I'm Nic (he/they), a Certified Sexological Bodyworker, body-based sex and intimacy coach and educator. I'm queer, trans, kinky and neurodivergent, working with fellow GSRD (Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity) and neuroexpansive folx.

My work is informed by the different barriers we run into when navigating this world, and by how our experiences are shaped by the circumstances we find ourselves in, the systems we navigate and the expectations we're surrounded by — and the often messy realities of finding our own way through it all. In our sessions, we explore the wide spectrum of sex, intimacy and relating, while paying attention to the conditions that allow us to live, thrive and be ourselves.

My approach weaves together curiosity, play, tenderness, embodied consent and relational bodywork. I care about radically affirming our experiences and exploring ways of relating to our bodies and one another that are our own. I love queering and questioning the scripts and expectations we've picked up around gender, intimacy, relating and how we're supposed to show up in the world.

Through Somatic Sexology, I accompany people in (re)connecting with their bodies, eroticism and sense of self. This might mean exploring gender and self-expression, finding more affirming ways of relating to your body during, after or beyond transition, navigating neurospicy intimacy and relationships, or unmasking and finding your own rhythms. It might also mean getting curious about kink, communicating wants and boundaries, or tending to experiences of disconnection and shame. Whatever we might explore together, the work centers choice, following your needs and pace, and nurturing self-trust along the way.

I offer online sessions internationally, in-person sessions in Poland, and I'm happy to travel for multi-day work.