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My services are for

Everyone

I offer experiences

In person · Online/Virtual

Age & gender

40s · Male

I speak

English

I am an intimacy coach, facilitator, and ethical hedonist dedicated to helping people explore desire, connection, pleasure, and authentic self-expression.

For nearly a decade, I’ve guided individuals, couples, and communities through experiences centered around conscious sexuality, communication, consent, power dynamics, kink, intimacy, and erotic exploration. My approach blends somatic awareness, authentic relating, tantra, and practical communication tools to help people deepen their relationship with themselves and others.

I believe pleasure is more than indulgence—it can be a pathway to self-discovery, healing, confidence, and liberation. Whether you’re exploring intimacy for the first time, navigating relationships, curious about power exchange, or seeking greater erotic freedom, I strive to create spaces that are welcoming, grounded, and free from shame.

My work is rooted in curiosity, compassion, consent, and the understanding that there is no single right way to experience intimacy. Together, we explore what feels true, alive, and authentic for you.

My qualifications

6–10 years of experience

For over 7 years, I have facilitated workshops, retreats, private coaching, and immersive experiences focused on intimacy, conscious sexuality, communication, authentic relating, power dynamics, and erotic exploration.

My work integrates principles from tantra, somatic awareness, consent culture, kink, and relationship dynamics to help individuals and groups develop greater confidence, self-awareness, and connection. I have guided hundreds of participants through experiences ranging from introductory intimacy education to advanced exploration of desire, embodiment, and conscious power exchange.

I am committed to creating spaces that are welcoming, non-judgmental, and rooted in choice, curiosity, and personal agency.

Career highlight

Founder of Conscious Play and facilitator of hundreds of experiences exploring intimacy, conscious sexuality, authentic relating, and power dynamics. Collaborated with internationally recognized educators and led workshops, retreats, and community experiences around the globe.

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Where you can find me

Austin, US

Home base

Houston, US

Travels to

Alexandria, US

Travels to

Exact address is shared privately once a session is confirmed.

FAQ

What can I expect from a session with you?
Each session is tailored to your goals and comfort level. Together we may explore communication, confidence, desire, intimacy, touch, sensuality, power dynamics, or erotic self-discovery in a consent-forward and judgment-free environment.
Who do you work with?
I work with individuals, couples, and curious explorers from a wide range of backgrounds. Many clients seek support around intimacy, confidence, communication, kink, sexuality, relationships, and self-expression.
I’m curious about exploring intimacy with men. Can you help?
Yes. I offer a supportive space for men interested in exploring attraction, sensuality, touch, power dynamics, and connection with greater awareness and intentionality. Exploration is approached with care, communication, and consent.
Do you offer access to your vetted events and play spaces?
Some clients pursue coaching as preparation for entering conscious erotic communities and vetted events. Participation is never guaranteed, but coaching can help develop the communication, self-awareness, and consent skills needed to navigate these spaces responsibly.

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