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Experiences I offer

About me

My services are for

Men, Couple, Women, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid

I offer experiences

Online/Virtual

Age & gender

30s · Non Binary

I speak

English

I am a relational and liberation-based psychotherapist. I blend modalities such as psychodynamics, somatic work, mindfulness, and narrative therapy. My areas of focus include trauma, relationships, neurodivergence, life transitions, grief, polyamory/non-monogamy, kink/BDSM, and other alternative lifestyles.

My approach is rooted through anti-oppressive, anti-racist, and social justice lenses. We live within various systems and institutions that impact how we navigate our lives in relation to each other. The trauma we experience can make us feel so disconnected and dissociated while also craving connection and grounding.

Through understanding our intersectional identities, we can start to process and unpack the ways we struggle to show up for ourselves and each other. Our identities impact the way we move through the world and understand each other.

For me, therapy is a process and a relationship. I believe in healing through authentic and genuine connection, a process that takes time and deep, gentle care. I am here to invite and support you in exploring connections to yourself, your communities, and the world around you. How can we explore what authenticity and integrity looks and means for you?

My qualifications


6–10 years of experience

I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in NY and NJ. I offer individual and couples/relationship therapy to LGBTQ+, neurodivergent, BIPOC communities around issues of relationships, trauma, grief, life transitions, and alternative lifestyles (non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, kink, BDSM, Leather, etc.).

Education and training

I received my Master's in Social Work from the Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College in NYC.

Services & Tags

BDSM Shibari Educator Bondage Domination Impact play Kinkster Leather Rigger Sensual Domination Submission Taboo Boundaries Conscious kink Counselling Educational 1 on 1 Relationships Self exploration Sexuality coaching Trauma healing Conscious kink Educational 1 on 1 Online Courses Polyamory Sexuality coaching Understanding Desire Body Art Body Painting Communication issues Dating advice Embodiment Fetish art Hair Pulling Kinbaku Kink coaching Kink events Kink Illustration Open relationship Psychological Play Queer sex coaching Rope bondage Rope switch Sex therapy Sex Toys Suspension Wax Play Artist Breathwork Connective rope Digital art

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