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About me

My services are for

Everyone, Couple, Men, Women, Non Binary, Trans, Intersex, Gender fluid

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

40s · Female

I speak

English

I help people explore the connection between sexuality and self-inquiry — two dimensions of the human experience that are rarely brought together. Many of us carry layers of shame, guilt, or fear shaped by family, culture, and religion, which can leave us feeling disconnected from ourselves and others.

My mission is to guide people with curiosity, to help shift fear into possibility and isolation into connection, so that sexuality can become a source of healing, self-knowledge, and liberation in all aspects of life. I create a safe(r), non-judgmental, and trauma-informed space where clients can question old beliefs, work through shame, and gently reconnect with their true desires and nature.

My work is grounded in my own lived experience. Raised in an oppressive religious sect in the conservative U.S. south, I know what it means to deny desires, to suppress self-expression, and to fear being seen. Through self-inquiry, research and consciously seeking out spaces where I felt safe to have new experiences, I found a sense of self-acceptance and belonging. I’ve created Sexual Inquiry to offer this possibility to others, through a collaborative, reflective space where triggers become possibilities for learning, and reconnecting with authentic eroticism becomes a pathway to more agency and freedom. My approach is multidisciplinary, blending two decades of experience as a curator and cultural producer with specialized training in Holistic Sexuality Education (CHSE) and Dr. Gabor Maté’s Compassionate Inquiry approach.

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FAQ

Who can benefit from this work? Do you have a specialty?
I am happy to work with people of all ages, gender identities, ethnicities and geographies. While I have deeper experience working with members of the kink, non monogamous and sex work communities, I also love to guide people who are just beginning to explore their sexuality. All experience levels are welcome!
What other types of support or exploration do you offer?
If you are curious to explore outside the office, I would be happy to be your guide to new sex positive spaces. These explorations may include going shopping for sex toys together, being your stylist, helping you to plan your first BDSM session, or even accompanying you to your first party. If you feel there is growth in exploring new spaces but don’t know how to start, I would be thrilled to be your guide.
What if Im not comfortable talking about sexuality yet?
That's completely normal and welcome. We go at your pace and honor your comfort level. Sometimes we start with general relationship patterns or body awareness. There's no pressure to dive into explicitly sexual topics. We can also discuss career, family relationships, or anything else that is present for you.
Are you open to collaborations or speaking opportunities?
Absolutely. I have moderated talks and workshops, hosted exhibitions and events, conducted research, designed products and created several working groups. Please get in touch to discuss your idea further!
How are sessions structured?
We begin with intention setting, creating safety and agency over your process. Then we shift info present moment awareness, asking, "what are you in touch with right now?" We also explore the sensations and feelings in your body. From there, we work on consciously exploring the beliefs you carry, consciously or unconsciously, and how they're impacting your relationships or sense of self.
What can I expect in a session?
Complete control over your process and pace, there is no agenda other than exploring what's present. Questions are always invitations, we respect your boundaries and comfort level at every step. Focusing on your innate wisdom and capacity for growth. A collaborative, reflective space for discovery
What are your rates and policies?
Our first 30-minute introduction call is complimentary and without any obligation to work together. My hourly rate is 90€ / $100, and I offer sessions on reduced rate or trade basis. I’m happy to discuss what works for us both. To maintain healthy boundaries, I prefer to keep digital social life and our work separate. Everything we discuss is completely private and will never be discussed outside our sessions. I use Proton Mail which is end-to-end encrypted and respected for their security features. For online sessions we can use Zoom or Signal for desktop, which is more secure.
What are some topics we might explore?
Sexual Identity & Expression. Intimacy & Relationships. Body & Pleasure. Power & Agency. However we can explore any topic that interests you in the moment!

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