The F*ck Yes Club Weekend

The F*ck Yes Club Weekend is a sanctuary for women and AFAB non-binary folks curious to explore the roots of erotic embodiment, rituals of reclamation, and belonging in courageous community.

This weekend is about finding your F*ck Yes, and feeling how empowering that is.

Your F*ck Yes lives in your body. It speaks in sensation, in breath, in the quiet knowing that something is right for you. This weekend, we create the conditions for you to hear it, and to express your full self, attuned to others, without needing to justify or apologise.

So much of what we've been taught about pleasure is narrow. Performance-based. Dependent on a partner, a body part, a specific kind of sensation. I want to support you to shift that perspective somatically.

This weekend is about awakening and accessing different types of pleasure, through connection to ourselves, through the body, breath, sound, and movement. Through safety, and nervous system awareness. Through life force itself.

What to expect

We begin with a creating a container to support you to embody your felt sense of safety, in your body, and in our group. You will learn what you need in your Somatic First Aid Kit.

From that ground, we explore using breath, sound, movement, touch, placement of attention, and attunement. The weekend will be woven through with art, sensuality, solo practice, partnered practice, small group work, and one final pleasure activism ritual held by all of us together. Over the course of two days you will be guided through practices that reconnect you to your truest erotic nature, without any touch required. We practice welcoming pleasure on purpose, without chasing it, and being present with what is. Some parts of the weekend will be clothing optional.

Who this is for

This is for you if you're feeling disconnected from your own sensuality or sexuality, you want to feel nourished by your connection to your body, you want to feel your own spark of aliveness again.

This is for you if you're tired of looking outside yourself for the answer. If you're ready to stop outsourcing your desire or access to pleasure to an expert, a guru, a partner, a culture that already told you what and who your body is for, and ready to become your own best internal authority instead.

This is also for you if you live with a chronic vulvar condition, vaginismus, vulvodynia, lichen sclerosus, and the genitourinary changes that come with menopause.

You don't need a diagnosis to be here. But if your old ways of accessing pleasure are no longer available to you, this work holds a different question: how else can you access full-bodied pleasure?

This is not a space where I hand you the "right" way to feel pleasure. There isn't one.

This is not for your partner, not for the people you take care of, not for anyone else's needs.

Everything here is an invitation. I guide you to move at the pace of your nervous system, participation can look like a many different ways: stillness, voice, movement, witness. All parts of you are welcome.