ReflectorForHire
Content creator, Muse, Photographer, Artist, BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Educator, Massage, Retreat, Therapist & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Gender fluid - Pansexual, Demisexual, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
Reflector For Hire is the professional alias of Iryna, an event organizer and coach specializing in immersive experiences that blend somatic healing, ritual, and conscious kink. Her work is designed to help individuals regulate their nervous systems, enhance emotional resilience, and foster a deeper mind-body connection. Iryna curates transformative events such as the “Shamanic Kink Immersion”, "Tantric Somatic Immersion for Practitioners", and “Voyage into Presence,” which are multi-day retreats focusing on self-discovery and connection. These events are crafted to provide intimate, supportive environments for deep personal work.
salemthesadist
Artist, Content creator, BDSM, Kinkster & Educator
Services are In person
Non Binary - Queer
New York NY US
Mistrix Salem X is a professional Dominatrix and Shibari practitioner based in NYC. Working in the industry since 2018, they started learning to tie in 2021. Mistrix Salem quickly fell in love with rope due to its connective, grounding, and adaptive nature. They believe rope is for every body regardless of size, dis/ability, gender, race, etc. As a Dominatrix they hold true to the same principles—a session with them is an opportunity to explore both lofty fantasy and deep presence in the body, in a safe, consensual, and non-judgmental space. As a sensual sadist, Mistrix Salem's style of play juxtaposes softness and challenge. They craft an environment wherein one can explore their edges, with the promise of a soft landing. As a seasoned lifestyle and professional player, they know how to create a memorable and unique experience while holding space for the complexities of each individual's desires and limits. Their skillset spans a wide range of kinks/fetishes, from semenawa-style rope, to singletail whip throwing, to CBT, wax play, and more. Mistrix Salem has garnered attention nationally and internationally for their Shibari performances. In NYC, they’ve performed and house-topped at events like House of Love, City of Gods, Feral, Bruise, and SuciaQueer. In September 2024 they performed at Folsom Street Fair and Twisted Windows in San Francisco. In February 2025, they reprised their Twisted Windows performance for Karada House’s virtual Queerope. In addition to offering private rope suspension sessions, Mistrix Salem teaches rope in both class and private settings. Their approach to rope education emphasizes risk awareness, consent, and tying in a way that feels organic and connective rather than prescribed and pattern-based. They are available to provide rope and rigging for a variety of projects, from music videos, to content collaboration with other SWers. Inquiries into Mistrix Salem's services can be sent via DM, email ([email protected]), or their website.
SirKane
BDSM, Kinkster & Massage
Services are In person
Trans - Queer
New York NY US
• Trans Male • Sensual Sadist • Strap Enthusiast • Mean Impact Top • Great Massages • Amazing Company Feel free to ask any questions!
oakjourneys
BDSM, Erotic audio & Coach
Services are In person
Non Binary - Pansexual
New York NY US
Your Multitalented Pansexy Prince
MistressNatalie
Content creator, BDSM, Kinkster & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
New York NY US
Iconic New York City based pro dom who specialized in luxury domination. I have the most extensively equipped private dungeon in the city and love to explore the depths of kink, fetish, intimacy, submission and surrender. I am a curator of highly individualized experiences and building long lasting D/s relationships. I have been practicing my craft for decades and am not shy about sharing who I am. You can find abundant information on my website, socials, fan site, and podcasts. Looking forward to making new connections.
DamianKifaru
BDSM, Kinkster, Coach, Massage & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Male - Straight, Sapiosexual
New York NY US
About me: Facilitator, challenger, coach, bodywork, ritualist. Certified Integrative Trauma Coach I've been swirling around transformational work since the late 1900s and have worked with Fortune 100 companies, startups, NGOs, and healers all over the world. Speaking with and leading groups up to 1,800 people on 5 continents. One-on-one work is outcome based and intention fueled work. Maybe we have ongoing conversation, maybe I design custom rituals for you, maybe we dive into transformational/shamanic kink scenes. My top priority is your intention. Investment: •Sacred Sexuality Bodywork sessions typically last 3-4 hours (1,250 usd). • Custom designed rituals (2,000+ usd) • Coaching engagements- 3 months (10,000 usd, 1,000 usd/ month optional continuation). • Business engagements (strategy/consultation/challenging)- 6 months (30,000 usd) • Startup/Entrepreneur engagements- 3 months (8,500 usd) Testimonials: “I am quite in awe of the magic, beauty, and healing that has resulted both for me and many others that I shared these spaces with. Damian is also just a wonderful and absolutely hilarious human. I feel my life becoming more interesting and enjoyable around him. May we all be so lucky to get to work with someone like Damian!” “We all have deep inner knowings. Damian is adept at asking the questions that allow clients to intentionally connect with these personal truths. He functions as an ambassador, reintroducing parts of self that may have lost touch with each other. A session with Damian is like coming home to oneself.” “In ritual, the space held is so solidly anchored in loving neutrality that your being is safe to surrender to the deepest depths. A thoughtful deep listener, Damian conducts a space that satisfies each level of consciousness and welcomes your psyche to relax and receive the medicinal transmission. It is so powerful to feel so deeply held through a transformative process. Thank you Damian for your steadfast devotion to creating and holding powerful containers of transformation.”
MaleProDominant
BDSM
Services are In person
Male - Straight
New York NY US
I am a professional Dominant based in Brighton, London, but I travel all over the UK.
mistressivylenox
Content creator, Writer, Muse, Kinkster, BDSM, Coach, Educator & Workshop
Services are In person & Online
Female - Queer
New York NY US
Fiercely ambitious hedonist with a passion for loyal dogs, bratty beasts, and all kinky creatives/professionals.
chloeisgoodforme
BDSM & Massage
Services are In person
Female - Bisexual
New York NY US
Sensual & memorable
GoddessAviva
Content creator, BDSM, Kinkster & Coach
Services are In person & Online
Female - Pansexual
New York NY US
Making femdom & findom fantasies come to life, NYC & Boston based
Houston
Content creator, Artist, Muse, Photographer, Writer, Dancer, Erotic audio, BDSM, Kinkster, Educator, Coach, Massage, Therapist, Retreat & Workshop
Services are In person
Male - Bisexual
New York NY US