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Tantric Massage Ritual Date Night - Amsterdam

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DateMon, Nov 9 · 7:00 PM
FormatIn person
LocationAmsterdam
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✨ Tantric Massage Ritual Date Night ✨

Monday November 9th 2026 | 19:00 – 22:00

Do you and your (occasional) partner feel like indulging each other completely? Connecting, softening, and finding real, juicy depth together? Would you like to learn to sense each other more deeply through ritual and touch, to melt into one another in a soft, sensual, stimulating and safe space?

Then the Tantric Massage Ritual Date Night is your unique date night. This evening is entirely for the two of you. Real time together, with nothing else pulling at your attention. Everything about the evening, the setting, the music, the welcome, the guidance, is designed to bring you closer. Our experienced team will guide you through exercises and conscious massage practices.

You'll do the exercises together with your partner, surrounded by other couples who are just as focused on each other as you are. That shared focus creates an intimate atmosphere. Together, we create a safe space where you can fully be yourself, comfortable, at ease. Through presence, deep contact with yourself and your partner, and inspiring demonstrations, you'll bring your relationship to a new level.

PLAYFUL CONTACT WITH YOUR PARTNER

This is a consent-based evening in which you and your partner explore different layers together through practices, explorations and invitations. Exercises that teach you to read each other without words. Moments of pure sensation through touch. Rituals that invite you to relax and shift from thinking into feeling. Playful and light one moment, deep and intimate the next. It's all about your boundaries, your pace, your choices. A gentle connection through body and ritual; attuned, respectful, with crystal clear agreements.

🌿 What can you expect?

✨ Tantric and massage moments with your partner

✨ Intuitive exercises that deepen and soften your relationship

✨ A ritual where you surprise each other with delicious treats

✨ Working with a blindfold to sharpen your other senses

✨ Attention to consent and self contact

✨ Touch over clothing or on bare skin, only if both partners want that

✨ A warm, safe, relaxed setting where you stay in control

✨ Guidance throughout the evening from experienced facilitators and space holders

The most important rule: you decide together, in the moment, what feels right. Saying no is always welcome. It's not a rejection, just a direction. What you want can shift from moment to moment, even after you've said yes to something.

This evening isn't about sex, but about the wide spectrum of sexuality: conscious touch, feeling, receiving, giving. If you're not feeling especially sexual, if you're on your period, tired, or simply low on energy, this evening is just right for you. You'll attune to each other, so you can give and receive exactly what's needed in that moment. Nothing is expected of you, and all of you is welcome in the ritual space.

💫 FOR WHOM?

💜 Anyone curious about conscious touch in a safe, ritual setting

💜 Couples or occasional couples looking for an evening of connection

💜 Beginners and experienced tantra lovers alike

💜 All genders and orientations welcome

No massage or tantra experience needed. Curiosity, openness, and respect for yourself and others is all it takes.

HOSTED BY

Jaco of Connected Touch and Linde de Ruiter

Jaco is a holistic bodyworker and pleasure guide with over ten years of experience as a masseur, teacher, coach, tantrika and energy worker. His mission is bringing more flow and energy into life, for individuals, couples and groups. Through his company Connected Touch, he offers tantric massages and sessions, intimacy coaching, cuddle sessions and healing. His work weaves together touch, sensuality, mindfulness and relaxation. And dance! (www.connectedtouch.nl)

Linde de Ruiter is a psychologist and integrative counselor. Her work centres on relationships, based on the belief that we're always connected to each other, we just forget sometimes. You don't need to do more, only to let go and discover what's already present. Drawing on her knowledge of tantra and attachment, she warmly invites you as a couple to journey together into your inner world, where there is so much to discover.

(www.praktijklindentree.nl)

🕯 PRACTICAL INFO

📍 Location: The Conscious Place, Isolatorweg 2, 1014 AS Amsterdam

🕖 Time: 19:00 – 22:00, doors open from 18:30

👕 Dress code: comfortable, sexy (if you're feeling it) and easy to remove (layers help)

🧘 Setting: consent based, guided and safe

🗣️ Language: Dutch, or English if non Dutch speakers are present

👥 Supervision: experienced facilitators present

✨ Come connect, feel, and discover, at your own pace, on your own terms.

Step by step, touch by touch, with respect and space for who you are.

QUESTIONS OR DOUBTS?

Feel free to reach out! 06-10951899

How it works

  • 1Once you click I am interested, jaco will be notified by email
  • 2Sensuali does not process payments for any in-person services in this category
  • 3They will then contact you to arrange a date and time
  • 4Please email us at contact@sensuali.com if you have any questions or issues with your booking
  • Enjoy your experience!

Frequently asked questions

Yes.. and no. We will be rotating the massage partners quite a lot, to be able to meet as many persons as possible. But anytime you do not feel okay to massage with someone, feel free to ask for another partner. We will start the evening with small, tantric and clothed exercises consisting of connecting and touch and build towards short massage exchanges, but all within your own boundaries and desires.

We suspect there will be English speakers present, so the evening will be conducted in English.

No. The policy is that underpants stay on and there will be no genital touch whatsoever. It's up to you to partially undress or not. You comfort is more important than any guideline.

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