Ask A Sexologist
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Have questions about sex and relationships but feeling shy?
This monthly service gives you access to asynchronous communication with me via voice memos.
Each week you can leave me a voice memo and I will reply with answers to your deeply personal questions.
We can cover things like:
- relationship challenges
- deshamifying your desires
- how to talk to a potential partner about STDs
- navigating polyamory
- discovering your kinks
- exploring your LGBTQ+ side
- sexuality and aging
- recovering from sadness and pain after a major breakup
- getting your sexual needs and desires met in relationship
The connection is personal and intimate. I am like your erotic advocate helping you to navigate real world challenges.
Curious but not ready to commit? Set up a free consult and see if we are a good fit.
Let's dive in!
How it works
- 1Once you click I am interested, Ixchel will be notified by email
- 2They will then contact you to arrange a date and time
- 3Please email us at contact@sensuali.com if you have any questions or issues with your booking
- ✦Enjoy your experience!
Frequently asked questions
You can leave up to one voice memo per week. Each voice memo can be up to 10 minutes.
I will reply one time a week within 1-3 days of your message. My replies will be between 5-10 minutes.
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Ask A Sexologist
- Asynchronous Voice Memo Communication (1 month)40 min · send up to 1 voice memo per week and receive a personalized response $111
Free cancellation applies — arrange directly with the practitioner. A free Sensuali account is needed to message & book.
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