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My experiences are for Male, Couple, Female
I offer experiences In person & Online/Virtual
30s , Female
I speak English, German, Other

Fabiola Einhorn | The Pleasurehacker — Somatic Tantra & Sexual Empowerment Coach

After a near-death experience, I lost my body and my voice completely. Rebuilding them — through tantra, somatic work, breath, and sound, stress-tested everything I knew and taught me to attune at a level I couldn't have reached any other way. What came out the other side was a practice that can show up for all parts of you, including the parts you've never shown anyone. People had been asking me to do this work for years. Losing everything is what finally made me say yes.

I'm here to guide you back into your sensual intelligence — the part of you that already knows how to feel, to receive, and to be fully alive. My job is simply to help you remember it.

What makes me different:

Ten years of classical and neo-tantra practice, 700+ hours of trauma-informed training rooted in lineage-respecting traditions, and a parallel decade as a UX designer working inside high-pressure innovation environments. I created Pleasurehacking because brilliant, busy women deserve daily access to pleasure — not as a luxury, but as a life force. I felt that most of what is offered in this space is either too clinical or too ungrounded, and hence you’ll feel my approach is genuinely different.

I'm not dogmatic about method. I follow you, not the protocol. My toolkit includes breathwork, IFS, classical tantra, somatic coaching, and mantra singing. I'm a specialist in using the voice as a somatic tool for pleasure, emotional release, and trauma processing. Sound and breath often unlock what talk alone cannot.

What we uncover together:

I work 1:1 with women who want to sexually thrive — not just function:

Exploring the full spectrum of your body's capacity, including the 10 different kinds of orgasm — each a doorway into a different part of yourself, explored at your pace, never forced. The spiritual dimensions of pleasure and life force energy, held in a container that is safe and genuinely sacred. I also love myth-busting and educating on classical tantra, and what we learnt about our bodies. Discernment and finding your truth is the most important to me.

Wherever you are, I partner with you to move through shame, disconnection, and the stories that maybe have kept you smaller than you are. Finding your voice — literally and somatically — as a gateway to more pleasure, expression, and freedom.

What to expect:

Most people feel a real shift after one session. I always leave you with home practices and very doable pleasurehacks. My work is deep — but it's also playful. Transformation doesn't have to feel so heavy. Sometimes it arrives as laughter, as surprise, as suddenly feeling at home in a body you'd been at war with for years.

I've lived a full life — moved through real hardship, explored many relationship dynamics and cultures, and brought all of it into how I hold space. You won't need to explain yourself to me.

If you are curious, if this moved something in you, I’d love to hear from you. I’m just a message away from supporting your desires 🤍

And in case you wondered - yes, my real name is actually Einhorn! 🦄

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Communication issues Couples coaching Dating advice Embodiment Erectile dysfunction Experience for couples Intimacy coaching Queer sex coaching Sex magick coaching Somatic Sexology Conscious Sexuality Educational 1 on 1 Menstrual education Pleasure education Polyamory Relationships Understanding Desire B2B Boundaries Erection problems Group Retreats Open relationship Pelvic Floor Self exploration Tantric Tantric Retreats Trauma healing Yoga Yoni massage Breathwork Pleasure Mapping

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