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Experiences I offer

About me

My services are for

Women, Men, Couple, Non Binary, Trans, Gender fluid, Intersex

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

30s · Non Binary

I speak

English

Hi, I’m Nicky. ♡

I’m a queer, gender-expansive creative, erotic filmmaker, intimacy coordinator and sex educator. Much of my life and work revolves around exploring the relationships between our bodies, sexuality, identity, culture and spirituality.

My practice is informed by Black and Indigenous ways of knowing, queer liberation, Afro-Caribbean spirituality & land-stewardship, astrology and somatic experiencing. I believe in pleasure as a guide. It can teach us about boundaries, relationships, our histories and who we get to be in the world. There’s so much freedom in allowing ourselves to be curious.

Through my work, I create opportunities for people to explore these ideas in conversation, education, creative collaboration and shared experiences. Some days I’m behind a camera making erotic art. Other days I’m researching, documenting my experiences, playing with rope or chatting about everything and anything rooted in pleasure..
So come curious & come as you are!

My qualifications

6–10 years of experience
5 qualifications

I offer queer-centered intimacy coaching/ coordination, sexual education and carefully curated erotic experiences for individuals and couples.

Education and training

  • IDC Accelerator Program SAG Intimacy Coordination Training, 2025–2026
  • Intimacy On Set Movement & Consent in Scene, 2024
  • Red Cheeks Academy Intimacy on Screen Certification, 2023
  • The Amina Institute Certified Intimacy & Sex Coach, 2022
  • The Embody Lab Trauma-Informed Space Holding, 2022

Career highlight

Intimacy Coordinator for Netflix’s Free Bert and other independent erotic productions, advocating for performer agency and safety.

Videos

Photo gallery

Services & Tags

Muse Educator Erotic creator Conscious kink Educational 1 on 1 Menstrual education Polyamory Sex toy advice Erotic Art Fetish Modeling Naturist Nude Modeling Conscious Sexuality Couples coaching Couples Tantra Custom-made art Energy work Erotic massage Erotic photography Erotic Videography FBSM Intimacy coaching Orgasm control Pelvic Floor Private Workshops Queer sex coaching Relationships Sex magick coaching Somatic Sexology Tarot Reading Trauma healing Artist Breathwork Collaboration Gender Exploration Pleasure Mapping
Practitioner Darling Nicky Intimacy is an art. Pleasure is a practice.
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