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MiaL

Tulsa OK US

Where the body becomes the teacher and pleasure becomes the path...

Massage Therapist Sexologist Speaker Tantric Practitioners

4 services, 3 events

About me

My experiences are for Everyone
I offer experiences In person & Online/Virtual
50s , Female , Bisexual
I speak English

Somatic Practitioner · Embodiment Coach · Tantric Educator · Sex, Love & Relationship Coach

Your body has always known something your mind has been trying to catch up to.
My work is about closing that gap — not through willpower or performance, but through the slow, patient intelligence of the body itself. I draw from somatic practice, Taoist and Tantric lineages, Thai Massage, intuitive movement, breath work, and emotional alchemy to help people return to their erotic aliveness. Not as a concept, but as a lived experience.
Whether you're navigating numbness, shame, disconnection, or simply a quiet hunger for something more — this is a space for that. All of it. Without apology.

Who this work is for- It's for all beings!
For all genders and orientations: Erotic aliveness isn't a destination with a fixed address. My practice welcomes people across the full spectrum of gender identity and sexual orientation. If you're curious, if you're stuck, if you're hungry for something you don't quite have words for yet — come as you are.

For women: You're good at being good and strong.This work is an invitation back into your body as a source of pleasure, power, and wisdom — not a problem to manage. Whether you're healing from numbness or disconnection, moving through shame around desire, or simply ready to take up more space in your own life, you belong here.

For men: Tired of sex as something to perform or prove? My work with men centers on slowing down, building genuine embodied presence, and expanding what's possible in your erotic life — beyond goal-orientation and into full-body sensation. Whether you're working through shame, anxiety, rapid ejaculation, disconnection from desire, or just ready to go deeper, this is a space without judgment.

Training & lineages
Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching Certification- Layla Martin
Non-Linear Movement Method - Michaela Boehm
5 Rhythms Movement Medicine- Kate Shela, Gabrielle Roth, Lucia Horan
Taoist Sexual Practices- Loren Johnson, Mantak Chia
Universal Healing Tao- Mantak Chia
Feminine Qigong- Minke de Vos
Genital DeArmoring- Rahi Chun
Somatic and Embodiment Facilitation
Breath work & Emotional Alchemy
Conscious Kink

If you've made it this far, something in you is already listening. I work with people who are serious about this — who want skilled, grounded guidance, not just inspiration or fantasy. Your experience deserves that. I'd love to begin with a conversation.

* My services accommodate people with disabilities or access needs

If you have any questions, do not hesitate to
message me .

Experiences I offer

4/7

Somatic Self Love event

Somatic Self Love

From $18 Online

19 May 2026 | 22:00

For Women: Somatic Self Love is a class about replenishment. Drawing from Taoist practices and femin...
Eros Alchemy event

Eros Alchemy

From $18 Online

26 May 2026 | 04:00

Eros Alchemy: Monthly group class for all genders: breath work, intuitive movement, emotional alchem...
Coming Home to the Body event

Coming Home to the Body

From $25 Online & In-person

05 Jun 2026 | 03:30

Coming Home to the Body is a gentle, experiential workshop for women designed to help you reconnect ...
Self-Pleasure Coaching- Men service

Self-Pleasure Coaching- Men

From $150 Online

Self-Pleasure Coaching for all men: Private online sessions for developing a conscious, embodied sol...
Self-Pleasure Coaching- Women service

Self-Pleasure Coaching- Women

From $150 Online

Self-Pleasure Coaching for Women: Private sessions for developing a conscious, embodied solo pleasur...
Somatic Sexuality Coaching service

Somatic Sexuality Coaching

From $250 Online

1:1 Coaching Containers: Deep-dive coaching for all genders — somatic, relational, eroticThese sessi...
Pleasure Mapping Session service

Pleasure Mapping Session

From $165 Online & In-person

Awaken Your Pleasure and explore what you really wantThis work is for anyone who wants to explore to...

My tags

FBSM Lingam Tantric Boundaries Communication issues Conscious Sexuality Couples coaching Embodiment Intimacy coaching Online Courses Pleasure education Self exploration Sex coaching Somatic Sexology Understanding Desire Breathwork Dating advice Gender Exploration Pleasure Mapping Queer sex coaching

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