I love to experiment and explore sexuality and relationship dynamics. I'm an out of the box thinker and problem-solver, as well as straight talking with a warm and direct approach to my work. I don't let you hide behind your blind spots and call people in to accountability.

My personal experiences have very much influenced where I support people professionally. I have been married in a monogamous relationship with children, been in an open relationship, polyamorous, currently nesting with my ex-husband/children's father. I've tried Tantra, assist at Kink workshops, exploring my Domme - I love learning about myself, my limits, edges and shadows. My current relationship status is single and I'm exploring the world of SexTech by experimenting the possibilities of AI companionship linked to sex toys. My question is - how can the new world of AI and SexTech when approached consciously expand our self-awareness and pleasure capacity? I'm open and curious to what's available.

Called by my colleagues locally a Wayshower, many people come to my work for permission of what's possible on the other side. I'm the bridge between what you currently think is available to you and where you give yourself permission to try new things. As someone put it recently 'Carla isn't here to tell you who to be. She embodies what is possible, so you can remember who you are.'

Locally in the north of England I organise workshops and retreats for women and occasionally men, in-person. Online I offer 1-1 coaching work for men, women and couples. What I notice in the work I do 1-1, although people may come with a 'problem' around their erections, orgasm, mid-life struggles, dating issues, relationship conflict, mismatched libido, etc... what lies underneath all of that is learning to trust oneself, identify needs, ask for those needs to be met and also create and maintain boundaries where applicable.