Introduction to kink and BDSM
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Most people arrive here with a feeling they haven't quite named yet. A pull toward something. A fantasy they've returned to more times than they'd like to admit. A curiosity about power, sensation, surrender, or control that they haven't known how to follow, or who to follow it with.
This is where we start.
In these coaching sessions, I offer you a guided, unhurried space to explore what actually turns you on, what your desires are telling you about yourself, and how to begin moving toward them. With clarity, confidence, and care.
Together we might look at:
- What your kinks and fantasies are really made of, and what they might be pointing to
- How to understand your own erotic landscape: your edges, your curiosities, your limits
- How to communicate your desires to partners, old or new
- Where to find the kink world: communities, events, spaces, and platforms that might be right for you
- How to enter those spaces safely, respectfully, and as fully yourself
I draw from over a decade in Berlin's kink and BDSM scene and from my own lived process of sexual self-discovery.
I came into BDSM myself ten years ago after breaking out of a decade long dysfunctional and sexually unsatisfying relationship, and dove in, head first, on the deep end with little guidance or anyone to hold my hand. Driven by longings I had buried for so long, I went on to reclaiming my sexuality and find an aliveness that reignited me and brought me back to life. Yet, I remember and I know how disorienting it can be to want something you have no map for. I also know how much opens up when someone finally hands you one.
We'll build yours together.
In my sessions I'm happy to share candidly from my own experiences, my trials and errors, my mistakes and my wins. At the same time, I know that every journey is different and I always meet you where you are with your unique fears and hesitations and most importantly your curiosities, dreams, desires and yearnings.
Sessions are held online or in person.
Single sessions and ongoing packages are available and can be shaped around where you are and where you want to go.
How it works
- 1Once you click I am interested, Enanna will be notified by email
- 2You will be contacted to set up a date and time and let you know how to pay, if applicable
- 3Please email us at [email protected] if you have any questions or issues with your booking
- ✦Enjoy your experience!
Frequently asked questions
Nope, this offer is for you whether you are completely new or have just started dipping your toes in. I'm happy to take your hand and guide you from your unique starting point.
No, I'm happy to offer in person sessions in Berlin (or elsewhere if I happen to travel to your location or city on one of my travels).
In principle they are talk sessions, but I'm open to creating tailored training that involves practical BDSM and kink skills as well, from ropes/shibari to domination/submission, impact play, breath play, sensory play etc. In addition I offer shibari and light BDSM sessions that can be booked separately. Get in touch and we find the path that is right for you.
More services & experiences I offer
Other ways to work with Enanna
Coaching for aspiring professional bodyworkers
One-on-One CoachingFor women building a practice in sensual or kink-based work—You've been thinking about it for a while. Maybe you already offer sessions informally. Maybe you're starting from scratch, with a skill and a desire and no idea where to begin. Either way, something in you is ready to do this seriously, on your own terms, with your own boundaries, and with clients who are genuinely right for you.What you need is someone who has done this, sitting across from you, looking at your specific situation and helping you think it through.Someone who understands the particular terrain of this work: the beauty of it, the complexity of it, and the very real practicalities of building a life around it.That's what this is.In our sessions we work with what is most alive for you right now, your offering, your pricing, your communication, your safety systems, your brand, your confidence. I bring a decade of experience in kink and BDSM and three years of experience offering professional Shibari and BDSM sessions in Berlin. With a professional background and two decades of experience in communication design and creative art direction, I can also offer valuable pointers related to your personal branding and promotional materials. In our sessions, I'll share it without filter: how I started up and made 1.5k from sessions in my first month to tripling that over the course of my first six months, all my trials and tribulations with communication, onboarding and boundary setting, what worked, what didn't, and what I'd do differently.No curriculum. No fixed arc. Just focused, practical support, shaped entirely around where you are and where you want to go.Single sessions and ongoing packages available.I look forward to working with you and helping you launch your new side-hustle or full time endeavor.
