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Experiences I offer

About me

My services are for

Women, Men, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid, Intersex

I offer experiences

In person

Age & gender

40s · Female

I speak

English

Dear Santa Cruz, I love being here ❤️ The current vibe I bring is visceral, soothing and equanimous.

I'm in the autumnal mood to give potent, nourishing, compassionate, loving and attuned touch to bodies and souls who are craving comfort, tenderness, slowness, and down-tempo nervous system regulation.

I'm easily available in downtown Santa Cruz Friday-Monday. No shower on site.

All body parts welcome means that all of your external flesh can be offered up for loving, caring holding and touch. Touch is one-way. My mouth and vulva are off-limits. Don't worry, drop in deeply enough and there is far more magick exquisitely available in this play.

When you're ready, I look forward to hearing from you✨

Intrigued or need more details? Keep going!
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Softness, Safety, Sensuality

This offering is for sensually sweet, platonic to erotic touch. If you spill over during a longer session, lovely but not expected. We'll both enjoy it!

Your body is invited to be soft, passive and receiving.

Both of us put our minds into the touch. When we do this the catalyst for co-creation, co-regulation, connection, and present moment ecstasy is born. One person enjoying (me), one person being enjoyed (you), and both are active roles. Think about that for second 😁

When our minds are fully engaged in the sensation of touch this way, Enjoyment blossoms. Everything else falls away. Bliss.

How I touch you is how I would want to be touched if I was on the table. 💖

All bodies welcome. All genitals welcome.

What do sessions look like?

5 min consent conversation. You can change your mind and leave if you're not comfortable. If you stay...
50 min or longer touch session
5 min cool down and wrap up.
Total: 1hr of sweetness and caring.

Add to the initial 1 hour in 30 minute increments if you desire a longer stay.

Why?

Because clients are reporting, "I didn't want it to end." “I’ve been working through trauma" “I didn’t know I could be so soft, absorbed and loved.” “This was healing for integration work.” “No one has ever touched my genitals like this before.” And “Why don’t more people know this?”

What is the magic when we remove all expectations and let natural joy exist for its own sake?

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...nothing short of divine.

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I provide:
Calm and supportive, clear communication
Meditative, starry atmosphere
Cushioned and heated massage table
Natural massage oil
Cosmetics and lingerie free
Short nails and smooth hands
All natural
Ambient music
Refreshing towels for oil removal & cleaning
Warm towels for drying
There is a bathroom with toilet and sink on site.

The desire for mutuality is natural and welcome. If what's healthiest and most wholesome for you is to be full-body held, cuddled, hugged and/or spooned I am here for platonic mutuality! Sexual/erotic touch is one-way only, from me to you. Changing any boundaries in this area requires getting to know you first.

I bring my own lived experience in navigating sensual and sexual landscape from fear to pleasure. My path is well-complimented with trainings in professional cuddling, surrogate partner therapy and trauma-informed conscious sex positivity. My own spiritual practice informs my ability to show up and the desire to touch the way I do.

No expectations of you or your body except to feel good and expand that goodness.

I can be naked or clothed. You can be naked or clothed. All parts of you are welcome to be touched. None of them have to be.

This is mellow. Present. Connected, comforting and sensual.

I enjoy spending quality time with tantric/taoist touch to genitals. It's not touch for teasing, tempting, frustration or build up. It's not for hot sexual fire or to be goal-oriented. It's not for dirty talk or getting into your head about sex. It's not to get you to 'want me'. If any of this is your desire, you will be better served by another provider. Please find someone who matches your desire!

My touch is for the beauty of present moment sensation. Remember? Our minds meet in the touch, that includes genitals. I get turned on by the way I touch you and by how completely you receive me. The realm of lovemaking is far more than most of us have been shown or taught. Subtle and energetic layers of being are available to us when we cultivate the environment for it. I cultivate the environment and simply ask you to join me by putting your mind into the present-moment touch. In this way you may physically spill over, I may energetically spill over...or you may cultivate your energy internally to enhance and exalt your day.

Eye contact is welcome but not expected. You may have your eyes opened or closed as you prefer. Mine are often closed as it can feel like a meditative milky way space between us.

If you're resonating but shy, it's OK! Have courage and reach out, I've got you. 🫠

My qualifications

11–15 years of experience

I've been in sexuality work on and off since 2008. Since 2018 my understanding and comprehension of sexuality has been continually broken open and remade through sadhana. Trainings listed below have complimented and moved me forward in wonderful ways. Perseverance on my path continues to reveal more of the truth of what we are and what's available to us in the realms of self, sexuality and spirit. The intimacy and intensity of the human/spirit connection is what drives my discipline, curiosity, aliveness and work. Joy, naturalness, playfulness and authentic safe-enough presence in sexuality, intimacy and eros are fruits worth bearing and sharing!

Career highlight

I have two essays in the book, Hands On: Stories of Sexuality Work, Intimacy, and Healing. Published in 2025 by Jessica Kingsley Publishers and edited by Remi Newman. My author name is Eva Alio. The essays are titled "Rubix Cube" and "Sex God". They are true accounts of client cases I took on as an Independent Intimacy Guide.

It is customary for me to write about Intimacy Guidance and Surrogate Partner sessions after they happen in a way that captures my perspective and allows the session's essence to be re-lived for the client and myself. These two cases were exceptionally potent and I was thrilled they were both chosen for the book! I participated in author readings around the country that year, including at the 2025 ASSECT Conference (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists) in Las Vegas! You can find out more at www.EvaAlio.com.

Education and training

2021-22 Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification: Layla Martin's VITA Methodology- A Tantric Approach to Transformation in Sex, Love & Relationships
2021 Cuddlist Training from Cuddlist.com
2020-2022 Surrogate Partner Training from International Surrogate Partner Association and Surrogate Partner Collective
2009-2012 Full-Service Provider, NYC

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