Kink Consulting

What Is This Service?

This service is a chance for you to unburden and discover yourself. Have you always wondered about kink and BDSM, but haven't known where to start? Haven't had the opportunity to explore how you'd like?

Maybe you're struggling with something: communication troubles in or out of the bedroom, a feeling that something is missing, dissatisfaction, a sense of monotony. Maybe you want to spice things up.

Or maybe you're an experienced kinkster looking to make a change, and it would help to talk to someone with years of experience in navigating 24/7 total power exchange (TPE) relationships.

No matter the issue, I offer a listening ear, empathy, and helpful advice. I love making use of my decade-plus of experience in kink and polyamory to improve others' lives.

I discuss all this in a bit more detail on my website, if you'd like further reading.

What Can I Expect?

When you get in touch with me, I'll give you a chance to let me know generally what you'd like to talk about, a little about yourself (whatever you'd like to share), we'll discuss payment, and we will set up a time to meet. We will then meet at the agreed-upon time on Zoom (or whatever video calling platform you prefer, or over the phone), and have a little chat.

Why Should I Listen to You?

I am a professional dominatrix and a lifestyle sub, with 4 years of professional experience and 10+ years of personal experience. I am also in a 24/7 total power exchange relationship. What this means is that I have had ample opportunity to learn about, and work with, various communication and relationship styles. Not only is my entire life organized by power exchange and a huge variety of kink play therein, my professional life is based on quickly understanding client needs and acting to bring their fantasies to life in a way that will be fulfilling to them specifically. No client is generic to me, and I bring that level of personal care to my consulting work as well.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask. I am more than happy to chat.