tits that is.
Sexual Healing: An Interview with a Sexually Enlightened Body Worker
Posted by Jules
Saturday 13 August 2022
This week I sat down with an acupuncturist friend to discuss all things sexual healing. From tantra to Kundalini energy to root chakras, we got down and dirty with all things woo-woo. Needless to say, I was in heaven.
Q&A With a Sugar Baby
Posted by Jules
Thursday 11 August 2022
This week I sat down with a girl boss who has turned to sugaring to build her business empire.
Psychology of a Cuck
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 9 August 2022
This week I sat down with a friend and ex-lover to discuss his unfilled cuckold fantasy. Digressions include virtual reality porn and how to not come across as a total douche on dating apps.
Inside the Mind of an Exhibitionist
Posted by Jules
Thursday 4 August 2022
When I hear the word exhibitionist, the first thing that pops to mind is a creepy old dude masturbating on the subway. But it turns out, exhibitionists comes in all shapes and sizes. This week I sat down with one of my most sexually liberated of gal pals to learn more about her kink for public nudity, sex, and masturbation.
Keeping Sex Fun in a Long-Term Relationship
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 3 August 2022
I spoke to a close male friend about the journey of his sex life through his 9 year long relationship.
Q&A with an Average Joe About Porn
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 2 August 2022
Porn. Can't live with it. Can't live without it. This week I sat down with a male friend in his 40s to get his take on porn. He gets real about his porn habits, the societal shifts he’s observed in sex culture, and what he misses most from years passed.
LouLou Petite: Inside the Life of a Porn Star
Posted by Iso
Thursday 28 July 2022
I chatted to ex-porn star LouLou Petite, about her experience of working for the top companies in the porn industry.
Q&A with a Vibrator Enthusiast
Posted by Jules
Thursday 28 July 2022
Vibrators: sex elevating magic wands or desensitizing machines that reduce intimacy? This week I sat down with people from both camps. This interview is with a man who believes vibrators level the orgasm playing field between genders.
An Interview With A Serial Cheater
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 27 July 2022
Is cheating ever justifiable? I interviewed a close friend and serial cheater to get some insight.
Q&A with a vibrator abstainer
Posted by Jules
Saturday 23 July 2022
Vibrators: sex elevating magic wands or desensitizing machines that reduce intimacy? This week I sat down with people from both camps. This interview is with a woman who prefers sex without all the bells and whistles sex toys offer.
Q&A With a Woman Who Loves Hairy Men
Posted by Jules
Thursday 21 July 2022
I sat down with a friend who seems ambivalent when it comes to her own grooming routine and who has a thing for hairy men to get her two cents on body hair revolution.
Q&A With a Man Who Loves Hairless Women
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 19 July 2022
Body hair seems to be making a comeback. From bearded men to women with full bushes and armpit hair, inflation isn't the only throwback to the 70s we seem to be experiencing -- at least in Brooklyn. But not everyone is here for the bush. I sat down with a guy friend to get the low down on why he prefers hairless pussies. I promise, he's not as a much of a male chauvinist as he sounds.
Interview with a Monogamous Queen
Posted by Jules
Thursday 14 July 2022
For all the polyamorous interviews I've been doing, it seemed only fair to get the perspective of someone in a happy, monogamous marriage.
Interview with a Poly Goddess
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 12 July 2022
A few weeks ago, I interviewed some poly novices. This week, I sat down with a poly expert to learn more about navigating polyamorous relationships in the long-term.
Male Masturbation Vs. Female Masturbation
Posted by Iso
Friday 8 July 2022
I asked three men and three women to give me an account of what a typical solo masturbation session looks like for them.
Why women fake orgasms
Posted by Jules
Thursday 7 July 2022
A Q&A with a sex-loving lady on why she fakes orgasms and how it impacts her sex life.
The Mentality Behind Footfetish
Posted by Iso
Wednesday 29 June 2022
I asked Neil, a 43 year old Geordie man about his experience with his lifelong footwear fetish and the mentality behind it.
Interview with a Celibate Yogi
Posted by Jules
Thursday 23 June 2022
I sat down with a member of the conscious community to talk about his voluntary celibacy journey. We talk semen retention, swallowing cum, and the dangers of porn.
Interviewing my 6 Male Friends About Sex
Posted by Iso
Tuesday 21 June 2022
From foot fetishes, to mind games, to being suffocated with a PCV skirt, I interviewed 6 male friends about their thoughts on sex, and here's what I found.
The perspective of an enlightened sugar daddy
Posted by Iso
Friday 17 June 2022
I met up with a genuine sugar daddy who knows his way around the block, and asked him to share his informed outlook on the wild, wild world of sugar dating and some of its falsities.
Q&A with a Polyamorous Woman
Posted by Jules
Thursday 16 June 2022
I sat down with my bestie who recently began identifying as poly after years of trying to do the whole monogamous thing. Here's what she had to say.
Q&A with a Polyamorous Man
Posted by Jules
Tuesday 14 June 2022
Polyamory -- it's the latest trend taking over Brooklyn. People are shedding the societal norms of days past and embracing a world where it's acceptable to date and fall in love with multiple people at once. But what makes polyamory different from normal dating? And what's the reality of having to share a lover with multiple partners? I sat down with a friend who identifies as polyamorous to find out.