Co-topping Shibari Session
Ready to surrender, let go and feel held and seen, not only by one set of hands and eyes, but two? In our co-topping sessions all the focus is on you, all of the time. When one of us is busy with the ropes, the other is right there with you and vice versa. When we tie together, we work fluently, but with twice as many limbs and eyes, passing the rope, and you, between us. The focus of our sessions are deep connection, trust and surrender. We create a space for you to lean in and be held, allowing you to fully let go and be present in your body. With us. In the moment. Let us guide you. Through pleasure, catharsis, and release. Words from Sensuali's Pauline Marie-Antoinette about her co-tying experience with us:"From the first touch, the shibari co-tying unfolds like a quiet dance between three bodies. The energy between Ena and me is playful, feline, sensual. There is teasing, subtle flirtation, a delicious cat-like presence that keeps me alert and alive. Roxu’s energy is grounding and steady. I feel held, truly held, by the integrity and precision of his presence.What touches me most is the depth of their connection with each other. Their trust, complicity, and attunement are palpable, and through the co-tying, they extend this energy to me. It feels like a privilege to be invited into such an intimate relational space.They move my body gently. At first, my instinct is to help, to participate, to stay useful. Then, slowly, I let go. I surrender to being moved. The ropes tease my skin, tightening and releasing. Ena’s fingernails awaken my skin while pressure points activate deeper sensations. A feather brushes my body. A hand grips my legs firmly enough to release moans and intuitive sounds where pain and pleasure blur together.My mind softens.Presence takes over.I feel cherished, like a gourmet feast they savour and handle with care. The balance of their energies on either side of me is exquisite. Ena keeps me suspended in desire with her teasing presence, never giving me quite what I want, keeping me suspended in desire. My sexual energy rises, vibrant and alive, without needing an outcome.Roxu moves my body and ties me further with such a comforting, firm presence."How does it work? Before a sessionPlease write to express your interest in a session, including some information about yourself. We’ll respond within 24 hours and will send you a small questionnaire that helps us gain a better understanding of you, your wishes and boundaries. We'll send you a link to our booking calendar so we can find a date and time that fits all of us. Before we meet, we’ll schedule a quick phone or video call to get a feel for one another. To confirm your session, we ask that you put down a deposit of 50% of the agreed upon fee. The sessionIn our soothing space, we’ll discuss your wishes and boundaries over tea (15-20 minutes). Depending on your desires, experience and abilities, we tie on the floor, with suspension or partial suspension. Each session is unique and adapted specifically to you. Sessions last a minimum of 2 hours and up to 3,5 hours. The duration is agreed upon beforehand. Every session involves aftercare and a debrief and post-session check in. Please read! Sessions are intimate, sensual, and erotic, but not sexual (no genital touch, BJ, HJ etc). Hygiene is essential—arrive freshly showered and without strong perfume.
