I’m an Intimacy Mentor and Sacred Intimate who helps people explore desire, intimacy, pleasure, boundaries, and authentic self-expression through experiential, body-based work.

At the heart of my practice is a definition of intimacy that has come to shape both my life and my work: intimacy as sustained relationship with truth.

For me, intimacy begins with our capacity to stay in relationship with our own experience. Can I remain curious about my desire when I feel ashamed of it? Can I stay connected to my no when I think someone else wants a yes? Can I stay present with uncertainty rather than rushing toward clarity?

My sessions are an opportunity to practice this together.

I begin each session by guiding us through creating the agreements and boundaries for our time together that day. I’ll help you notice sensations of expansion, constriction, and hesitation in your body and use that information to identify and give voice to your yeses, nos, and not-right-nows.

With those initial agreements in place, the remainder of the session is shaped by what is alive for you: your desires, wants, needs, and curiosities. You don’t need to know these before reaching out to work with me or before you arrive at our session.

Sessions are responsive; meaning: we follow what emerges. That may include conversation, giving or receiving touch, holding or being held, exploring kink / a BDSM scene or dynamic, or something else entirely.

Touch may be sexual or non-sexual, including genital touch, and may be one-way or reciprocal. Either or both of us may be clothed or nude.

What makes this work distinctive is that it's alive and relational. We stay in relationship with ourselves, each other, and what's actually happening between us.

That means nothing is assumed or guaranteed. Consent is an active, ongoing conversation, and either of us can pause, ask for something different, say no, or change our mind at any time. The practice is learning to stay in relationship with what's true as it unfolds, not successfully arrive at a particular kind of intimacy.

I came to this work through my own practice of doing exactly that. As a trans person (FtM), staying alongside my experience has led me to make choices about my body, sexuality, relationships, identities, and ways of expressing myself that belong wholly to me—even when those choices have come with a cost. Staying in relationship with that truth, and allowing it to move me, has brought me into deeper intimacy with myself, others, and Life itself. I do this work because I want others to know that kind of intimacy is possible for them, too.

I hold a Master’s in Counseling, studied somatic work for four years in Luis Mojica’s Holistic Life Navigation community, and trained in Sacred Intimacy through The Body Electric School.