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About me

My services are for

Men, Couple, Women, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

30s · Non Binary

I speak

English

I'm Monique (they/them). I'm a fat, Black, non-binary femme Domme with a beautiful body and a personality that fills every room I enter. I'm poised when I want to be, silly when I feel like it, and quietly devastating when you least expect it. I'm intuitive, deeply kinky, and very good at making you feel small, seen, and completely owned--usually while I'm soaked and laughing at you.

Let me tell you what I love most about being me.

I love that I'm the bitch who will absolutely demolish you in Mario Kart before I demolish your ego and make you leak in your cage. That I can quote Jujutsu Kaisen lore while grinding my fat ass against your desperate, denied cock. That my idea of foreplay is explaining why your D&D character build is objectively trash while you kneel at my feet, throbbing and pathetic, knowing you'll never fuck anything this magnificent.

I love that I'm mean. Not performative-mean. Genuinely, deliciously, personally mean. The kind of mean that comes from being smarter than you, funnier than you, and knowing exactly how much you need this. I love watching you flinch when I laugh at your little dick. I love that you can hear me rolling my eyes through the screen while you hump your pillow like a desperate animal. I love telling you exactly how I'd cuck you with someone actually worth my pussy.

I love that I'm a fucking nerd and I don't hide it to seem more dominant. I love that I'll pause a scene to argue about Attack on Titan's ending, then make you edge to my feet while I finish my thought. That I'll feminize you while discussing board game strategy, your makeup running from tears while I tell you how pretty you'd look choking on my strap. That my aftercare might include showing you my Spotify playlist after I've drained your balls and your bank account dry. I love that my power comes from being fully, unapologetically myself--fat, Black, non-binary, loud, and obsessed with being looked at, worshipped, and paid for the privilege.

I love being the center of attention. I crave it. I demand it. Your gaze, your desperation, your wallet, your cum--all of it belongs directed at me. I want you thinking about me during your zoom calls, hard and leaking in your underwear. I want you twitching when you hear a video game startup sound because it reminds you of me making you edge for hours. I want to live rent-free in your pathetic little brain until you need to submit, to pay, to beg just to feel anything at all near your worthless cock.

What I Specialize In:
⭐️ Body & foot worship (you're lucky to lick me)
⭐️ Feminization (yes, I will lay your wigs, slay your makeup, and slut you out)
⭐️ Financial Domination (spoil me or get blocked)
⭐️ BNWO
⭐️ Impact Play (my marks look gorgeous on pale skin)
⭐️ Orgasm Denial (your frustration is my aphrodisiac)
⭐️ Humiliation (verbal, physical, creative--I'll make you cry)
⭐️ Roleplay (religious, therapist, step-mommy, and more--I love making it weird)

My World Outside of You: When I'm not collecting your dignity and your cum, I'm curating experiences worth having. Galleries. Classic films. Deep lore dives. Mixing tracks on my DJ controller. Planning my next trip. I refuse to compromise on quality--in art, in food, in submissives who know their place.

I work with devoted subs and Switches who understand: my time, energy, and attention are a commodity. My pleasure is earned.

To Apply: Send a clear, well-written introduction. Your experience. What you seek. What makes you hard and what makes you useful. Don't waste my time. Be prepared to submit reference(s), an updated LinkedIn profile, a valid ID, and other verification materials.

Now be a good boi and give me the attention, tributes, and ruined orgasms I deserve.

My qualifications

5 years of experience

I have been in the kink community for over a decade, and I have been working digitally for the last five years in fetish content. I am looking for more fetish clients -- both irl and in-person-- for feminization, body worship, and foot fetish sessions.

Career highlight

My career highlight has been working with several orgs about swer rights, advocacy, and also teaching writing classes for other swers.

Education and training

I am a master-degreed person whose work is centered around marginalized identities, sex, kink, pleasure, body politics, and liberation.

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FAQ

Will I have to undergo a verification process?
Yes. Verification will be conducted before booking which includes but is not limited to sharing valid form of ID, answering a brief questionnaire, and references from other providers.

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