Shibari Private Tuition
Ready to dive in and learn the ropes, or perhaps deepen your practice? Together with my partner Roxu, we teach beginners to advanced students through private one-on-one to small group tuitions (max. 4 couples). We have 16 years of experience with Shibari. Roxu has been practicing as a rigger for 10 years, training with renowned teachers from around the world. I started as a rope model in 2019 and quickly picked up the ropes, learning to tie alongside getting tied. We uniquely create all of our content together and teach as an equal team, offering invaluable input from both rigger and model perspective. We offer tuition in two distinct directions of content (styles of Shibari), based in what we are both most passionate about and how we tie together, and we will help tailor your sessions according to your personal goals and visions in ropes. Sensual & teasing ropes Focused on connection, communication, body movement, sensual tease and denial, this direction is our personal interpretation of Aibunawa (aka Caressing Rope) and ideal for those who want to stay on the floor and are interested in exploring a more erotic, fluid and flirty way of tying. Technical & tormenting ropes If you wish to work your way towards spicy predicaments, partial and full suspensions, our interpretation of Semenawa (aka Tormenting Ropes) is highly technical and precise without losing focus on connection and play. Training in the two directions can be combined, all though preferably not in the same session. We are happy to help tailor a training program for you that suits your needs, goals and level. Training takes place in either of our studios, in Kreuzberg or Prenzlauerberg. Get in touch with a small introduction about yourself and your intentions. We look forward to meeting you! X Ena & Roxu enaroxu.com
Sensual Shibari Session
Ready to surrender? Do you long to let go? To be held? To feel seen?Let me catch you. In my ropes. I offer professional and safety oriented Shibari sessions in my Kreuzberg Studio. The focus of my sessions are deep connection, trust and surrender. Let me create a space for you to lean in and be held, allowing you to be fully let go and be present in your body. With me. In the moment. Let me guide you. Through pleasure, pain, catharsis, and release. About meI've been practicing shibari as both a top and bottom for six years and have gained significant insight from both sides of the ropes. I offer a deeply empathetic and sensual approach and I tie with a desire to bring you all the things I love about being tied myself. Since I started offering sessions professionally three years ago, my proficiency has grown exponentially and I have gained invaluable experience tying people of all ages and sizes, responding to their individual needs and wishes. The vast majority of my clients have become regulars who come back frequently.TestimonialsA few pieces of feedback received after my sessions: It was my first experience with ropes and shibari, and I couldn't have found a better place for it. Such a peaceful room, with relaxing music and scents… I was able to let myself go quite quickly and enjoy the feeling of not having to do anything, but also not being able to do much. Among so many other things. Ena really piqued my curiosity and I want to come back there soon and continue on this path. M.—I approached Ena for my very first rope session because her soft, feminine vibe & strong presence resonated with me and the things I wanted to work on. And she did not disappoint. It was a thoroughly beautiful experience. Being guided and held by Ena & her ropes felt deliciously calming. And definitely was a gentle first introduction to letting go.S.—After a session with Ena, I was able to forget my worries and struggles for a short time and surrender fully to my own innermost dreams. Just by her listening to me and hearing what I had to say, I felt welcomed and positively empowered. Both on a personal and physical level, I feel her warmth and compassion for me! Your R—It was with shaky hands, that I rang your doorbell before our first session. But as soon as you opened the door, welcomed me to sit on your sofa and I had my first sip of tea, I felt better, and with every word we spoke I felt at ease. You took away all my fears and shyness with your calming manner. As we sat down on your tatamis and I felt your closeness and warmth, we breathed together and the first ropes wrapped around me, I was completely enchanted. You are not only beautiful, but also a master with the ropes. Every second I was allowed to spend in your ropes was a highlight. To my amazement, you even let me fly, which I really enjoyed! I had full confidence in you and your skills throughout. I love to look at the pictures you took of me and relive every moment. THANK YOU for this unforgettable session!!!A.How does it work? Before a sessionPlease write me to express your interest in a session, including some information about yourself. I’ll respond within 24 hours and will send you a small questionnaire that helps me gain a better understanding of you, your wishes and boundaries. I’ll send you a link to my booking calendar so we can find a date and time that fits both of us. Before we meet, we’ll schedule a quick phone or video call to get a feel for one another. To confirm your session, I’ll ask that you put down a deposit of 50% of the agreed upon fee to my PayPal account. The sessionIn my soothing space, we’ll discuss your wishes and boundaries over tea (15-20 minutes). Depending on your desires, experience and abilities, we tie on the floor, with suspension or partial suspension. Each session is unique and adapted specifically to you. Sessions last a minimum of 1,5 hours and up to 3 hours. The duration is agreed upon beforehand. Every session involves aftercare and a debrief and post-session check in. Please read! Sessions are intimate, sensual, and erotic, but not sexual (no genital touch, BJ, HJ etc). Hygiene is essential—arrive freshly showered and without strong perfume. I’m a highly sensual, empathetic and attuned conscious kink educator and bodyworker. I’ve been active in the kink/BDSM scene for eight+ years, practicing Shibari for six and giving private sessions for the past two.
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Introduction to kink and BDSM
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